Polls: Dating

I told some guys at the start that I'm not really interested in dating them. They said they were happy to be friends. A short while after, they again try to get into the dating zone with me. When I tell them again that I'm serious, that I'm really not interested in dating them, they cut me off and our friendship all together.

Girls put a lot of thought into who they'd want to date. If for some reason or another, I'm just not into you in that way, I mean it. There's no returns or second chances. Most of my girlfriends are the same. When I see a guy as a friend, and he starts ignoring me just because I was honest about not wanting to date him, it does hurt me and make things very awkward.

So guys, I just wanted to hear your opinion on this. If a girl you were romantically interested in friendzoned you, would you be happy to be friends or would you just drop them?

Hello :)

Guys!! I know that guys hate it when girls wonder if they are skinny enough, so that is why I'm asking on here :) I'm going to uni in September and I was just wondering what guys would prefer... I know that every guy is different so I'm asking for your personal opinion!!

Please look at the poll and select which one you prefer :)

Thanks for helping me out !!

I met a guy on Friday , we really hit it off. I sent him a pic of a joke we joked about Saturday night and he responded hahaha you would.

It is now Thursday and no contact from him at all? I'm not sure what the deal is. We spent all Friday /Saturday afternoon together. Could tell he was into me.

Is he just playing cool or maybe lost interest? I know he has a full time job and part time going to school for masters, so maybe he is busy? I don't know! HELP!

I know love knows no boundaries, it has no leagues, however based off first impressions people are selective when choosing potential partners before any bond is formed. I want to know how to figure out what league I should be aiming for. I want to know if I am being too picky or if I just need to get up enough confidence to show my interest in men I consider to be a great catch. These men are people I admire and respect, they are confident, kind, caring people with a strong character and physical strength and disciplined body and personality. I want to be able to look up to my man. But these men in attracted to are very admired and chased by many and quite popular so I don't feel I have a chance.
I myself am hit on by all kinds of men from ones who would be considered a lower 5or 6 to those people would consider an 8 or 9 (personality and looks) Although it is less common for 9s and it is usually 8s and 7s that hit on me. Is there a way to tell? I'm told I'm beautiful and cute and have a good personality and make friends quickly and easily although in kind of distant with attractive and popular guys cause I dont think they will care for me and I dont want to get attached to them...

Ok so I have been going out with this amazing funny guy named Daniel for a little more than a week now. We've both liked each other for ages. He's my first boyfriend and Im his first girlfriend, He's shy about hugging and holding hands but his friends always find away to get us to do that kind of stuff.

recently his friends have been saying he want to kiss me bad! and when we went to play out with him and 4 other friends (2 of his and 1 of mine) we went in to town and we held hands in public. We went to the shops and he bought some sweets and offered me some. I declined because I didn't want to seem like a pig lol. When he had to go he hugged me good bye but his friends started to chant "kiss kiss kiss!!!" he was really nervous and so was I, he friends dragged him to the side and talked to him, then he came back after a bit more teasing and shoving he walked up to me and gave me a kiss.. I was nervous like REALLY nervous and under pressure I turned my head and he kissed my nose... when I turned my head back he seemed to be really embarrassed that I rejected him..

im ready for him to kiss me but now im afraid things will be weird between us, his friends keep saying "why did you reject him?" or tap there nose when they look at me. Do I have to kiss him first now? what do I do? please help thanks

My friends think I am crazy to be so patient with a shy guy. I just honestly think he is worth the wait because he has awesome qualities about him that I like.

We have hung out 4 times and made out 3 out of the 4 times. I said once when we were kissing that I really like kissing him then he got a huge smile on his face and said well good. He is not much of a phone person so it's hard to read into what he is thinking. We hung out for the first time at the end of January. We text a little bit each week but he is just very quiet. I asked him the last time we hung out if I annoy him when I text him. (I only text twice a week, I don't want to over do it plus I have a life as well.) He said he doesn't mind at all but it's just that he doesn't have much to talk about.

I've had numerous other guys ask me on dates/to hang out but I have turned them down. I just am into this guy and want to give him a fair chance. The shy guy approached me in the bar to start things off. (We knew each other in the past and hung out a few times years ago but he was too shy to make a move. So I did this time.)

He told his friends that he was talking to me and I have a hunch that he mentioned me to his Dad. This weekend I asked him to hang out but he said that this weekend was not going to work because he had family things to help with and listed a whole list of items he needs to do. He is super close with his family. I just don't know at what point he will start initiating more things. Or if that was a brush off. We had a really good date night the prior weekend.

I am certainly not desperate, I could go on other dates but am choosing not to right now. I really want him and only him but don't know what I should write it off as he is not interested. Please help. What do I do now?

Shy guys please give me hope here or something!