Are Latina women really as bossy and emotionally unstable (towards their bfs/spouses) as men make them out to be?

I want to hear from Latina women and Latino men's perspective of this.

Non-Latino men often treat these stereotypical traits as a positive thing because it makes a Latina "sexy" to be irrationally emotional and psychotic to them.

If anything, I find any woman if any ethnic group/race with a uncontrollable temper to be an annoying pain in the ass because of their lack of maturity and class.
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I honestly don't see why Latina women get free passes (from men) of being bitches compared to women of any other ethnic groups.
Are Latina women really as bossy and emotionally unstable (towards their bfs/spouses) as men make them out to be?
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