Girls, Good Outfits for a First Date When you are Fat?

Question

So I have a first data on Friday and I am kind of looking forward to it as it will be the first in a while.
Bad news is I gained a lot of weight during covid, on top of not being super skinny before, and now I am really big and not sure how to hide it for the date. I have also outgrown so many things I don't have a lot of clothes that still fit, so what should I wear?

Answer 1

Anonymous

No problem! Black is your friend. Do you own a black fitted turtleneck? Pair it with a blazer. Black leather pants are your best friend, you can't tell if you gained weight wearing them. https://www.aritzia.com/en/product/melina-pant%C2%A0/81518.html

You could also try a cowl neck sweater dress belted, with leather leggings and a blazer. If you have those items. Really all black. Trust me.

Asker

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Well I do have some black, but my only turtleneck is pretty tight on me. Maybe a black dress would be better?
Opinion Owner

28 d
Does it still fit and is it black? If so go for it with a jacket on top. Leather pants are perfect for hiding a bit of extra weight, do you own a pair? Trust me on this, you will look hot in this outfit.
Asker

28 d
I mean, I can get it on yeah, but it does not cover my belly :(
My leather pants won't even zip now
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Opinion Owner

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Darn!! Are you sure? Can you take a pic to see how bad it is? because that’s a perfect outfit!!
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If you message me I will show you
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CarolineHarper

Answer 2

Asker

Well I do have some black, but my only turtleneck is pretty tight on me. Maybe a black dress would be better?

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

Does it still fit and is it black? If so go for it with a jacket on top. Leather pants are perfect for hiding a bit of extra weight, do you own a pair? Trust me on this, you will look hot in this outfit.

Answer 4

Asker

I mean, I can get it on yeah, but it does not cover my belly :(
My leather pants won't even zip now

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

Darn!! Are you sure? Can you take a pic to see how bad it is? because that’s a perfect outfit!!

Answer 6

Asker

If you message me I will show you

Answer 7

Asker

CarolineHarper

Answer 8

Siren777 | 134 opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.

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Do you know what shape you are? Example hourglass, pear, apple etc? Then wear something flattering according to your shape in a darker colour. Accentuate you best feature.

Asker

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Eh, not really sure how to describe it? I am pretty fat, but it is spread all over. I am a DD cup and I have a big ass, but I also have a huge gut :(
Siren777

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When you gain weight where do you gain the most weight?
Stomach only?
Hips, butt, legs etc
Asker

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Belly is the most for sure, but honestly I am so fat now I don't know if it matters
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Siren777

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So you are apple shape. I can't see without a picture so I am assuming. Check out what looks good for apple shape body on google and wear something similar style in black.

Answer 9

Asker

Eh, not really sure how to describe it? I am pretty fat, but it is spread all over. I am a DD cup and I have a big ass, but I also have a huge gut :(

Answer 10

Siren777

When you gain weight where do you gain the most weight?
Stomach only?
Hips, butt, legs etc

Answer 11

Asker

Belly is the most for sure, but honestly I am so fat now I don't know if it matters

Answer 12

Siren777

So you are apple shape. I can't see without a picture so I am assuming. Check out what looks good for apple shape body on google and wear something similar style in black.

Answer 13

Little_Bumblebee | 50 opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.

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Something that makes you comfortable.

Since we have no idea how you look or what kind of clothes you have available, that's all I can answer.

Asker

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Well I said I outgrew most of the clothes and that I was fat, what more do you need to know?
Little_Bumblebee

28 d
Fat is a wide term honestly.
What you see as fat, might be different from someone else.
Also, your body type and how the weight is distributed can have a huge effect on everything.

Even though you outgrew most, you still have some clothes.
You didn't mention if you needed to buy something new or if you had to find something in your closet that can be flattering still.

You don't give much information. You ask what to wear, but don't give options of what you have or ask for suggestions of what you can buy.
Asker

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Ok, well I am 5'7" and 290 lbs so I think that is pretty fat. My waistline is 44" if I measure under my belly.
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Little_Bumblebee

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You can find flattering styles for your body.
If you don't feel like you have a waist, you can find a dress that goes loose after the breasts.
You can find a skirt that sits at the waist and a short shirt or top, accentuate your waist in that way.

You can also search for what others do and get some inspiration.

Answer 14

Asker

Well I said I outgrew most of the clothes and that I was fat, what more do you need to know?

Answer 15

Little_Bumblebee

Fat is a wide term honestly.
What you see as fat, might be different from someone else.
Also, your body type and how the weight is distributed can have a huge effect on everything.

Even though you outgrew most, you still have some clothes.
You didn't mention if you needed to buy something new or if you had to find something in your closet that can be flattering still.

You don't give much information. You ask what to wear, but don't give options of what you have or ask for suggestions of what you can buy.

Answer 16

Asker

Ok, well I am 5'7" and 290 lbs so I think that is pretty fat. My waistline is 44" if I measure under my belly.

Answer 17

Little_Bumblebee

You can find flattering styles for your body.
If you don't feel like you have a waist, you can find a dress that goes loose after the breasts.
You can find a skirt that sits at the waist and a short shirt or top, accentuate your waist in that way.

You can also search for what others do and get some inspiration.

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