Black guys liking white girls?

[Anonymous]

What is it that attracts black guys to white girls?

[hereandthere]

well I find that they are more feminine in general, and I'm not racist but I find white women way more sexually and physically attractive than other women. I won't go into the specific details of my perverted mind but color contrast and the way certain parts of their bodies look is the most attractive to me, their bodies in general tend to be hotter, I love fairer skin as a contrast to mine, interracial sex is amazing, I love their beautiful hair and different colors of their hair and eyes, etc. there's so much to like about white women. they seem to be not only the most attractive to me, but also the most varied in appearance. so yeah, its mostly physical because I believe there are all different types of personalities in each race, although I do find personalities of most white girls I meet to be way more attractive than those of most black girls I meet. I could just go with some of the sweet black girls I've met and ignore sexual and physical attraction. however, I'm only human. when I see something beautiful that I just have to have...i want it. and it wouldn't be fair to a nice black girl to be with her only because of her personality, while I'm looking at white girls and wishing I could be with them. wouldn't it be much better to do what I've been doing and date white girls who I not only want to f*** the hell out of, but who I can also have good conversations with, whose company I enjoy, etc. I want a girl who is as close to the whole package as I can get at that moment. no one is perfect, but white girls are the closest to perfection in my mind physically, and it isn't hard to find a white girl with a personality that I enjoy either. maybe that makes me a bit shallow, but I don't mind. I know that I am not using anyone who doesn't want to be used or leading girls on in relationships. I hook up with hotties who just want to hook up and I put 100% into my relationships with girls who I like personality wise AND physically.

just preference. :)

[revraidon]

This is a guess but I think that it's the element of taboo. Interracial marriage was looked down upon for a long time in the United States and it was much more taboo for a black man to be with a white woman. To sound both sexist and racist. White slave owners would often sleep with their house servants. Where the opposite occurring was really hated and often terrible things would happen. It takes a long time for that subtle undercurrent of "wrongness" to go away. Since highly racist parents will often have somewhat racist kids.

Another shot in the dark is that Black men have really taken a lot of powerfully dominant roles in today's TV society. Women are attracted to powerful and desirable men. Most sports are dominated, music has become much more black culture dominant. Most of the male white bands are all whine rock. The gangster role is pretty attractive, powerful, influential, feared and dangerous. Many of those traits are considered attractive in males. Plus the president might have influenced things but I don't know if I'd call him a sex symbol. so my alternate theory is that in a TV society where athletes and musicians are valued more that teachers and scientists a generalized attraction could start to develop. Not quite your question but it could explain the the other half of the phenomena.

[Stella5555]

I think it's simple preference. My brother and I have yet to have a serious relationship with a person of our own race. We'd be open to it if we found the right person, we just haven't yet. I also think it has quite a bit to do with where and how you are raised. We were raised in a Midwestern suburb with a predominantly white population.

I have little preference, but have a tendency to be attracted to white men. I'm just around them more.

[NirvanaChic]

dating a white girl for a black guy is a status symbol.

[mortablunt]

Two things that could act as massive pull factors.

#1. White girls have daddy issues. I often hear things that imply "Daddy didn't/doesn't love me [enough]!" So getting with black guys, because they are the "forbidden dangerous fruit" is like a way of getting back at daddy.

#2. Black guys just go up to them and are confident and tall. Confidence+height is the winning combination for womanizing.

[Asker]

I think there is a lot of truth to your answers. I know for me it is the confidence and the taboo that it is wrong that intreges me and causes me to hook up with them.

[mikesaracino]

QA could it also be that BBC that you want?

[Asker]

mikesaracino: Yes that is very much part of it. It is an awesome feeling

[Amrit]

This is 100% related to physical attraction. It is something that the person does not have but wants it in his partner. Opposites attract. Your question is similar to the following e.g.

+ If a person has curly hair, he will always prefer his girlfriend to have straight hair.

+ If a person does not have a straight nose then, he will prefer his partner to have a straight nose & so on.

However, in my case, I don't look at the complexion or physique of any girl. To me, her personality and qualities are far more important than her complexion. I like white & black girls alike.

[BlueGender]

Because they exist. Speaking as a black guy who lives in an environment with mostly white people I would think this is pretty damn obvious. What do you want me to do? Tell every white girl to "f*** off" until a black girl comes along? Yeah right. My black hair would be gray by the time that happened.

[20Questions]

I like the personality of white girls, they have less of an attitude problem (in general) than my own race, and I love that gentleness in women so that attracts me. And on the physical side, I prefer black women overall, but there's just something about a hot pure blonde/black-haired chick that makes me weak in the knees...

[Asker]

You ever dated white girls?

[20Questions]

Yeah. I've had three serious relationships with white girls, that's why I can vouch for their good character (on the whole)..

[Asker]

It's been several years since I dated anything but black men and for the most part had very good relationships with them. I am now happily engaged to a wonderful guy, he's black and we are planning on marriage in the spring. I was wondering if I was just lucky or what and it would appear you also are a very good man. The sterotype around my neighborhood has always been the black guy just wants in a white girls pants, and I think I have proven over and over that is not true.

[20Questions]

Thanks for your comments! I know the stereotype well because its pretty much same everywhere I've been. I went to uni in a place where the student population is about 70% white. So when we went raving it was quite easy to link white girls. But in my experience, for every black guy who just wants to f*** white girls, there's another who seeks to love her right. Like any black woman you have high worth, and if I met the right white woman I would regard her as my wifey and forsake all others.

