Polls: Flirting

Being sex-zoned means that someone only sees you from a sexual perspective. That for some reason, they think you are only good for sex, not for a friendship or anything else.

There is this thing that I hate about the men and women I come across, around 50% of the women I come across sex-zone me, and the other 50% of the women friend-zone me. As for men, straight men do not really like me, too much competition comes between us and it ruins the friendship. With bisexual and gay men, the only thing they want from me is sex.

This is very annoying to me, because I am not interested in friendships without sex, and I am not interested in sex without friendships. I need a strong emotional and physical bond with a friend, only after that do I feel like I am close enough to them. If I do not feel that level of closeness with them, then I am not able to trust them, and feel attached to them, which would lead to me moving on from the friendship sooner or later.

And I need some sort of an emotional bond with a person to be able to enjoy anything sexual with them, otherwise I cannot do it. Without an emotional bond, or mutual admiration of one or more personality traits at least, having sex with a person will feel like I am being raped, and/or that I am raping someone.

This is really important to know ~ the stakes are high.

Has receiving a simple compliment become a lost human skill?

I would take that as a compliment.

I feel like women’s flirting is very passive

I Can’t tell the difference between the 2.
I ripped my pants at work..
My coworker offered to bring me tape

I was standing behind a box because I was exposed, She stood there handing me tape
while I was taping my junk into my pants

She was talking to me, telling me she feels sorry for me, saying she hopes the tape helps, just random sympathy & conversation

After like 10 minutes of watching me tape up she told me bye & left.

(She didn’t see anything, I was behind a box)

I think we all know that many social media networks are used as dating sites or hookup sites on the side. Those who are looking to date or hookup are highly likely to end up being catfished though.

There is no shortage of men catfishing on social media networks, with pictures of hunky men with abs. A lot of women flock to such profiles, especially relatively older women who may not be getting enough attention outside of social media networks.

What about you though? Have you ever been catfished by men with hot profile pictures?

There is a gorgeous girl in my kickboxing class that started a week ago. I have only had two interactions with her:
1. At the end of class, teacher told us to compliment someone so I chose her and one other girl to say good job to (the other girl was not attractive).

2. I asked her name at the end of the next class, and said I liked her tattoo on her back (partially covered). She showed me a pic of the full thing on her phone and we talked a short time (5 min).

Class (#4) is tomorrow. I want to greet her by name with a big smile, but mostly ignore her and focus on the workout. Maybe if I catch her eye once or twice and smile it will be okay, but I don't want to bug her or creep her out. I'm crushing on her hard, and it drives me crazy I'm only getting a chance to interact with her twice a week for about an hour. I really want to ask her but I also don't want to move too fast. I could also message her randomly from our online school portal as students have access to each other to make groups or message. After class, what do you think I should do?