Why is it women expect to be constantly entertained in relationships, and if they are not they leave because they are "bored"?

[Anonymous]

Its like being bored is the tenth circle of hell to women, and once they get bored with you they drop your ass with no more empathy than they give when they switch out one of their little outfits, even after years of being together with someone they "love."

[curbin]

If that's the case, you're obviously not with someone who is right for you.

My dad explained it to me like this: When you're in a relationship with someone, you should never have to go out of your way to consistently FIND things to do to entertain the other person; they should be comfortable and find entertainment by just being with you and spending time together.

I don't have much experience, having only dated one person, but I do think there is a lot of truth in that statement. If they demand to be consistently entertained and can't just be with you in the same room and find that to be fun, then they're not the right one for you.

[jjazmin]

Not entertained but reminded that they mean something to you. A simple we will watch this cause i know you like it or i brought you your favorite chips etc. . Sometimes guys and girls tend to not flirt with them or they dont feel like they should especially when the girls have other guys chasing them. I left the my ex for more than just that he was abusive etc. & romance is everything in an relationship

[curbin]

You mean that they stop doing the little things? I can see that, those are definitely important.

It doesn't matter how much attention people get from others, if the person they're with doesn't give them the time of day. Can you really say you're "together" if you never show each other how much you care?

[nert73]

Those are the shallow bitches for ya. There are women that exist that like space and comfort rather than constant attention, it just sounds like you haven't found them yet. If a woman says she's bored, tell her to have fun without you and enjoy her time without anyone.

[jjazmin]

Not that they get bored most likely your not doing what you did in the beginning of the relationship by being sweet surprising her etc etc. Idont take her for granted. I've seen it and I've been there.

[jjazmin]

*dont take her for granted. I've seen it and I've been there.

[Asker]

If that is the case why don't they just say that, even though I do usually do that stuff and try to keep the romance alive. But its impossible 24/7 especially with work and family commitments.

[jjazmin]

We dont say it cause honestly we shouldn't have to it should be an automatic thing you know? Plus we dont want to demand you doing those things especially when their unsure on how you feel. & if you are sweet / romantic then you are doing your part we dont expect all the time just sometimes to remind us we mean a lot. Girls are complicated we want attention thats the number one thing. We want goofy things like singing out of a boombox dancing when huged sounds silly but it means a lot believe it or not. Every girl is different.

[Asker]

Great more bs mind games. You should know exactky what we are thinking and its your fault if youdont guess right. No wonder so many relationships fail. And god forbid you do anything for us it all about yoy. typical.

[aficionado]

It is obviously. Women usually have a lot of choice. And when they have men pursuing them, they don't really feel the need to stay in a relationship if they are bored. After all, most women can simply sit around without batting an eyelid or raising a finger, and still get asked out. In other words, they get served dates/relationships on a platter.

Hence, the onus is on men to always stay on their toes, and ensure that their girlfriends are kept interested in them. It is unfair I know, because women hold all the cards when it comes to dating and relationships. But them nothing in this world is fair.

[aficionado]

*It is obvious

[KHaskins]

Let's not pretend guys have never done this. That said... I don't know. That's the kind of thing you talk through with your partner and find a creative solution for, not something you walk for.

[Asker]

But yet so many do...

[agurlllll]

Every guy I've been with had gotten "bored" with me yet they never want to hangout or do anything. Men's logic?

[Asker]

I feel your pain :(

[Anonymous]

Because we let you put in our ass like you don't know where you are supposed to put it. It's like Hell for us but we pretend to like it because you like it. SO SHUT THE FUCK UP.

[KHaskins]

^^^
Half the reason I don't like anal, right here.
Other half being I don't like it. :P

[Neko_Chan]

I assume It's the same reason why men do it. Why do sexist guys always try to make it hard for good guys?

[CJB333]

Sadly there's a lot of self centred & shallow people putting something like "I need to be entertained at all times", they need to grow up, and attempt to use their own initiative once in a while.

[Anonymous]

Dem bitches ain't loyal, that's life, brah.