Girls: what attracts you to a guy?

[Bluewaffulz]

what characteristics are attractive to a girl in a guy. What causes that gut-feel attraction? usually I see guys who are average looking get girls because they just have this mysterious vibe/aura to them.

[innabox]

honestly, there are rarely any times where a guy really stands out to me. maybe it's because I'm a little picky.. idk. but the type of guys that usually stand out to me are the ones that are confident, and like to talk, and joke aroud. the silly kind of guys.

and looks, it's usually tall dark and handsome. dark eyes. brown hair. not drop dead gorgeous, but cute. guys that are drop dead gorgeous usually know that they're super duper good looking, so they have big egos. that's a huuuge turn off for me.

oh and I like it when a guy is polite. that's always a plus.

[crypticXXinsane]

hmm.. I like the guys, that seem to be kinda like mystry guys :D but mainly, what I feel is that, at first is mainly friendship is what I go for, and for some reason I fall very hard forthem. to me they are just different then any other guy. also, I like to feel kinda helpful, I like to give them joy and happiness. so yea.. but that just how I am. I guess.. sorry I'm notmuch help.

[theatergeek145]

For me, its mostly how he treats me. A guy can be the ugliest on the face of the Earth but if he goes out of his way to be kind to me, why write him off? And also, we girls tend to survey a room when we enter. Most times, it is the guy who catches our eye. Now I'm not saying you have to go out and do something extreme to get us to notice you. Its an individual thing and it happens the way it happens; don't try to understand or try to change it.

[Sherbear101]

Wow... Hmm... Actually I'm not quite sure, all the guys I've ever liked were all different, but I think there was one similarity. I like guys who can make me laugh, and keep me laughing. I can't help it, I love to laugh, and I love guys who can MAKE me laugh.

[wtfamidoinghere]

Two words: EYE CONTACT. It does wonders to a girl, especially if you do that whole lingering-but-not-staring kind of eye contact. Also, girls love guys who can genuinely make them laugh without even trying and guys who are confident but not cocky.

[Anonymous]

Simple: kindness. Immature girls go after the "bad boy" type - but learn quickly - VERY quickly - these guys are scum. Honestly, if you want to land a good girl, be a good guy. In the long run, character is what matters most and for what you'll be most remembered.

[azulej]

there a few times someone stands out for me

1st. the looks...of couse...yes I'm kind of superficial ...everyone is

that he is nice

and how he treats other girls

He is caring and not that shy...

and yeah if there kind of mysterious that's a plus