This girl tries to flirt with every guy I like.. what do I do?

[Anonymous]

She pretends to be my friend but she's not at all.
She slept with more guys in 2018 than I have in my entire life. And I don't get it.
We're at the same college. So I can't avoid her much... so many girls around school won't really hang out with her because she sleeps with all their boyfriends and now she even has one that she cheats on.
She's fairly pretty and got big boobs so it's not hard for her to get whatever guy to sleep with her.

I really hate having her around.
I don't even tell her about guys I like but she notices from who I talk to on social media and will start hanging around them all the time like "Oh my god I have no idea why he added me on Facebook" maybe because you flirt with him irl every second you get! And because she adds them and chats them up!

I don't know what to do and I hate feeling like I can't ever have any one guy to myself. I have never known a guy to turn her down either... It just makes every guy so gross to me.

Should I just talk to her about it? She always says she'd never do anything to hurt me but she slept with the guy I liked and didn't even tell me. She even lied to me about what really happened. She still won't admit it to me but he told me and so did our mutual friends

she has told me she thinks I’m pretty and kind and “perfect” but if she views me in such a positive light why hurt me and breach our friendship in this way?

[Anonymous]

So maybe you can't avoid her completely, but you don't have to hang out together or be "friends". Or maybe you have to restrict the friendship (like she's a type of friend). Just an example, I had a close friend in high school, deep down he was a nice guy (but kind of had a bad boy image I think with women), and he was a lot of fun to hang around, but that is where the friendship stopped. He wasn't a friend that I shared my personal life with or details. He just wasn't that type of friend. So maybe you need to be that way with her and you'll only have a certain type of friendship. She'll NEVER know about guys you're into, or dating, or anything (and you can tell your mutual friends not to share personal info with her, if they're true friends and respect you, they won't).

[FilmGuy93]

Ugh. I've had "friends" like that. Your best bet is to literally just end/put distance in the friendship. That kind of person will never get better.

[Shehnaz]

The guy who chooses a girl like her over you is not the right guy for you, infact the guy who chooses you over her is the right guy for you provided you are looking for the right guy or a guy. Also next time you like a guy go over and let him know instead of just keep liking him and expecting him to just understand. Express yourself and explore happiness.

[Biancam13]

She's jealous of you that's why, or if she does it to other women as well she's very insecure and trying to prove something

[Marianna546]

Yeah that makes sense

[mermaidcancermoon]

Stop being friends with her. You dont like her yet you hang out and are friends with her on social media.

Also unless a guy is your boyfriend, he technically isn't yours to claim. Seems that relationship is just a competition instead of genuine friends.

[Anonymous]

She's the typical bad bitch, and these girls are allowed to do anything, including stealing a guy from you. Anyway, going out with her makes you hot, at the condition that you stay at her game. At first, she cannot really be f*cked by anyone: there is less time than guys. So, while she's being scr*ewd by a guy, you can still excite another one. Then, those guys she slept with are probably unhappy of her, and with you they can have their revenge. Finally, it's my experience that bad bitches are not really good at sex: they don't gain so much experience as those girls that stay long time with one guy. You'll see, you'll gain her respect

[exitseven]

There will be people who just want to use you for their own purposes. She is one of them. She may get her comeuppance someday.

[Marianna546]

This kind of shows that women are super competitive and jealous... i mean. Yeah it's not right that she gets all your guys but still... it's not her fault, is it?

[Biancam13]

How is it not the friend's fault? She deliberately targets guys her friend is into. That's weird behaviour and shows jealousy on behalf of that girl

[Marianna546]

@Biancam13 yeah it does but still... i mean why compete? They just need to talk to each other and see what the problem is?

[Biancam13]

I get you but I don't think OP is competing, she is probably just hurt. Sounds like the friend is the competitive one

[Marianna546]

@Biancam13 yeah i read it the wring way then heheh sorry

[Biancam13]

No need to apologise x

[Marianna546]

@Biancam13 okay then ❤️

[DryGermanGuy]

Block her damn ass on everything related to antisocial media.

[In_Trance]

stfu about which guys you like