Why are Asian girls so superficial and dont like Asian guys or any other race except white guys?

[Anonymous]

Im a light skin black guy and I probably prefer my color for my girl but i think every race is attractive. But when i talk to Asians i get a cold feeling like they think im a thug and I've been to jail? Also I feel like they are so superficial in their taste Im on a good path to make money but I would cringe to know a girl just is with me for money. Also to make things worse its not like Asian girls just like Asian guys but they drull over white guys and it seems they dont prefer Asian guys either?

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Asians are so superficial and they are completely brainwashed by white society to like white guys they are also slaves to their parents

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When i was in sixth grade this girl said dont hang around black or mixed people because they are dumb and bad. Even though never direct racism with Asians in the mind I actually think they are more racist than whites. I go into an Asian owned store and they are looking at me like im a thief and go to Asian resturant they are super cold and i have sort of notice this often when i met some koreans they were very nice to me and good friends but they all said they are scared of black people

[EgyptianNergerts]

Come to Minnesota :3 all girls run to the black mamba over here. Bi-racial folks all over here too. I work at Macy's and see many black dudes with white and Asian girls. Don't loose hope and don't let these idiot guys tell you that they don't want you. That's a lie they want you to believe..

I have to agree though, they do obsess over white guys a little TOO much.
Not all but 60% of them here do. I was in target the other day, and saw this Asian girl literally clinging to her "white king" like she'd get lost or something.

If it makes you feel better, the Asian girl/white guy combos here go like this:
Asian girl looks like a kids + white guy looks all dorky
Asian girl looks sloppy + 3/10 white guy with money
I work at Macy's and this Asian girl had her man pay $800 for all of her stuff and she could barely speak engrish.-. + 20lbs of makeup on too

[Asker]

yeah i got get out of the south but i hate the cold haha just by seeing you i think its time to expand my horizons lol

[kkkathybub]

I'm Asian, but i don't see any different among those race. I have never had a crush on whites. Asian guys are still my preference. It is just stereotype. My sister do loves blacks by the way. I don't think a few people can represent their nationality entirely. I admit some of Asian are stereotyping and ingorant. Just like my papa, he thinks all korean guys are male chauvinists and all russian guys are alcoholics. Media instilled sth in their brain and part of them tend to believe. Anyways, just let the negative feeling get rid of your mind. If they don't understand, just let them go.

[code3]

I know, right? How dare them for having preferences. It's just downright wrong and offensive for people to adhere to their standards.

Look man, we can't please everyone. Some group of people is always going to find you unfavorable for a number of reasons, and nothing will change that. I get it, I know it sucks to not be desired by someone, but that's just the way of life. Everyone has the right to prefer one kind of person over another for any reason.

[Asker]

Dont you think its kind of strange that Asians are Asian yet they like white guys the most and dont prefer Asian guys or black guys its only because thats what society taught you about not only black guys but Asian guys as well and Asians girl are dumb enough to go along with it. White guys are no better than any other guy but Asians almost always prefer white guys

[code3]

It's their preference, no reason to attack them for it. I don't think it's strange at all for them to prefer a certain race, it just happens. Some of the influence comes from media and societal trends, but so what?

(As a side note: punctuation is a magical thing if you choose to use it.)

[SweetNovella]

Lol what do you mean "So what" to social trends and the media. It's kinda causing cultural genocide for other races if you truly think about it. I'm just sayin...

[code3]

Caring excessively about things we can't change is both stupid and a waste of energy. Yeah, it's kind of tragic if you want to get all deep and controversial about it, but right now we're just talking about how the majority of Asian females seem to prefer white males according to the asker. This is a case of butthurt, not budding genocide. So yeah, "so what".

@SweetNovella

[Asker]

This is radiculous I'm not butthurt it is social genocide and if you don't care about the problem how can you change it

Also I don't even prefer Asian girls but I pointed out Asians like whites the best to give example to a bigger problem

[code3]

Then address the bigger issue in your original question instead of coming off as a whiny brat. Right now it appears as if your original complaint got shot down as stupid and shallow (which it was), so now you're trying to renovate it into something that actually matters.

[Niere]

That's not true, not all Asians are like that. We're not slave to our parents, we are brought up to respect the elders, respect our parents. We do wht they say cause we love and respect them, cause I love and respect them. Also, many Asians dont hv white fetish, we're fine with any race. There are millions of Asians in this world, you can't conclude tht we all only like white people, based only on your observation in your regions.