[Anonymous]

Hopefully its their personality and not the fact that they're white. As a black guy that's how its always been for me. One thing though I've never dated a white girl that was into me because I am black. I might have banged 'em but never dated. I want to be with someone who wants to be with me for who I am not my color. Color is kind of superficial don't you think?

[revraidon]

Sure it's superficial but I'm certain you have some superficial elements to your attraction. You probably have some restrictions on age and body type. Neither of those influence personality. Most initial attraction tends to be labeled as superficial. I believe people deserve the right for physical preferences. Some people love tattoos and find partners with them. The only thing I see that's superficial is banging her without knowing who she is or what she wants or showing more personality.

[Asker]

How many white girls have you f***ed just because? Wouldn't seem to me that there would be that many white girls willing to do that, but I sure could be wrong I guess

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think servicing some chick who wants to get serviced is superficial but I think I get your point Rev. I banged plenty of girls just for the funk of it and I don't see anything wrong with that. We're all consenting adults. I think I might view things different than most since I've grown up in a very multicultural environment and have had many black white native latino and Asian friends etc. Color/race is not an issue for me but I can see how the "unfamiliar" is so intriguing for others.

[Grayman716]

I think it is a matter of feeling as if having a white girl as a girl friend is a status thing. Look even in the celebrity world, black men love to parade a white girl in front of everyone on the red carpet.

[20Questions]

I don't agree...when you think about the hassle he gets from black friends and family, having a white girl as a 'trophy' just ain't worth it

[mikesaracino]

Correction...black men love to parade a bomb ass white chick in front of everyone on the red carpet. But so do white men. So would you and so would I. I think its just a numbers game. There's more white women with the money, confidence, and education it takes to be attractive. Therefore its easier to find a bomb ass white chick than a bomb ass black chick. Now I'm not hating on sisters because there's a lot of beautiful blk women I just think on avg its easier to find a hot wh chick than a blk.

[Ironpanther12]

I actually don't let color get in the way of things. I'm white but if I liked a black woman I would go for it. I'm open to new ideas and people. So color is not something that I would let ruin or change anything in a relationship, friendship, etc.

[Crazycanuck]

People are attracted to what their attracted to its as simple as that...I'm white and I'm attracted to all types of girls...Black, Latina, Asains, Middle Easterns...ect its just the way it is...

[Anonymous]

Because they're white and the black people want to improve their genes by mixing with whites. Mostly out of physical attraction that they want their children to be more attractive than themselves.

[mikesaracino]

You're a moron. Are you black? Than how would you know?

[Opinion Owner]

Race-mixing is still genocide.

[Asker]

Actually I am a white girl and I only want to be bred by black men. Haven't found one yet as stupid as you seem to be! Once You Go Black You Never Go Back is a very true thing and there are more of us girls getting into the black guy every day.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you would be a damn coalburner and officially black to me. you;re not white anymore.

[Asker]

It is such a shame you think like that. If you were to see my two beautiful daughters who both are the results of me being bred by black men, even you would have to admit how pretty they are. It's when I hear guys like you talking that I only wish that I could make you watch as I am getting bred by one of my handsome black lovers. And you might also learn how to do a girl properly

[Standingpretty]

Everyone mates to improve their genes that's true but this is just insane! just because you have children with someone lighter doesn't make them more attractive! A black guy could mate with a pretty black girl and have pretty black children or he could mate with an ugly white woman and have ugly children. It's the fact that the other person has something genetically that you want your children to have.

[mikesaracino]

Race mixing is genocide! REALLY NOW! Whoever said this is clearly a loser who blames others for his/her own shortcomings. Do you understand that there really isn't a such thing as race anyway? Yes people have different traits/characteristics due to the part of the world their families have come from but we ALL come from the same ancestors and if you believe in God than you must believe we all come from the same God. You can slice and dice people into as many categories as you want but the....

[mikesaracino]

...truth is we are all one people! Like it or not!

[iiMetrox]

Your a dumb ass. :)

[Opinion Owner]

Race is not a social construct. I bet all of you are liberals.

[Asker]

You will be happy to know I'm 2.5 months pregnant, that the breeding went well. Now with the new health care bill the goverment just passed I can have a couple more and let the public pay for them. Great country we live in!

[Djdoogie]

That's really funny considering white people have recessive genes and higher rates of genetic mutations...... mutated albino women? might be fun to f*** once or twice but no good to have baby's with lol

[mikesaracino]

Do you even know you have a sign on your head that says "Pathetic loser"? hahaha what? you're mad because your woman wants a black man who's more man than you could ever be? So sad...so very sad.

[troublemaker]

it just depends on the guy and the girl really. me personally I am not that much attracted to white girls. I am mostly attracted to phillopino girls

[IMakeBarbieJealous]

i think its just being different. eveyrone wants to experiment something new so why not!

[MadHatterni]

This question helped me answer one of mine thank you

[BigLon93]

well I don't really care about race. But I grew up around mostly white people so that probably had an influence on it. But my current girlfreind is white and I think she's amazing.

[Anonymous]

Slightly ignorant this question. What does race have to do with attraction?

[Asker]

In some cases it has a lot to do with it! Probably more so the opposite of my question as in preventing someone from dating another, but there are those who YES think race, color or whatever is Hot, Taboo and Dangerous and will date for those reasons.

[babyxdoll]

I think its the light skin & the REAL long hair.

[IMakeBarbieJealous]

lmfao there's probably some truth to it