Girls, how do you feel about showing cleavage? If you’re showing it do you want guys to look, respectfully, at it?

[brendon76]

[TinaSP]

I love cleavage and I love when a man stares on my breasts. I also love to stare at beautiful breasts so... Im all for it

[brendon76]

Wow so do I!! But of course I’m sure from my question you already knew I liked cleavage too... haha. What’s your favorite shirt/outfit that shows off your cleavage the best?

[TinaSP]

All kinds of clothes that show a bit of what men can desire or look but can't have it... all of them are great. And such a good feeling if you are not using bra. Nipples get hard and prettier

[brendon76]

Hard nipples are mesmerizing. I’m sure the men who get to see you are hypnotized with huge grins on their happy faces from seeing you flaunt it.

[TinaSP]

Now you are flirting hehe

[brendon76]

Oops is it that obvious 😉

[Anonymous]

Girls don't spend and hour or two in front of a mirror, just to NOT get looked at.

[brendon76]

Some girls on here are suggesting that they get all dolled up for themselves and not for who is seeing them. I’m not sure if I fully believe it, but it sounds like you don’t either?

[Opinion Owner]

If that's the case, then wouldn't women spend the same amount of time getting dolled up, just to stay home? lol

[brendon76]

My thoughts exactly!

[Opinion Owner]

A guy I work with told me a really funny story. So him and his wife were at home on a lazy Sunday, and her hair was a mess, she hadn't showered, and she was planning to just keep it that way for the rest of the day. But then they realized they were out of something, and she needed to run to the store.

Rather than finish the story, I'm going to let you piece it together. Do you think she went to the corner store looking the way she did? lol

[brendon76]

Right, exactly! That’s been my experience too. Good story/example by the way. 👌

[NicoletteKomotov]

Respectfully? More like lustfully. I want them to wish they could have access to them. I like wearing a shelf bra (Don't know why, but I can't post pics on opinions here anymore since it says I already posted two when I didn't. I would have posted one if I could) But a shelf bra lifts the breasts and leave the nipples exposed so they can be caressed by the fabric of the top. I also like to pair it with nipple-noose-necklaces that draw the eye to them and keep them nice and hard. It creates nice cleavage as well. If I'm showing my stuff, I'm doing it to gain interested parties.

[brendon76]

Well even without posting a pic you’ve made me an interested party. Can I come work in your office? I need to experience shelf bras and nipple-noose-necklaces!

[NicoletteKomotov]

Thanks!

[Poohbear2002]

I think that people should keep to themselves. The more you show off, the less valuable you are. If your'e ok with guys looking at you and trying to get too close then don't blame them and call them a perve because that's what happens. People give things up too easy, the saying "Why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free" is true. Save yourself!

Don't get mad, this is just MY opinion and this is my outlook. I hope that people understand where I am coming from instead of bashing my opinion.

[brendon76]

I completely respect your opinion. And I completely agree with the part that if you’re going to show it then don’t get mad when someone looks and call them a pervert. There is a little bit too much hypocriticalness from people flaunting it and then being mad when someone looks. As far as the cow and the milk, what about a tasting sample first to know if you want to buy the cow? Jk... about the last part.

[9teen]

I will never ever ever walk around showing my cleavage or anything that's meant to increase arousal in public. I have no idea how others girls love to be disrespected and to be seen as a moving sexual object (biology never stops) rather than a person. I freaking hate the attention.
Know me for my intelligence, peasants.

[brendon76]

Ok I respect what you’re saying and your thoughts about it but before someone can get to know you’re intelligent they only have he cover of the book to go on. Now I’m not saying you need to show any cleavage, but it is always going to physical first before someone can get to know you and isn’t it ok to help the physical appearance along first to get to the second part with intelligence?

[9teen]

I get you but I'm not seeking anything (romantically). A friendship doesn't need attraction rather if we could get along or not and that's personality based.
When people look at me they should see that I demand respect. It is no wonder the first impression I give to people is that they think I'm elegant and that I'm a person who holds tightly onto morals and respect.

[9teen]

When it comes to love, they dont need to see my body in order to determine whether they're attracted to me or not. Those who caught feelings for me, caught it because of my face, my way of thinking and my behaviour.

