What would you rate yourself? what rates do you get the most from others?

[MementoMori777]

i personally dont believe in rates, i consider it a system that feeds into one standard of beauty and i just believe its toxic but i know basically everyone here cares about rates so im curious on what y'all rate yourselves and what is your most common rate that youve received from others. 🙂

answer both questions please 😁

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no lie they mutted the picture on this

[AmandaYVR]

I find rating people to be quite awful, queezy. Especially a numbering system.

If you don't believe in it, don't feed into it.

How I see myself is based on what others who are close to me say about me, to me, and how I see myself. What is on the end of that equation is for me only. No one should rate themselves (I think Though you should always self-check.) Those who know me well are free to think and feel whatever they think and feel. I care about them, about their feelings and opinions. I don't care about strangers who don't know me and come to conclusions based on nothing but stereotypes and biases.

I base a lot of how I am doing on how I make others feel. And their progress is my progress.

[MementoMori777]

true i guess and fair enough 💯

[nolookingbackx]

Love your way of thinking 😍

[AmandaYVR]

@nolookingbackx Thank you. 🙏

[Dinklex3]

I don’t do/get the number thing. What’s the difference between a 7 and an 8? Why can’t someone just be attractive? It seems insulting/dumb to tell your significant other or even THINK “ehh.. you’re a 7 out of 10” like what? Compared to what?

I’m the best version of myself. I think I’m cute af so whenever someone asks to use a number (only on GAG) I’ll always say “10”. Not that “3,6,7,8” shit. To me 10=attractive. Simple. That’s it. My significant others are “10s” too. I don’t/can’t pick their appearance apart. I just see their attractiveness as a whole.

I've never received or cared to ask for a rate from other people, so I can’t answer your second question.

[MementoMori777]

yea i also think its eack when people call their girl anything but a 10 cause a guys girl should always be a 10 to that guy

[humanearth]

I'm a 10, I'm God's gift to women. Do I need to say more

[MementoMori777]

yea what have people rated you?

[humanearth]

My wife just said to me

They don't make a chart that goes high enough to rate you

[MementoMori777]

now thats a wife, definitely a keeper bro, nice catch 🤣

[humanearth]

She is my comedy partner

She is my Abbott and I am her Costello (but I'm the tall skinny one)

[MementoMori777]

nice bro

[richardcory]

I go to 11.

But realistically I'm probably about 3+6i

[MementoMori777]

i see, interesting numbers 🤔

[LostandFound__x]

I totally agree but I also think in society or just generally in any social settings you can identify someone who is particularly objectively attractive and the opposite to that. And the thing is a person might be objectively attractive but you’re not attracted to them. You see what I mean?

Rating myself…. I don’t know because I have a lot of body dysmorphia. So I’m probably not the best at answering that lol.

[MementoMori777]

oh yea i agree, its completely subjective and i have seen people that i consider overrated and others see them as 10s and stuff so i know what you are saying and your body dysmorphia doesn't change the fact that you are a wonderful and beautiful person 🙂👌💯

[LostandFound__x]

Aw thanks!!

[nolookingbackx]

I agree with you on that! I don't rate myself or other people 1-10, because I find it ridiculous and unnecessary. I've heard from some people that I am a 10 but I don't like such compliments, I am not a number.

[MementoMori777]

i like where your mind is at 😌👍

[Nxtawm]

I’m a solid 6, I think I get rated between 6-8

I think rates are fun, people just wanna know what others think of them

[MementoMori777]

well thats understandable but falling in numbers is like some robot system shit lol

[Nxtawm]

Oh yeah I do agree that one shouldn’t obsess over the ratings others give you. Looks are very subjective

[MementoMori777]

im glad cause its simply just not important, you can call a woman beautiful without calling her s number 😂

[MementoMori777]

a number*

[MysticAngel5000]

I get told I'm a 10 for looks and personality.

In my personal opinion, I'm average on looks, so like a 6 and about an 8 for personality.

[MementoMori777]

is that why you called yourself mystic Angel? 🤣

[MysticAngel5000]

Haha nice one

[MementoMori777]

my question was actually genuine 😆

[MysticAngel5000]

No, it isn't. I just randomly chose my username haha

[MementoMori777]

well thats a valid random choice then lol

[MysticAngel5000]

Thank you lol

[alice55]

I would say I'm a 9,5 cause nothing is perfect XD

[MementoMori777]

love your attitude 😆👌

[alice55]

Glad you do XD ^-^

[MementoMori777]

😆🤣💯

[Christoff92]

Yes. Sure. For keeping myself motivated, aware, and active at all times.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough bro

[Boomchakalaca]

boyfriend says 8

[MementoMori777]

what? that mf shouldve said 10 😂

[MementoMori777]

at least he's honest 🙃

[Boomchakalaca]

Ik but he’s realistic 🙄 no girl wants to hear the truth

[MementoMori777]

nah but honestly a mans girl should be his 10 because her personality fills up the rest of the rating, he should know, he gonna marry you no 😂

[Boomchakalaca]

😂 he's so hard on himself and me. Yea he's been thinking about it.