[Asker]

I live in the deep south now when i lived in san fransisco Asians pretty much raised me and their was a big difference so i see your point. With that being said Asians fucking bleach their skin and get surgery to get bigger eyes to look more white and hurts me to see that from what I've seen Asians think blacks are terrible and whites are angels

[Niere]

No, let me explain. It all started in China, China was the biggest empire in the ancient times. For China, the standard of beauty, for woman is "bai, fu, mei" which means white, wealthy, and pretty; for man is "gao, fu, shuai" which means tall, wealthy and handsome. Now since ancient times, those who are wealthy were mostly white (both gender), which then standardize white as a symbol of both wealth and beauty. According to many history records too, most beautiful women in ancient times were described for having wide eyes. All of these stories are passed down from generation to generation, until they are no longer just stories, but a standard. Some woman believe that achieving these standard will perfected their beauty. So, it's not so that we all will look like white people, it's a standard that came from ancient times, a standard that most people around us (asians) still follow

[Asker]

wow i didn't know that guess i was wrong. I really have noticed that for some reasons Asians have been very cold to me and im not sure why. Also you dont think living in lets be honest a white controlled world have not had any negative effects on Asians because i can easily see what its done to blacks?

[Niere]

Well you met rude Asians my friend. In fact, I found black are kind people. There was this one time when my aunt visited the States, she had loads of luggage and a black stranger just walked to her and helped her carry the luggage into the apartment, and refused to be paid. Now, how can we judge the races? There'll always be good and bad people, and it doesn't depend on the race 😊

[Star_Lord]

I don't know man, I think not all the Asian girls prefer white guys. I think it just very individual. But I have met some superficial Asians girls in my city. You shuold go find some Japnese girls, They are more open mind. I saw a lot of balck guys in Japan date Japnese girls. Even have sex with them. But in the end Asian girls influence by thier culture.

[Anonymous]

It's true most Asian girls especially Asian girls in their own countries prefer white guys, but it doesn't mean most of them can be with white guys.

Also I think they are attracted to Asian and black guys too, women just like men with higher social statue, they only look at your face at the first sight.

[Asker]

Whites don't necessarily have higher social status and so you're saying asia rather be with whites but have to settle with Asian guys that's sounds like a problem to me

[TaxidermiedFerret]

Firstly, before I answer your question, you cannot pin racism down to Asian women when you're stereotyping them yourself. We are not brainwashed by white society, and not everyone likes white guys. Some people in Asia do, but the main cause for that is because the average white male is taller and physically stronger than the average Asian male (how dare they have a type). You can't just generalise all Asians to having one type because you're butthurt over someone not liking you. I can guarantee that in schools that I have been to in China and an exchange I went to in Korea, they enforce equality and teach about racism and how it's wrong. It was ingrained into our heads when we were little that racism is not and never will be ok (that may not be accurate for other cases - although same could be said for Western countries). Please do not speak for every Asian woman, as in China, most of us have preferences for Asian men, but are still open to any race and do not discriminate. What really peeves me about this is that assuming and calling us superficial when there are far too many 'weebs' and 'koreaboos' in America that have not just a preference- but an outright FETISH for specifically east-Asian men and women.

[Mysteriousss]

What the hell is "light skin black guy" and just because they don't like you doesn't mean they only like white guys. I've seen a lot of Asian couples so I'm not sure what you are talking about. Personally, skin color is a stupid factor when it comes to choosing a partner.

[Asker]

a light skin black guy is like corbin blue. Also i dont even like Asians but I've notice most of they kiss ass to white guys but automatically think blacks are bad.

[Mysteriousss]

I'm an Asian and I don't do all the things you're rambling about so I don't know wtf are you talking about. Keep in mind there's more than a billion Asians on this world don't be ignorant and over generalize if you only know less than 20 Asians. Good luck with that.

[abundantlyrich]

It's not enough because you are competing against with the other guys who has seemingly something better to offer on the table, they like. Being a guy, having a big dick, having a good job, being nice... is not good enough.

[abundantlyrich]

You got to prove beyond your racial stereotype

[Asker]

I think you are exactly right but my actions have never been with those race stereotypes so that's not fair maybe I should just avoid Asian girls

[watashiwahanadesu]

I've not done that. I like guys from all races. It's just those girls who you've met that are like that in my opinion

[bananatossing]

You are making a generalization of Asian girls because of the responses you got, maybe you are not presenting yourself properly, didn't you thought of that? Don't be an ass, maybe that's the reason why

[Asker]

This is just what i notice and black and white girls seem much more open to me

[thebestaround]

so stick with white girls they're better anyway

[TaxidermiedFerret]

@thebestaround just say you're racist dude

[Xelebrum]

Because they rack disciprine.