[9teen]

In other words it all goes respectfully and it's not just a matter of them wanting to get into my pants (which is the case that most girls face wearing revealing clothes) but they also seek out more, get attached to me and want to get to know me entirely.

[brendon76]

Ok but if you’re relying party on your face as well as your mind but your face is still physical and in my opinion has nothing to do with you mind. Now yes you could say the expressions on your face are from your mind and therefore your face is expression your mind and thereby they’re seeing your mind. Mmmm... I suppose. But I get your point and respect it. Thank you for sharing and for engaging in this conversation with me. It was intriguing.

[9teen]

Haha get me, I'm talking now about attraction and yes physical attraction is necessary to have something going on between two people but that doesn't mean I need to share my body. The face is what makes people attracted to others, the body is a bonus.
I mean I also, when I feel attracted It's because I see a handsome face which I like. I don't date random people based on personality, I gotta find his face attractive too.
Likewise!

[brendon76]

Yes I agree, I need to find her face attractive before anything else too. And honestly as long as I think she is pretty and I like her personality I’m not concerned with the exact specifics of her body.

[TigerFaerie]

My mamma always said , "if you've got it flaunt it" and that accentuating your good features detracts from your flaws. So if you have some cleavage popping then everyone isn't staring at your chub on your belly so much lol and for us big breasted girls it's very difficult to not have cleavage anyway so might as well go with it.

[brendon76]

I’d like to thank your mom. She sounds like a very smart woman! I’d never suggest hiding it either 👌

[TigerFaerie]

😁😁

[TigerFaerie]

Ack those smiley faces came out looking like grimaces on here haha

[g_cherie]

Interesting, well the anthropological way of thinking is that women dress up (aka show cleavage, lipstick, hair, ass implants ect) to compete with other women, not necessarily to show off to guys.

I personally do it because I love when men look at me and are hitting on me. WITH *CHARM* THO!! The pervy nasty "lets go to my place" guys are just sad.

[brendon76]

Interesting well thought out response, thank you!

[LisaLisa89]

We all know that there are plenty of men who like looking at cleavage, whether we like it or not. If a decides to dress in a way that makes her cleavage visible then she will be aware that men are likely to look.
I personally don't show cleavage (it would be difficult in my case anyway) because I don't want them looking - not that it stops some of them trying!

[brendon76]

That’s true. Guys can be dogs and will try anyway. Not that I’m promoting it. Just agreeing with you.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

When I look at myself in the mirrors and see the need to accentuate my cleavage, I do it because I see that it looks go on me and makes me feel good about myself. I wasn't thinking about how others will view me.

[brendon76]

But you know others, whether guys or not, will look regardless and especially if you have “accentuated” it. That doesn’t play into it at all?

[Bellagypsy]

Obviously, if girls showing it, It's possible that guys will look to it, most of guys always look at that part even girls are not showing it 😣. For me, i want guys to look RESPECTFULLY at it but now a days, is there anyone will do that? (respecfully) not showing the cleavage intentionally (only because of the type of dress)

[brendon76]

I agree. Today respect is not the same as it once was. I guess I was expressing the “respectful” part because that’s how I would handle it. But I see too often people in general being a**holes”. Here’s hoping society rights it self back upright soon.

[NanoThisNanoThat]

I don't mind showing it off but I don't do it so overtly - guys are going to look regardless so what can I do about it other than just walk off into the sunset ☀️

[brendon76]

... and leave them drooling 😉

[just_wondering_01]

Depends. Sometimes I'm just wearing it for me but sometimes I want looks. If I'm not flirting with you, assume you shouldn't be looking. (but I get it if you glance, I look good.)

[WhitneyLL]

If I’m wearing low cut top which would reveal cleavage, then I won’t bother if guys are staring at it.

[MlleCake]

I don't care who sees it, but no one should stare because staring is rude.

[brendon76]

I agree no one should stare. A respectful glance should be enough.

[Luana1983]

I'm ok showing it. If guys want to look, that's their business. We are only human.

[brendon76]

Good answer.

