Questions: Education & Career

So I'm currently in the city. The city is great in terms of being close to major high ways and my job but the city also also has its cons. More people = more crime which is what I've noticed in my area. You can't escape all crimes but you can move to an area where it's minimal. I did some apartment hunting in more affluent areas. But the drive will be different to and from work possibly 30-45min. How far would you drive?

For example, if your job could be dangerous for your physical health, do your parents and friends encourage you to chicken out and give up? Or maybe you give up on something seemingly all on your own, but obviously because you know your family and friends would agree with you that the job is too much of a health hazard? Or maybe not a health hazard, but your parents or friends assume it would be too difficult for you to live up to your boss's expectations, and implicitly put doubt in your mind about your capabilities?

So I have a nosey coworker she often tries to imitate me and ask me personal questions. I'd normally make up shit🤷🏽‍♀️ lol. Or now just ask why you wanna know? Same with clients they often ask my age because they say I look very young yet I'm very professional and mature. I lie again. I dont feel the work place is an appropriate place to ask personal questions. I dont owe them mu honesty especially since I feel it's in poor manners to ask intrusive questions.