When I was in college, I dated a black girl who immigrated here from Ghana. She was smart, had a great sense of humor, was in a better program than I was but had no ego about it whatsoever. She could cook, would back me up or support me with school or work even if she was already tired, and was just generally an awesome human being. We talked about race once in a while, but it didn’t matter because who we are as individuals was more important to our relationship than what the elites want us to fight about. She thought it was funny that I always wanted to touch her hair, but the way she had her braids done it didn’t matter. Her hair smelled amazing! I never found out what she did with it but I’ve never met a white girl whose hair smelled that good😆 She never gave up her v card while we were dating because in her culture that was for marriage no exceptions; America seems to have lost this cultural artifact if it truly is a Christian nation. Low maintenance, down to earth, had her eyes on what really matters instead of what a consumer materialist society wants us to value. So some cultural things but a lot of personality things that anyone can do. It’s possible to be very sexy without being sexual, and I personally found that more attractive than doing something anyone else can do. Definitely would have been worth waiting for because she was capable of a lot already without giving it up.
Personally, I think you’ll find more satisfaction in creating a look for yourself that YOU like, rather than what others like. Either way, you will attract someone. But do you really want to wonder if they’re only attracted to you because of a look you adopted, or if there’s something uniquely attractive about you? Unless you are deliberately trying to be universally attractive for a more ambitious purpose, like modeling or performance art of some type. Even then, i suspect a unique look stands out better than more common looks.
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Nothing like a driven to succeed personality…that’s your most admirable trait so far🙃. Small waist, well-spoken, and reasonable amount of Drama.-not over-the-top…and a group of black women just having a pow-wow can be a little intimidating…demonstrative.
It’s the same irrespective of the ethnicity.
Confidence,
Intelligence (not as in college but just normal life stuff),
individuality (doing what she wants because she wants to),
feisty,
sense of humour
First, they have to be black- I'm not interested in white chicks with a dark tan or gals who can "pass." I'm crazy for women with shaved heads or short haircuts, which is something that few white women can pull off. Simply be black.
First thing to looking hot you have to look hot vs what you wear. If you can’t look good in Walmart clothes you ain’t going to look good in brand name.
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I think Zoe Saldaña and Zoë Kravitz ( two zoes lol ) are so hot...
You shouldn't use people comment as reference in here, because most of them are wrong, just look after yourself that's all...
Thin, nice smile, not natural hairstyle
20ish
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