[Anonymous]

If I’m wearing a low cut top, it’s because my mum made me wear it—illusually be holding a folder or clarinet case in front of my chest or be wearing a scarf if this is the case

[brendon76]

Wow I don’t think I’ve ever heard of a mom making there daughter wear something low cut or revealing. Why does she make you wear it if you don’t like to?

[Opinion Owner]

Because she says it’s pretty on me and I should feel confident wearing such things -_-

[brendon76]

Maybe the confidence will come later. But also having confidence doesn’t mean you have to show cleavage so don’t think one is necessarily related to the other.

[brendon76]

Are you particularly large or small breasted that makes you more self conscious to show cleavage?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know, I guess I’m medium? My mum is small, so I don't know if she just doesn’t know how it feels or what 🤷‍♀️

[brendon76]

So is it just not your style?

[Opinion Owner]

Nah.. if I’m in my room alone it doesn’t matter—anywhere else it’s not something I do

[brendon76]

That’s ok, just keep doing what makes you comfortable.

[Opinion Owner]

Ja ja... have a great one

[anoynomous13579]

I do it respectfully but firstly for myself and women

[brendon76]

I understand doing it for yourself by why other women before men?

[anoynomous13579]

Uhm because I'm a lesbian

[brendon76]

Uhm then if you’re doing it for women isn’t that the same as doing it for a man if your were straight?

[anoynomous13579]

And I'm not straight that's why I don't do it for men

[brendon76]

Well no I get that but in your first answer it said nothing about being gay so I didn’t understand why you said you do it for women as opposed to men. It makes sense now. But I thought you were say only to women and not men and so I was just relating that it is being shown and regardless of sex it’s the same thing. That’s all. Thanks for your opinion and responding here.

[QueenofCups]

I only show it when I'm laying out on the beach or out partying.

[brendon76]

So not appropriate for somewhere like the work place?

[PinkChampagne]

I would show and would wear this kind of clothes but only for my boyfriend

[Bwize]

Not if your gonna do it all weird... and obvious... have some tact.

[Elliee__]

if your confident in your body might aswell show it off, thats how i see it

[brendon76]

It’s good to be confident in your body and appearance.

[ladydoor]

a love cleavage and usually do it for myself tbh, and if a guy (or girl 👀) looks than they look. just don't approach me or comment about it on me.

[brendon76]

Yeah I’ve never really understood how guys think approaching a woman about how she is dressed or looks and then thinks they will be able to smooth talk her and pick her up. Anyway that was the “respectful” part of the question. Because obviously there are guys that are a**holes and ruin it for the rest of us.

[Jean3333]

If its one of your best features there is classy and elegant looking cleavage that expresses femininity, and then there is look I am a whore with nipple stickers...

[brendon76]

Well I think I was going for “hey I’ve got nice cleavage” which is in between “elegant” and “whore”. Where do the nipple stickers play into this?

[Jean3333]

Too much cleavage and boob is not always a good thing, almost nothing is left unseen, that is what I was trying to express with nipple stickers...

[brendon76]

Got it. Yes I agree there is a fine line between the two. It’s like the plunging neck line dresses from award shows that look so elegant and amazingly as she is standing posing for pictures but not so elegant sitting, and getting in and out of a car. A bit left to the imagination is more sexy than seeing too more or seeing it all.

[Jesslin412]

I don’t have cleavage

[brendon76]

What about the area of your chest between your breasts like when the evening gowns have the plunging neck lines? I know that area is not technically called “cleavage”, but it’s the same thing in my opinion. Do you ever wear low cut or plunging neck lines with the same intention?

[Jesslin412]

No not with an intention

[sweetcherry87]

Look all you want. I don't have much.

[brendon76]

It doesn’t matter how much cleavage you do or don’t have, in fact even if you have none, the flat part of the chest between the breast is still nice to look at too especially in something with a plunging neck line. By the way I’d like to take you up on the offer 😉

[sweetcherry87]

😉😉😉

[Laura276]

Ill show it and enjoy the attention.

[brendon76]

What is your favorite shirt/outfit to show it off?

[Honglitha]

I've never showed cleavages but most of people did

[Yakasmashi]

Only do it to my boyfriend

[Pink2000]

I don’t show it on purpose