Do you take joy in feminizing a man as a woman?

[Anonymous]

Like doing his make-up, hair (if it is long), make him wear skirts and maybe even heels

[provokeesmokee]

If he likes it and wants to do it, it is fun!

If he feels safe enough with me to want to explore like that, even better. He doesn't need to awaken anything, but seeing a guy light up because he's excited about how cool eyeliner looks on him is a genuine joy.

[Asker]

Wow that is such a positive answer full of good energy

[Asker]

would l ove if more women would be so open minded like you

[provokeesmokee]

Me too. Men wearing make up isn't a big deal. Men are allowed to dress how they want, whether that's like someone out of Mad Men or Harry Styles in a dress.

Tom Hardy considers himself more feminine than masculine and I think that's a beautiful thing.

I think too many men are victims of toxic patriarchy and masculinity, forced to be people they're not by their own peers, by the media, and by women who support toxic masculinity.

Men are no less deserving of enjoying themselves and their lives than women.

[Asker]

That is very true in the end it is an expression of their personality, curiosity and who knows maybe a part of them from a certain point in life.

Indeed the brainwashing of aptriarchy and masculinity creates all kind of weird standards which are actually not natural. You know wth encouragement like yours this feels more natural, it is such an easier approach to curiosity of knowing different sides of one personality, maybe you are just idealistic and not real.

[provokeesmokee]

Lol, well, I've gone from sheltered Catholic homophobe due to how I was raised to being an out and proud bisexual non-binary queer.

So the journey has been rough, hard, filled with many lessons, and it continues by the day.

Most real people you meet in the world don't really care deep down if you wear make up or are "masculine". They're just projecting their own opinions and insecurities.

The best thing you can do for yourself is to resolutely be authentic with who you are - not for anyone else but you.

This may mean you can't hang out with old acquaintances who would be unhealthy or even dangerous to you, but that only means you're growing past stages of intolerance in your life.

It is never too late to begin to recognize your truths and live them.

If you ever want encouragement to be yourself, feel free to DM me.

Approaching life with curiosity is very fun, and exploring all the facets of who you are is the greatest journey any of us can undertake.

Be curious and courageous, my friend. 💜

[Asker]

Ohh wow you had quite the journey it seems in your life. Thank you for the insight, I think i will DM you I do need a bit of encouragement your positivity is really nice.

[emi_kaei]

If it’s what he wants, then I’d be happy to help him with stuff like that to make him feel nice. It isn’t something I usually think about, yknow, but who am I to ignore what a person feels comfortable with?

[Asker]

that is interesting and very considerate of you

[Anonymous]

I would never force anyone to do that. I know girls that have done that just to embarrass a guy I think it's mean.

[Asker]

I wansnt thinking at embarassing but the guy wanting and being curious about it

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay 👍

[Asker]

Maybe the guy could beinto the embarassing part. What happened in the case you speak of?

[Opinion Owner]

These girls after school tricked this boy to going over too their house. When they got him there they forced him to take his clothes off and made him dress like a girl. Then they took pictures of him and sent them all around school. This boy was bullied for a long time. I felt so bad for him.

[Asker]

That is a sad coincidence especialyl since in school when mind is frail, I wouldn't mind being bullied anyway

[Anonymous]

Nope. I only like real men.