Do you think your uncles/aunts have a say in what you should be wearing?

[Rashmixoxo]

If so, then to what extent do you think they can control what you choose to wear?

[alice55]

Yes and no if they refuse I swear shorts skirt next to them then I'm ok but if they're against all the time then no. Like for example I always wear very modest clothes around the men of my family to not make them uncomfortable and because I don't want them to see me sexually. Both of my uncle are quite weird and love making lots of sexual jokes, they also forced me to play some games where we had to say lots of dirty things, I thoughts I was have died of embarrassment so yeah if they ask me to wear modest clothes I would do it.

[KostasKouvalis]

That's a really awkward thing for uncles to do

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Yes is it, It's why I'm not a fan of going to see them

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, I can understand playing those kinds of games with friends, but family is just awkward.

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Yes, but on my mother side they're quite depraved sexually and love to talk about it, if you don't like it then they just call you a prude it's very embarrassing but I mean even my grandfather make lots of sexual joke which are awkward. I don't get why they love to do this kind of stuff it's just weird.

[KostasKouvalis]

That sounds like a lot of Americans honestly

[KostasKouvalis]

My dad talks about it and my mom hates it. There is even this sitcom me and my dad watch and they talk about it a lot and my mom hates it

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis It's surely like this in most of the world I think some people are comfortable with it and other not.

[midnightmoon05]

For your age? If they are your full legal guardian… they have the same right as your parents.
it’s always good to be respectful to them.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think anyone has the rights to tell you what they think is right, it all relies on your levels of maturity and obedience to make the choices you make, if their points are valid then they just are and no amounts of obedience/disobedience would change that.

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Maybe when they are well behaved otherwise and at your age, it'd make sense. But first condition is necessary

[Rashmixoxo]

Yes, had they been kind in other aspects of my life and valued me, I might have respected their opinion!

[AI Opinion]

Family influence on fashion choices is interesting! Uncles and aunts can share their opinions or offer advice, especially if it's about family traditions or cultural events. Ultimately, your style should reflect your personality and comfort. Their say might matter for special occasions, but day-to-day choices should be yours. Balancing family input with personal preference is key, embracing what makes you feel confident. 😊👗

[DerekC321]

No, you're old enough to decide what you like to wear. Talk about controlling, not their business really at all.

[UnusualWeirdo]

No and they tried, they even tried to tell me what music I could listen to.

[Rashmixoxo]

That's a bit too controlling

[UnusualWeirdo]

The Italian side of my family is super controlling, it was nice when I could tell them "im not your kid and not to be rude but I don't have to listen to you like that"

[slatyb]

You are 16 and presumably your parents are your legal guardians. They get a vote until you are 18. No one else does.

[Anonymous]

at your age, for sure, but you should also be self aware of what you wear.

[Rashmixoxo]

I see what you mean.

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you do, even if you dont realize it its for your best

[Rashmixoxo]

Thank you.

[Rashmixoxo]

Do you think what I am wearing in my profile picture is fine?

[Opinion Owner]

For wearing at home in your own comfort seems fine, anywhere else not really

[Rashmixoxo]

Got it

[Opinion Owner]

but why not dress proper and cover yourself?

[Rashmixoxo]

I dress properly usually. It's just that my relatives have problems with everything.

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh maybe then the problem is in their heads.

[Rashmixoxo]

Yeah, guess so. Indian relatives... Too troublesome to deal with lol

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes people project their frustrations on others without a reason, sorry you have to deal with it

[Nikki1989]

I have no relatives to worry about on that level.

[BradleyScheff]

No, I don't think family should have a huge say, especially if she's old enough

[vj0090]

Apne yaha to bht Hai.. u know haha

[Agape93]

Nope

[jahaims]

Obviously not

[zombiewoof]

No way