Girls how do you act if another girl likes your crush?

[Anonymous]

This girl seems to get jealous when I talk to other woman no matter if they are not attractive or older, it doesn't seem to matter she will give the nice cold stares. We had a meeting yesterday and this new cute girl that def likes me keep coming up to me and talking to me touching my arm hinting she wants to grab a drink with me etc. I wasn't close enough to see my other girl but I am assuming she saw from across the room. When I turned back to look and see if she was looking I saw her smiling real big looking like she was chatting with someone. Since the. She has seemed to be more talkative with me, but maybe it's in my head. Girls I want to know how kid act if you saw your crush talking to a girl that was a legitimate threat?

[Anonymous]

I am the shy type of girl that acts a lot like I am good when I am with my crush. Even talking as if I have a love life to see his reaction. Flirting with other guys so he can step up to the plate. ( worked like in 1 out of 9 times) But the thing is that some girls would try the 'make the crush jealous' trick or 'be a cock blocker' towards other girls so that they get a hint the crush is not available.

As soon there is a threat of another girl the game plan changes to getting you to notice me and forget her. I have made the dumb mistake of talking about the new girl and getting him to see flaws. talking to his friends to plant that seed that the relationship (if there had been one between crush and other girl) would fail.
Trying hard to get her out of the picture so he can see me as the one for him.

Some girls even go stalker on your ass.

So if you know she likes you and you don't feel the same. Make things right cause she might ruin every relationship you have for as long as she is crushing on you.
It is brutal but opening up the thing would save a lot of heart ache and disappointment from both sides.
But if you like her ask her out with a group of friends so you can get to know her. And if she is worth it after a few weeks do the one on one date. '
But be sure of your feelings before you go down a road of disaster.

Secret is that my Crush is now my BF cause he took that chance with me. We have been dating for more that 8 months.

[Asker]

Thank you! I've talked about other girls in front of her and she's tried to make me jealous by flirting with my buddy in front of me. At one point I stopped giving her attention and was cold and aloof to her for two months. I could tell she was upset with me. My buddy tells me that she has been salmon and talking with him everyday during this time period behind my back. He even said it was creeping him out. What's with that?

[Opinion Owner]

Jealousy that she can't have you and how else to get you is through your friends.

[Asker]

Well it's like how did she know I'd find out about it? Why do girls do this? Is the friend thing significant?

[Opinion Owner]

Okay first - Girls are more likely to wear their heart on their sleeves. So she has been hinting to you to notice her as more than a friend. She wanted you to relies her potential. it is like a science experiment were you get yellow and blue - and you are trying to get green. add a little bit of yellow to the blue and stir. repeat the process a few times and it eventually becomes green or the yellow takes over. what I am trying to say here is that she thinks that id she is there in your space as often as possible you would soon be missing her when she isn't. Manipulation with your feelings that there might be something. Using your friend is her way of thinking that it be like waving a biscuit in front of a dog and he isn't getting it until he does what she wants. With enough perspiration and manipulation she thinks that you would notice her and make her dreams come true. She would give herself on a silver plate if you just asked her to date. But don't keep things stringing along.

[Opinion Owner]

Part 2 (not enough space read this second)

If you are not interested make it known as frequent as possible because if you don't she is going to get jealous and might just be a threat to you the girl you might be dating or herself. This can turn ugly and someone can get hurt more than a broken ego.

I know guys like to think that there are so many girls that want me, an ego boost. But be careful where you tread cause it is dangerous to play with any girls heart. Guys keep grudges but girls take revenge on who ever hurt them. girls are guided by emotions.

Tell your friend that he has to cut contact with her short if she says something about you he has to turn the subject to sex or toys. She will try again and again but soon will see him as a dead end of information.

[poppunk]

I get a little insecure and honestly stop approaching him as much if I think she's better than me because I logic that he'll choose her anyway and why prolong the inevitable. I'm upset, but I let him choose in the end because it's more about him than me

[Anonymous]

I get really jealous but don't say anything because nobody knows that I like him. I do know who my friends crush is though. I got partnered with him for a whole day in school once and I was flirting with him on purpose because I knew she would be jealous. It was funny as I fed him Sweets.
Just to let you know both the guy and my friend new that I didn't like the guy so it was okay. (She didn't think that I was trying to steal her man)

[Anonymous]

I'd be jealous because I'd feel there was competition and maybe would try to win the race by doing whatever it was that I felt I needed to do for eg. smile and touch and laugh with another guy to make you jealous to see if youd care enough to make a move and get the girl.

[Anonymous]

I get mad if I like them and someone is after them it makes me want to talk to my crush more cause I can't stand that someone else is trying to get them.

[TheNewClassic]

Inside i woukd be crying but I would act as if i dont care

[ArabianPwincess197]

I'd pretend I don't care but I would

[LifeEqualsLove]

I would probably distance myself from them both.