[MementoMori777]

one can only hope he thinks hard on it ha

[JoyGirl]

I am a 10 in my book. You?

[MementoMori777]

i dont rate myself, that scale can't hold my awesomeness 😌

[JoyGirl]

Aight…lmaooo 😂

[MementoMori777]

😌💯💯

[humanearth]

See us tens need to stick together

[humanearth]

Hey Joy How that old man of yours doing? Did you to finely tie the knot yet?

[JoyGirl]

@humanearth Hahahaha
Is is doing well, thank you. No, we are still in college, so not yet. 😂

[JoyGirl]

He**

[humanearth]

Well you should've taken a speed reading course. So you can be done with school twice as fast

[JoyGirl]

@humanearth looool 😂

[Anonymous]

I'm super beautiful

[MementoMori777]

love the attitude 😆👌

[Opinion Owner]

Actually a guy told me that once and I blushed

[MementoMori777]

i dont doubt it, still a good attitude tho 🤣

[elizamichale1]

Usually 7 to 10

[MementoMori777]

is that what you get rated or what you rate yourself?

[elizamichale1]

Well i rate myself between 9 n 10... tht was from people n my clients

[MementoMori777]

clients? oof, alright fair enough

[elizamichale1]

Yea clients... i work as a stripper n prostitute for my brother

[MementoMori777]

i see, well i won't judge you out loud, thanks for sharing

[elizamichale1]

N its a genuine feedback from them eventhough it should hav been higher n better i think

[MementoMori777]

fair enough

[elizamichale1]

Coz u r a good person... let me give u my famous titty hug ( . Y . ) 😘😊

[elizamichale1]

Yeahh

[MementoMori777]

actually me lecturing you about the right decisions would be me being a good person im just trying not to be sympathic towards your lifestyle.

[elizamichale1]

Oh u dont need to be sympathetic honey coz i m very happy in my life i m not forced into this... i m completely okay with my job (except a few things though)

[MementoMori777]

well it still pains me, this is a self sabotage and even tho i personally still respect you as a person, many won't and the cold truth is that in society you fall into the worst kind of woman in society, all for some paper, im sure sex feels good but your happiness is limited, i honestly wish your brother wasn't a terrible person, he wouldve taught you to value yourself and your body but instead he is using you and your body for money, its honestly sickening, i wish you had better role models in your life and i wished you made the choices that would have made you shine to be a very wonderful person with self respect and control but i guess life ain't sweet, i just couldnt hold my lecture no more so sorry i guess but it is what it is.

[elizamichale1]

Well thanks i really respect ur opinion but i just very respectfully differ to it...
Yea i know society look down on girls like me but then this is the hypocrisy of society... n i can give u so so many examples where my work has helped many men to be back on their feet... some who were depressed n a once a guy who was on the verge of suicide i cosoled them n made them get back to their life... n see my happiness is not limited... i m veryyy happy with my life
N my brother is a great great person (only bad part about him is he doesn't pay me high enough) he has trained me well n how to be gud to people n how to give them joy n pleasure
For many i still am a wonderful n great person honey

[MementoMori777]

well sorry Eliza but your lustful lifestyle disgusts me, and thats just what it is cause the only physical thing that you couldve kept for a man that would treasure you, you are giving it to random people and influencing people to do it to others isn't good, you are just feeding more into it and making society worse and i know when you age and lose your physical attraction and you are shunned by the world and by the men worth your time, its when you'll realize that this lifestyle just led you to a dead end because the truth is that when you age, which we all do, you won't keep your attractive physique and tbh thats whats helping you keep your job, thats all these men see you as, a sex doll and it happens to everyone, they all eventually get tired of this lifestyle and seek for something more, the deeper you fall into it, the more you sabotage yourself, its not even just about happiness, its about whats right and sometimes the best choices dont make us happy until later on, you are defending your brother and thats good but it doesn't change the fact he is a pathetic excuse of a brother, running on greed, that guy would trade you for money and this is evidence on that, you said it yourself, you do all the work and he doesn't even pay you enough, i can't and won't agree with it because i know the long term effects of this lifestyle, I've seen many women live miserably after having such lifestyles and i know what im saying to you is worthless cause at the end you have a different point of view but no one can tell me i just sat back and watched you destroy yourself, consider this my effort to stir you in the right direction, weither you want to take this or not is up to you but i really hope you find the truth and i hope you manage to see your real worth that isn't just a sex toy to others because the more you behave like one, the more you are seen like one, good day Eliza. 💯

[elizamichale1]

Awww u r soo nice i dont even know what n how to say to you..
I m really thankful for ur concern but as u said i do hav my own belief n in that i m very happy, my brother help me takes care of me... (like any other job the boss always dies less work than emoyees) n well i m okay being a sex doll really... n what u said about later part of life... well i hav been saving for that too

[MementoMori777]

alright good luck i guess

[elizamichale1]

Thanks honey
N thanks for the concern n being nice😘😘

[MementoMori777]

💯💯

[elizamichale1]

😊😊