Questions: Fashion & Beauty

its a Japanese fashion

I mean light pastel cotton candy pink color.

I really like how it looks but I take mean comments from other girls very personally. I dunno if I should just yolo it or forget about it.

What would you do?

I know I should stop caring about what others think but I do it anyway, it's a part of me I guess. I just need a push :|

The color should look like this:

I am wondering if I should try and rebleach my very outgrown roots or if I should just dye it all dark brown and then put manic panic infra red over top of it? I am putting the red hair dye on regardless. I don’t have money to get it professionally done at the moment but I am traveling for a wedding next week and would like to do something with my hair. I already have the bleach and developer and I have my natural hair color dark brown dye.
here’s what it currently looks like:

What it looks like on dark brown hair:

On bleached hair :

I’m kind of leaning towards either the first one or the red one.