Flirting

How to flirt at a restaurant?

Hey everyone! I saw a girl working at a restaurant a few weeks ago who I thought was really cute. The restaurant was the type where you order at a counter and then the food is brought out to you at your table. Anyway, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

How to take the next step, from flirting to dating?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I put this in flirting because "dating" hasn't come up yet... anyways this girl I know, she's attracted to me, I'm attracted to her...we talk, daily for the most part...she'll call me

I put this in flirting because "dating" hasn't come up yet...

anyways this girl I know, she's attracted to me, I'm attracted to her...we talk, daily for the most part...she'll call me 3-4x a week before she goes to bed, especially if I haven't really talked to her all day. We talk about hanging out, yet I've tried to make 2-3 plans to hang out 1v1 and its either she wants to bring her friend along or she forgot and has plans...for example I get half days on fridays, so I asked when she worked...she said 11-2 then 4-9. I was like hey so let me take you out to java's on east ave for a quick lunch(this was Thursday morning). Thursday night I get a text, oh hey I just forgot until now I have plans I completely forgot lets plan for next friday!? :) well since this wasn't the first time soemthing weird like that has happened I assumed it was just a way to get out of the 1v1 thing. Its so confusing, I just don't get it...its like we are "phone dating" but she won't let me take her out for something quick. I told her I really just wanted to get to know her better and see what sehs about. she said that we can do it soon and then that's when "next friday" came up - no not the movie lol. she'll also post FB pics and ask me how I feel about them and if she's attractive and looks for my "approval" on certain things.

Am I reading the signs wrong here...do you think she's into me? we havn'et hooked up yet, she's always told me she's wanted to, should I just go for it and kiss her lol? We see each other every weekend at teh bar... Am I approaching the situation the wrong way. I wanted to do it as "ok I'm going to do this with you", like I'm taking charge and trying to make something happen, being a man and having confidence...even if it is only one time and I realize eh she's not what it hought...what can I do, what am I doing wrong? .is she just into me for attention? I don't know I'm just really confused and could use some advice.

i'd prefer written advice rather than the poll. Really just looking for the next step, what you think my options are and how to approach the situation.

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Flirting

Girls why do you find Asian guys attractive?

I would like to know.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Girls: Do you accept dates from guys you aren't into?

I asked this girl in my class "Would you want to go out for dinner sometime?" A few days ago, she said yes, and we made plans for later this week. So maybe I am thinking into this too much, but asking a girl out like...

yupyup

Xper 5 Age: 37

Flirting

Girls- How often do guys actually do a cold approach with you?

Does this actually happen all that often? Are you usually receptive of the attention or do you feel kind of awkward and uncomfortable? How often do guys actually do a cold approach with girls?

digital_haze

Xper 6 Age: 43

Flirting

My crush is in hospital!?

The girl I like was admitted into hospital because of some nasty problem with her eye. I was wondering if I should pay her a visit with some flowers and a "Get Well" card or whether I'll come off as being a little creepy....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Is it annoying when someone crack his knuckles?

Girls I always crack my knuckles, for me its an addiction. Do you think Its repulsive? annoying? hot? stressful?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Hot girls don't get approached as much as you'd think, true or false?

He told me that attractive /hot girls don't get approached as much as you'd think, and that most of the time they're single. he said its because most guys are afraid of approaching them, or think they're out of their...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Are there a lot of chubby chaser girls out there?

I am not like 600LBs but I could afford to lose 40Lbs. I am 17 and I have never had a girlfriend , I think it is mostly because when around girls I just lock up can't start a conversation.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Every girl I pursue ends up talking to me less and less. I'm tired of trying, I give up!

seems like every girl I pursue ends up talking to me less and less. I talk to them nicely, I take an active interest in their interests, I flirt with them, and then when I ask them to do something with me, it's either an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Do girls really like bad boys?

C'mon girls...most of the time you know that the boy you are talking is a bad guy. Still why most of the girls like to be a prey of bad guys. Why can't you like the nerds who concentrate on studies? Let the truth come out...

muzeasd

Xper 4 Age: 38

Flirting

Do girls like it when their guy puts his chin on their head?

OK I've heard a couple of girls like it but I want to get more of a feel for the majority of girls. I'm talking about like if you were hugging each other and he placed his chin on your head

NerdyJock

Xper 3 Age: 37

Flirting

Am I being a jerk by kinda ignoring her?

This girl that I have been dating for a couple months, about a few weeks ago we had a talk cause I wanted a relationship and so I wanted to know what we were doing. She told me she had too much things to deal with right...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Do you still get crushes when you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

There's a girl. If she didn't like me, then she really led me on. She may or may not have had a boyfriend for the past 3 years. So, have you ever had a crush on someone else when you had a boyfriend/girlfriend?

Anonymous

(36-45)

There's a girl. If she didn't like me, then she really led me on. She may or may not have had a boyfriend for the past 3 years. So, have you ever had a crush on someone else when you

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Girls, how do you feel when a guy hugs you?

When he randomly gives you a hug & just holds you tight for a while, what goes through your head when he does that? Does it make you feel safe, or does it re-assure you he cares for you? How does that make you feel? Just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

What does she mean by saying I am "hard to read"?

I have been dating a girl for the past 6 weeks. We really get along and I really like her. I am 22, a recent college grad, and she is 20, a current college student. We live about a hour and a half away so we don't get...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Ask a girl for her number or give her mine?

i've heard good and bad things for both asking for a girl's number can seem too forward, maybe seems like you try too hard or you're demanding. i also heard just giving a girl your number seems too passive or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

How to politely say "No" to a girl when she asks you to homecoming?

So I guess this girl likes me, and she wants to ask me to homecoming. First of all, I'm not interested in her, and second of all, I don't like dances. So any advice on how to politely say Maybe both things would be...

N1ceguy

Xper 5 Age: 33

Flirting

Lack of female attention? effects?

OK so first of all, I'm not ugly, overweight or anything, I've been told I'm cute,handsome etc, but I have a lot of issues with girls. I never got attention from girls growing up and even now I don't. I see all these...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How to go from cuddle buddy to boyfriend?

So I'm good friends with this girl. She knows that I like her and would like to date her but we haven't gone past cuddle buddies. We talk every day, hang at each others place, cuddle, and even made out one time. I can't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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