Polls: Dating

Are women into men what are very fit or just not out of shape?

Seen as women are much more independent most of them think ‘why do I need a man?’ Because that’s all men were to women, a means to an end to provide a lifestyle 💳

In dating I feel i attract women because I’m tall, top high earning career, handsome. All superficial, status things. Not for me.

I genuinely feel women don’t actually like men. Just like you if you’re perfect. The reason I hate dating is because it’s mostly fake BS, women are far far shallower than men. They mostly all want the same superficial things.

You also don’t get women that were there for you when you had nothing or at your lows. I dunno.

Have or had

I know this one girl because of us being in the same scholarship cohort. Before I used to always notice her staring at me and even when I was stare at her back she continued staring until I looked away. With that I was 80% sure she was interested. I didn’t bother talking to her because I was interested in someone else at the time (well for a long time). Recently I thought about trying to talk to her or at least to get to know her more. I have her phone number but that’s only from the group chat for the cohort. I personally thought it’d be better to add her on Snapchat since it’d be more casual but I also feel weird that I would be adding her through search. I’m not really sure how to go about this since I don’t want to come off too strong since I’d love to be friends with her too. Also since I’ve know her I never really talked to her either. We have the same interests and all. I also could very much so be overthinking this too. What are your opinions on this? Never used this site but I would assume I can reply to people so if you have any questions just ask.

Also mention why?

Felt like we were building a genuine connection, I like to take things slow but never made it clear. I usually lead with friendship because thats important to me.

Her: so I’ve really enjoyed spending time with you and getting to know you, but I’ve realized I see us more as friends than anything else. I think you’re a great person, and I wanted to be honest about how I’m feeling. I hope you can understand

Me: I respect how you’re feeling, thank you for being honest with me. Not going to sit here & act like I had no interest in you early on. Definitely should have been more straightforward with you earlier on. Just want to tell you that you’re an amazing person, don’t ever change who you are. Wish you nothing but the best :)

Me: Hey, I just wanted to make sure there was no confusion in what I wrote. If the feeling is mutual I am open to a friendship as well

Her: Yes I'm opened to it, I just wouldn't be able to hangout til the new year

She is traveling for holidays.