Do girls lose interest when a guy waits too long to make a move back?

[Anonymous]

If a girl makes a move but the guy takes too long, lets say 8-10 months, does the girl lose interest?

[dynamicyandere]

It happens all the time.


Nice guys don’t finish last.


SLOW guys finish last, because they didn’t have the confidence to initiate so they stall and stall and stall.


The caveat is if the guy is able to create and maintain romantic tension between them and the girl.


But, that takes a lot of awareness, intuition, and the ability to read signals and send some back.


If there’s not even flirtation for a long time, a girl is highly likely to assume the guy isn’t interested and move on.

[_Maya_]

Yeah I'm not waiting around for almost a year for anyone. I will have moved on in my head and heart. Even if I wasn't dating someone I wouldn't revisit that because he would have shown me that he didn't have genuine interest in me then so I would think he doesn't have interest now or I was like a second or third option. It would be over as far as I am concerned.

[Asker]

What if the guy tells you after a year that he liked you/had a crush on you, would you still say no?

[_Maya_]

Probably because if he liked me that much he wouldn't wait a year would he?

[Asker]

I mean think about it this way. He still likes you after a year, dont you think thats positive?

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends on her. Many girls won't wait that long.

[Anemone978]

Yes.. if he doesn't know he wants me in that amount of time I assume he isn't interested..

[Asker]

What if he tells you after a year that he likes you?

[Anemone978]

Well it depends what I feel for him at that point.. I might still like him or I might hate him hahaha
If I liked him I would want to know what liking me meant to him and why it took almost a full year to tell me that..