Do guys like studious girls ?

[Anonymous]

One who is good with grades, doesn't speak much and is very reserved, has trouble mingling with people. The simple, demure types.



Be honest, don't console me !

[pwl0lwp]

smart can be sexy. being too reserved (to the point of shyness) can make you seem difficult to approach. it's ok to be demure, but it's a good idea to show that you're open & approachable; confidence is sexy too.

some (especially younger) guys can be a bit fragile with their ego & self-worth, especially if they themselves aren't particularly good with their grades - and that can be true regardless of how self-confident they appear, so bear that in mind if the object of your affection is in that category - don't dumb yourself down, but try not to talk down to him either.

good luck

[EasyEC]

Good with grades in difficult courses because you actually learned something (as opposed to cram) I like.

Difficulty mingling with people I don't. Reserved is ok if underneath there is distinct personality and willingness to be adventurous.

[Asker]

Say major in science

[EasyEC]

I think the mental abilities are more important than the major in terms of what I find attractive.

Great logical ability mixed with great intuitive ability is awesome. Many people seem to be either so-so at both or specialists of a single. Intuition means you can better remember the past and recognize the present (and how it relates to the past). Logic means you can predict the future.

Good grades correlate to me with consistency, drive, and possibly passion--all attractive qualities to me.

[Anonymous]

A studious girl can be liked but usually they don't attract a lot of guys compared to other girls.

[Asker]

I knew that just wanted to confirm from you all. Guys are attracted to pretty, outgoing girls. Too much of study has made me reserved.

I think I am liked by girls but I don't attract them.

I feel a little left out, all my friends have boyfriends and I am single.

You might suggest change yourself but it isn't that easy. Had it I wouldn't have been alone in this world with no friends and boyfriends.

I do have friends but I feel they talk to me only when there is no one else with them.

[Asker]

Oops I wrote an incorrect line.

"I think I am liked by GUYS but I don't attract them"

I hate to be seen as a liveboat .

[soxfan94]

I definitely prefer a girl who is smart and studious, but I also prefer that she be sociable and outgoing. So I guess my answer is half yes and half no.

[Asker]

What if she isn't social and outgoing ? Would you still like her ? She has looks !

[soxfan94]

Haha well when you put it that way! Honestly it's always hard to turn down a girl with good looks who is studious. I *prefer* girls to be outgoing, but it's not a dealbreaker. If a girl had a great personality and was smart and studious (and had looks, as you point out), then there really wouldn't be any reason not to be into her.

[muzza93]

Honestly I do. But if they spend to much time studying that can get a bit annoying. But if they csn still spare time to spend time with a guy there is nothing wrong with it.

[bunny420]

Depends if I'm attracted to them or not...