Lol this sounds like me.
She's def shy, your best bet is to just talk to her next time you see her. Maybe not just go up to her in the hallway, but "accidently" be by her maybe in the lunch line or in a class or something, and just try to strike up even a small tiny conversation, it will last in her mind for weeks, and then do it again, maybe once a week and then start actually approaching her. Eventually you can see what she's up to that weekend or something. But, if she's anything like me, she might be so shy that she'll make something up that she has going on that weekend to avoid one on one hangouts. Go to parties you think she may be at, or try getting friends with her friends, that way you have an excuse to hangout with her without directly confronting her and scaring her off. But make sure you don't flirt with her friends, that will just discourage her, not make her work harder. But then again, don't give her any clingy vibes either. She's probably really complicated, so just work toward friend status first, thennn work up the latter. If she's worth it to you anyways lol
Shes not play hard to get! Listen she's probably shy! beleave me I like this guy so much! that goes to my schooll but I can't even talk to him! I do the complete oppsite when I like someone I have low self estem so when I get close to him walking by ill complety ignore him! its riducolus I know I wish I didn't do this though, I think oh no what if he spots me looking at himI don't stand a chance! look away, look away sorta thing! I'm sure she's does like you though, maby you can catch her looking at you sometimes or if she tries to shoot you a smile, or she blushes there clues she's likes you.You can also try smiling at her and if she smiles back she pobably likes you! I tend to like people, but I'm too shy to do anything a bout it. So I never seem to get them. anyway hope I helped!
Okay. This could either be one of two situations.
Situation 1: She likes you. And she is avoiding you now to "cover up" for her being so... 'present' lately. She most likely feels like she's showing it too much. And she doesn't want you to know she likes you. So, instead of just sometimes hanging around you and glancing in your direction, she's completely jumped to the other extreme. Avoiding you. Even though it hurts us to do, because we miss you, sometimes we just want to see if you like us girls enough to come chase US now.
Situation 2: She thinks you like her. And she's been... stalking you, to find out. When she noticed you noticing her, she backed off. Does that make sense?
Ummm..have you shown interest in her. If not give her a signal quick! Otherwise the next time you see her may be in the arms of another guy. If you find her attractive, trust me, someone else does too.She may be also doing this on purpose though, not being all up in your face and all. If she is, you have a really smart girl on your hands
Dude me too.
I fell in love with this girl
I always sit behind her at school and other classes.
I got close to her a little bit she always smiled when we had eye contact. one day i gave her a Chocolate secretly hiding it in her notebook. She took it and after that moment when we had class about 6 hrs later
She stopped staring at me. She stopped talking and i m not sure why
It has been 2 days that she doesn't show any intereste (staring, eye contact) and i m all depressed i dunno whatt to do and what to say
Sometimes when i think about it i feel like going to her and ask why has she change.
Any tips guys?
I will appreciate it very much
Dude I'm in the exact position, this girl has started to ignore me and gone distant, I don't know what I've done!
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This may be harsh, but it does happen where women (and men) will like a person but still decide to reject them, for a myriad of reasons. I myself have and am doing so and I have no regrets. The guy and I mutually like each other but honestly, I'm waiting for better and have walked away from him and letting God get rid of the feelings. There is no shame in doing so, even if its a healthy mutual love and especially in the case of lust or if there are look preferences/racism, etc. It is difficult to get rid of an unnecessary romantic love, but it is NOT impossible and that's a good thing. Perhaps she is doing that and she has someone else in mind or she prefers to be single (which is also perfectly fine). Some people make it a life decision to remain chaste (and no I don't mean that they have to check into a bogus religious nunnery or monastery or become a Seikh) and enjoy the single life. More power to them. :) If she is avoiding you, then you can ask her why, but if she says she is waiting for someone else, or moving on - then leave her be. If she comes back to you, great. If she doesn't, well... time to move on.
I do it for 2 reasons.
1. to see if the guy will start to start conversations or call me over instead of it always being me starting the conversation and making sure he notices me.
2. to cover up the fact that I like him. if someone tells me it's obvious I like someoen ill avoid him a little trying to cover it up and maybe make it less obvious.
Maybe you gave her looks that made you seem uninterested in her. She is probably scared to make a move. It's different from person to person, she could also have someone else she has met in her life.
When a girl intiate a conversations to a guy that secretly admire her and does not want to show it, what does it mean?
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