If you wear a pushup bra, are you doing it for him or for you?

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[DishLady]

It depends on the guy, tbh. Some guys are anti-bra (amen), so the push-up and other stuff is just annoying.


Some outfits require a push-up (for a special event, etc), otherwise the dress/blouse/etc. just don’t look right — and in that case it’s more just to make sure the dress looks good than for anything else.


Meanwhile, some guys love to see everything showcased and so their girls will sling their tatas into a push-up or constricting lacy confection for them, either as a complete tease throughout the day to ensure a spicy moment later… or because they gain confidence and satisfaction at seeing the appreciative looks and reactions they get from their guy. That’s just basic positive reinforcement.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Nope. Push up bras have the padding in the bottom of them that makes it uncomfortable for me to wear them. I don't have big boobs in any sense, so it's not like I'd really need the push even if they come in my size. But I do have a nice strapless bra that I wear for certain clothing when a regular bra won't work.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, what a question! Honestly, when it comes down to choosing what to wear, push-up bra included, it's all about what makes you feel the best. It's a big, fabulous mix of self-confidence, comfort, and sometimes, yeah, wanting to look extra good for someone special. But at the heart of it, it's about what makes you smile when you catch your reflection. If wearing a push-up bra gives you that little boost of confidence and makes you feel like the amazing person you are, then you're doing it for the best person out there - you! And if it catches someone else's eye along the way, consider that a bonus. 😉 It's all about balancing how you feel on the inside with how you want to express yourself on the outside. Always choose what makes you feel fabulous!

[MaddyJ]

I wear one for me. To look better in certain tops

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't wear a push up bra.
When I had to find the right size for me in a shop some years back I tried one and it looked way too big. It was like the books were walking around with me instead of the other way around.

So if I ever wore one again, it would be for a spicy night, date or what have you. And it would only be because the hypothetical man would be super into it.

[7Phoenix7]

I don't wear them. The times that i did, my boobs just looked way bigger than they actually are and I don't really like that.

[Nikki1989]

I gave up dressing for men a long time ago. I do it to feel good about myself and to fill out certain outfits.

[Seinna]

For me. Push up bras are the most comfortable ones for me, they give the best support. I also think they help to prevent sagging.

[debtfree_oneyear]

for comfort? that seems confusing

and isn't prevent sagging just a myth

[Seinna]

Breasts sag from being pulled down, hence bigger breasts sag more than small. So if you wear a push up that holds them up and prevents them from sagging at all then logically it'd help to prevent sagging. And yes, to me they are more comfortable. Push ups don't literary push your breasts to your body but have a padding at the bottom of the cup on which the breasts lie.

[EmmaMary]

Fortunately I've no need for them... But if I did it would be purely for myself only.

[CrabCakes11]

For me. Most of my shirts cover my chest anyways so you can’t tell. Some of the bras I own happen to be push up bras and I wear them as much as my non push up bras

[Dinklex3]

I wore push up bras as a kid for me. Certain tops just looked better.

[AmyHew1tt]

Either or. I wear them when I'm home alone all the time.

[Pennywise_6]

Why do all men think that everything every woman does is all about them? Duh? 😆
Egoistic men.

[sheikalana]

I do it for me for my comfort.

[Elliegirl]

For me

[debtfree_oneyear]

for confidence

[Elliegirl]

Comfort, confidence, or to add a little extra “oomph” to a certain outfit

[debtfree_oneyear]

pushup bras are comfortable?

[Elliegirl]

They can be

[debtfree_oneyear]

I can't say I've ever complained when seeing a woman in a pushup bra

[Elliegirl]

Can you tell when she is?

[debtfree_oneyear]

but I'd be disappointed if I went on a date with a woman and she was wearing one

[Elliegirl]

Why?

[debtfree_oneyear]

if she took off her bra I would be dissapointed her boobs werent bigger

[dustybiker2]

Myself.

[Samantha36]

For me

[lilBigPotato]

Myself

[loladevine]

Me me me

[12karen]

For me