All jokes aside, not all Asians are like that.

[Asker]

good one bro

[EgyptianNergerts]

You made me laugh so hard lol, I took you serious for a moment, then had to re-read that first sentence
Just go away jeez

[Xelebrum]

@EgyptianNergerts But I have nowhere else to go :c I'm glad I made you laugh though lol

[mutedaisy]

If you read what you wrote... you'd see you're the superficial one.

[Asker]

no like real talk the only thing i look for with a girl is her character and her looks a little but unless she is reasonbly attractive im interested in who she is but I think you do have to realize that races sometimes interactive differently that doesn't mean im racist?

[heatherpepperfly]

Hmmmmkay I think you might want to get your facts right. It's offensive when you say that we're slaves to our parents which is a complete bullsh*t. Just because you've seen some Asians who are like that, doesn't mean you can put a label on us.

And hey, I'm Asian and trust me I'm noy scared of black people or any race and I don't see you or any race low either sooooooo don't bad mouth about people in a race ONLY because you've seen the "bad" ones.

[heatherpepperfly]

Oh and you know what? You sound like a racist, immature douche :)))))))))) and about Asians who prefer white guys? It's only a matter of preference! Have you not heard of that word?

And never, never call us slaves. Ever.

[Asker]

you dont look Asian to me lol?

[Asker]

youve been tricked by the world to like white guys the best it influenced your preference you are a complete slave because society can mess with your head so much you dont think Asian guys are the best or anybody else but it just happens to be white guys Interestng?

[heatherpepperfly]

I am. Born and raised in Indonesia and Indonesia is in Asia buddy.

That's all you have to say?

[Asker]

it was a joke my friend but just curious why do you like white guys answer my above question

[heatherpepperfly]

? So you're saying that Asians are slaves JUST BECAUSE society can mess with our heads? Oh my god you can't be any more stupid.

[Asker]

Call me stupid all you want but you have obviously been brainwashed to like white people even more than your own race

[heatherpepperfly]

Ohmygod I could punch your stupidity if I could. How can you say that ALL Asians like white guys more than our own race? It's a preference goddamit. F*ck off.

[Asker]

but you prefer white guys right?

[heatherpepperfly]

No silly, I don't "prefer" white guys. For example, there's a white guy but he's rude and there's an Asian guy who is nice. I'd definitely pick the Asian one. Again, it's the matter of preference. I've interested in latinos, hispanic guys before too and I've had crushes in real life on guys here who are obviously Asians. You get it now? And if we were friends and you weren't such a narrow minded douche like this, I'd probably like you. So get your facts right.

[EthaParez]

I see Asian couples a lot. So not sure what you are talking about.

[James0]

Many people feel like they are judged based on their skin and given stéréotypes, and where are you looking? I see Asian couples everyday on campus

[Neko_Chan]

You really shouldn't assume that your limited experiences are the norm.

[nerdybirdy42]

This is not true my friends Asian and she's dating another Asian

[I_M_LEGEND]

my Asian gfs loved me off and some even said they werent attracted to white guys.

you door knob.

[Asker]

there is always a couple ones that aren't the same but generally they like white guys more and if that Asian chick was your gf she wouldn't say she liked white guys better

[I_M_LEGEND]

id say 95 percent of oriental girls in my city are dating other Asian guys.

i live in toronto. most diverse city in the world.

[Anonymous]

Why sweat girls who don't appreciate you? It sounds as if you are overvaluing these women? If you feel they don't like you, focus on the ones who do

[miss_ana]

Who said that? Loool?

[Anonymous]

A little bit racist buddy

[Asker]

how?

[Opinion Owner]

"Asian girls so superficial"

Duh...

[front2back]

That's just like, YOUR opinion, man!

[Princessofpersia]

I personally am only attracted to Asian guys

[Anonymous]

Because they are more attracted to them.

[Asker]

really wow thanks for your creative insight

[thebestaround]

can't handle the truth?

[Asker]

no i can handle the truth you can have those the small Asian girls

[thebestaround]

Lol butthurt

[miss_ana]

@thebestaround I'm laughing out loud.

[thebestaround]

Thanks, I'm top of the bill at Radio City now through Tuesday

[Asianguy123]

all Asians girls are like hookers.