I mean, if we were in a relationship I would have no problem with it, but I would have issues if we were not together and she did that because if I get hard because she is doing it and because she is so close and seeing her so near, she will without a doubt feel it, and that would be the most embarrassing thing for me, especially since I then would need to explain myself.
But if I had a relationship partner then I would be comfortable with this, I would actually really love the close contact, I love hugs and such with people and like being in close proximity to others, so it isn't that I can't handle being near someone.
It's why I put Other, because while I would enjoy it with a relationship, I would be really uncomfortable and paranoid if it was with a friend.
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Kind of, yes.
She's sitting on my lap now, only problem is that one of my legs is paralyzed now lol.
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Being a 'Craft Catechist (aka Pagan Sunday School Teacher) we espouse the existence of Eastern concept of energy centers called 'Chakra's (bioelectric radiant energy centers) When YOU as a female, straddle our laps facing us... YOU are placing YOUR vulva genital energy center atop OUR penile 'Root Chakra' where our Kundalini reproductive desire resides at rest.
YOUR radiant body heat and Chakric energies AWAKENS our evolutionary desire ESPECIALLY if you deliberately 'dry hump' fidget... slang for 'the Electric Slide'.Depending upon your OTHER behaviors (passionate deep kissing, rubbing your breasts ESPECIALLY if your nipples perk up, upon our chests
YOU COULD provoke not only erection but also physical climax (nerves have NO eyes and grow progressively excited) In effect, you're insidiously clandestinely 'lap dance' grinding. <3I love it when a girl sits on my lap in general but mostly when she does it facing me so I can hold her and look into her eyes and kiss her. I loved it when my ex would do that with me. I had a girl that I had a huge crush on in 8th grade sit on my lap during lunch once and I played it cool but my heart was going nuts and I loved it cause she was a great friend and was incredibly beautiful. Every inch of her body was perfect. Having a girl sit on your lap feels very intimate to me.
Best case is when a girl sits on your lap in a tshirt and no panties on the couch.. panties aren’t terrible but the way a girl moves a little to let you feel her getting wet when she can feel you getting hard and growing up against her bare ass is amazing
Depends on the girl. I'm not furniture for random girls to sit on. So if she thinks she can be all flirty by randomly sitting on my lap then I'll just shove her off if I don't want it. But if I like her enough, then I might allow it. Until my legs start going numb and then it's on the ground for her.
Yeah I love it, it's nice and warm and comfortable for both. I have thick thighs so it's a good seat and like I love when a girl sits there for cuddles or whatever. Can get a little awkward if I get hard and she's wearing loose fitting clothing 😂
Yes but I get nervous that I might get a hard on and offend you. I do like it but I need to be comfortable with you first or I get weird about it lol.
I do like that a lot for sure. It shows she trusts you and feels comfortable around you. I'd also consider it affectionate too
I love it. And you love the boner it causes. Everybody is happy.
When I was a teenager, girls would sometimes tease us by sitting on our laps and getting us hard, especially when we were wearing shorts.
Yeeeep, we will get boners though.. just a warning.
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