Black guys liking white girls?

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What is it that attracts black guys to white girls?

hereandthere · Accepted Answer

well I find that they are more feminine in general, and I'm not racist but I find white women way more sexually and physically attractive than other women. I won't go into the specific details of my perverted mind but color contrast and the way certain parts of their bodies look is the most attractive to me, their bodies in general tend to be hotter, I love fairer skin as a contrast to mine, interracial sex is amazing, I love their beautiful hair and different colors of their hair and eyes, etc. there's so much to like about white women. they seem to be not only the most attractive to me, but also the most varied in appearance. so yeah, its mostly physical because I believe there are all different types of personalities in each race, although I do find personalities of most white girls I meet to be way more attractive than those of most black girls I meet. I could just go with some of the sweet black girls I've met and ignore sexual and physical attraction. however, I'm only human. when I see something beautiful that I just have to have...i want it. and it wouldn't be fair to a nice black girl to be with her only because of her personality, while I'm looking at white girls and wishing I could be with them. wouldn't it be much better to do what I've been doing and date white girls who I not only want to f*** the hell out of, but who I can also have good conversations with, whose company I enjoy, etc. I want a girl who is as close to the whole package as I can get at that moment. no one is perfect, but white girls are the closest to perfection in my mind physically, and it isn't hard to find a white girl with a personality that I enjoy either. maybe that makes me a bit shallow, but I don't mind. I know that I am not using anyone who doesn't want to be used or leading girls on in relationships. I hook up with hotties who just want to hook up and I put 100% into my relationships with girls who I like personality wise AND physically.

just preference. :)

revraidon · Accepted Answer

This is a guess but I think that it's the element of taboo. Interracial marriage was looked down upon for a long time in the United States and it was much more taboo for a black man to be with a white woman. To sound both sexist and racist. White slave owners would often sleep with their house servants. Where the opposite occurring was really hated and often terrible things would happen. It takes a long time for that subtle undercurrent of "wrongness" to go away. Since highly racist parents will often have somewhat racist kids.

Another shot in the dark is that Black men have really taken a lot of powerfully dominant roles in today's TV society. Women are attracted to powerful and desirable men. Most sports are dominated, music has become much more black culture dominant. Most of the male white bands are all whine rock. The gangster role is pretty attractive, powerful, influential, feared and dangerous. Many of those traits are considered attractive in males. Plus the president might have influenced things but I don't know if I'd call him a sex symbol. so my alternate theory is that in a TV society where athletes and musicians are valued more that teachers and scientists a generalized attraction could start to develop. Not quite your question but it could explain the the other half of the phenomena.

Stella5555 · Accepted Answer

I think it's simple preference. My brother and I have yet to have a serious relationship with a person of our own race. We'd be open to it if we found the right person, we just haven't yet. I also think it has quite a bit to do with where and how you are raised. We were raised in a Midwestern suburb with a predominantly white population.

I have little preference, but have a tendency to be attracted to white men. I'm just around them more.

NirvanaChic · Accepted Answer

dating a white girl for a black guy is a status symbol.

mortablunt · Answer

Two things that could act as massive pull factors.

#1. White girls have daddy issues. I often hear things that imply "Daddy didn't/doesn't love me [enough]!" So getting with black guys, because they are the "forbidden dangerous fruit" is like a way of getting back at daddy.

#2. Black guys just go up to them and are confident and tall. Confidence+height is the winning combination for womanizing.

Amrit · Answer

This is 100% related to physical attraction. It is something that the person does not have but wants it in his partner. Opposites attract. Your question is similar to the following e.g.

+ If a person has curly hair, he will always prefer his girlfriend to have straight hair.

+ If a person does not have a straight nose then, he will prefer his partner to have a straight nose & so on.

However, in my case, I don't look at the complexion or physique of any girl. To me, her personality and qualities are far more important than her complexion. I like white & black girls alike.

BlueGender · Answer

Because they exist.  Speaking as a black guy who lives in an environment with mostly white people I would think this is pretty damn obvious.  What do you want me to do?  Tell every white girl to "f*** off" until a black girl comes along?  Yeah right.  My black hair would be gray by the time that happened.

20Questions · Answer

I like the personality of white girls, they have less of an attitude problem (in general) than my own race, and I love that gentleness in women so that attracts me. And on the physical side, I prefer black women overall, but there's just something about a hot pure blonde/black-haired chick that makes me weak in the knees...

Anonymous · Answer

Hopefully its their personality and not the fact that they're white. As a black guy that's how its always been for me.  One thing though I've never dated a white girl that was into me because I am black. I might have banged 'em but never dated. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me for who I am not my color. Color is kind of superficial don't you think?

Grayman716 · Answer

I think it is a matter of feeling as if having a white girl as a girl friend is a status thing.  Look even in the celebrity world, black men love to parade a white girl in front of everyone on the red carpet.

Ironpanther12 · Answer

I actually don't let color get in the way of things. I'm white but if I liked a black woman I would go for it. I'm open to new ideas and people. So color is not something that I would let ruin or change anything in a relationship, friendship, etc.

Crazycanuck · Answer

People are attracted to what their attracted to its as simple as that...I'm white and I'm attracted to all types of girls...Black, Latina, Asains, Middle Easterns...ect its just the way it is...

Anonymous · Answer

Because they're white and the black people want to improve their genes by mixing with whites. Mostly out of physical attraction that they want their children to be more attractive than themselves.

troublemaker · Answer

it just depends on the guy and the girl really. me personally I am not that much attracted to white girls. I am mostly attracted to phillopino girls

IMakeBarbieJealous · Answer

i think its just being different. eveyrone wants to experiment something new so why not!

MadHatterni · Answer

This question helped me answer one of mine thank you

BigLon93 · Answer

well I don't really care about race. But I grew up around mostly white people so that probably had an influence on it. But my current girlfreind is white and I think she's amazing.

Anonymous · Answer

Slightly ignorant this question. What does race have to do with attraction?

babyxdoll · Answer

I think its the light skin & the REAL long hair.

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