Girls, would you make the first move/talk on a guy who likes you but is too shy and nervous to do so?

[Anonymous]

Or would you ignore it?

Lets say it’s someone who likes you, but you have never failed to him before. Just a familiar face.

and if you make the first move, how would it be?

[Cj_Shway]

I know I'm not a girl, but probably not.
Few notes here
1. Women don't often make the 1st move.
2. That move varies by your desirability (very desirable=more direct : Less desirable= less direct/hints (no moves) no desire: none)
3. Desirability is usually linked to confidence.

I know it sounds cliche, but if you're feelin on a girl, make a move brotha.

[Asker]

Can you give examples of more direct moves vs less direct/hints

[kylee2437]

I’ll second this. Guy I currently talk to , I made the first move with BUT it was an attempt to become friends with him since we enjoy similar things.

[kylee2437]

How would I be able to know if he likes me, if he doesn’t make the first move?

[Asker]

Either through a mutual friend who told you, or some people have a feeling that someone likes them if they see the other person gets visibly nervous when they. show up.

The reason I’m asking this is because a girl who i dont know found out that i get nervous and has asked my why i do. I didn't tell her (i like her), but after that she has started talking to me more, has asked me if i have a girlfriend, touched me, etc.

[kylee2437]

Honestly , I would wait for him to approach. Friends say anything sometimes and will encourage it if they feel like two people should talk without addressing the reality. I would rather the person approach me and talk to me like a normal human being and hopefully I like them enough where I start actually hanging out with them

[Asker]

I see.

What if it’s the second case that i mentioned? He gets nervous when u are around and u think he likes u. Would u approach then?

[kylee2437]

Nope. He needs to learn how to break out of his shyness shell. If he likes me, that would mean he should have the guts to be able to pursue me

[Asker]

Okay.

Even if you liked him too (physical attraction because you never talked) would you still not try if you had a feeling that he is also attracted to you?

[kylee2437]

Depends, if he likes me based on more than looks he should be able to express that

[Asker]

But that’s the hard part

[kylee2437]

If you can’t open up your feelings for someone, that’s your loss essentially.

[Asker]

Yea you are right but i feel like if i try to talk to a girl i like she will think im a creep who is harassing her.

I’m lucky that the girl i like is initiating everything but i just can't tell if she is being friendly or flirty.

The things she has done that i consider to be signs are that she has asked me if i have a girlfriend, and then the next day she got kind of intimate with me. She was very close while we were standing and put her hand on my tummy and kept it there. You know like how sometimes couple pose for pics where the girl puts her hand on the guy’s stomach for some reason? Like that.

But i dont want to assume something that isn't there and then be embarrassed.

[LazerBean]

No, I wouldn't.

[Asker]

What if you thought he liked u and u do too? But he is too shy

[LazerBean]

I wouldn't want an incompetent man that I would have to lead.

[Anonymous]

over 90 percent of the time, no