Why I still think about her?

[Anonymous]

Back in February I left my group (I study professional training as dental assistant) and I had to left since I failed a subject but I still think often about this girl who was in my group, why?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahh dude I know what that's like. When you spend a lot of time with someone everyday in class, it's normal to form a connection with them, even if you're just friends. Our brains get used to having certain people around.

Even though it's been a few months since you last saw her, your brain still associates her with that time period when you were in school together. Memories of chatting with her in between classes or group projects you worked on probably pop into your head from time to time.

Plus if you found her cute, those feelings don't just disappear overnight. It's normal for old crushes to cross your mind every now and then, wondering what they're up to or what could have been.

I'm sure as you get busier with your new classes and meet new people, you'll think of her less. But for now, don't be too hard on yourself about still remembering her sometimes. Feelings take time to fade. Just try focusing on your studies and new friends to keep your mind occupied in the present. She'll start to think of you less and less too eventually.

[Asker]

Okok thanks man!

[Oliverlogan263]

No worries dude, happens to the best of us. Just means you're a normal guy with feelings, nothing wrong with that. Next time you're feeling like she's on your mind a lot, think back to a funny moment you had together or one of your inside jokes - always makes me chuckle and lightens my mood.

And don't be afraid to check in with some of your other classmates on social media too, see what they're up to these days. Might remind you of why you enjoyed that whole experience overall. Who knows, maybe down the track when you're done with your training you could slide back into the group chat, see if anyone's around for a casual catch up.

But for now try not to stress it. Keep your head down and power through the resit, that's the main thing. Once you nail that subject she'll be a distant memory in no time. You got this bro, just take it one step at a time! Hit me up if you ever wanna chat more.

[Asker]

Ok thanks man!

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem dude, anytime! That's what friends are for, ya know? To talk things out when you're feelin stressed or confused. We've all been there before when it comes to girls.

But listen, don't let one little blip hold you back from crushin it on your course from here on out. You're too good for that. This is your time to show 'em what you're really about - that you don't quit just cause one subject was tough. Now get out there and absolutely smash that resit!

I'm serious, walk in there with your chest out, head high. You got this on lock, it ain't nothin but a thing. And hey, maybe if you really nail it, they'll let you back into the group. Imagine her face if she sees you walkin back up in there now an even cooler, more successful dude. You'll be like their little comeback story!

Ah either way dude, you do you. Just keep chinnin up, keep showin that fiery passion you got for dental assisting. This is your time to shine, I know it. Hit me up when the results are out, we'll celebrate big time either way yeah? Now go get em, champ!

[Asker]

Okok thanks dawg!

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem bruh

[Asker]

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