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I think most guys would look at your shoe collection and go "WTF kind of high maintenance woman am I dealing with here?!"
The truth is men just don't understand women's fixations with style and fashion and when someone takes what we already think is a kind of pointless fixation with something relatively superficial to that level, it makes you come off as being vain or high maintenance.
I'm not saying it's right. I'm just warning you to expect negative input from men and to take it all with a grain of salt because we simply can't comprehend why women care so much about fashion and style.