Do girls mind guys with a little meat on their bones?

[Anonymous]

Do girls mind if a guy is slightly overweight?

[Anonymous]

It depends.

How overweight are we talking about? If its only by about 14lbs (a stone) or so, then it won't put the girl off. But any more than that and it would make me less attracted to the guy. I know that is shallow but its my honest opinion! I don't expect guys to be super buff or anything, just within a normal weight for their body according to the BMI index. If the guy is muscly, then its ok if he is a bit more than the "normal" BMI weight because muscle weighs more than fat. As someone else has said, guys would instantly dismiss a girl for being too fat so why can't it work both ways? Not nice but that's the way things are.

If you're a really funny guy, then you'll get girls through your personality. Or if you're very outgoing etc. If not, then you will have to work on your looks a bit more. Weight Watchers do mens only classes and its a great way of losing weight. www.weightwatchers.com

If you stick to the eating and diet plan, you would have the weight off within a year at most (depending on how much you have to lose).

[Ninya]

Actually, I've had this crush on a big guy for the longest time! For me a guy's hair is a bigger make-or-break than weight :D. I've never dated a heavy guy, but I know there would be a huge turn-off: their size in comparison to me. I'm a real tiny girl. But other than that, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a little meat. Keep a great personalty and no one will care.

[Anonymous]

i do mind, I like my guys to be of a normal, healthy weight. I'm not looking for a gym rat who's totally jacked, just a normal dude. part of me wouldn't mind if he was bit more doughy, but since guys prefer girls who are fit, and I work hard for my body, my standards are pretty high.

[SilentG]

I'm a gym rat literally HAHA so am I out of question? :P

[Anonymous]

Women with high standards NEVER end up happy. Don't worry about it buddy, there will be a woman out there for you somewhere that will be so happy for you just being you. Women usually age much worse than men too. So all these hot chicks now who think they'll be hot forever, won't be. Pop out a few kids and see what happens. My dad was always a chubby guy, my mom was a smokeshow. But she had 6 kids and isn't a smokeshow any longer. My dad actually got better looking with age and is a very attractive guy. Appearance doesn't change how they feel about each other though, they are very much in love still.

[ivarei]

So basically girls should just settle for whatever comes along? do guys with high standards end up happy?

[Opinion Owner]

Did I say to settle? I am saying that the pursuit of perfection will leave you unhappy. Being attractive doesn't make you a great person. It doesn't make you honest, or loyal, or caring. Doesn't make your ability to love any better. When you spend your time focusing on trying to achieve a "standard" you lose sight of what's really important. Did my mom overlook my dad because he wasn't model material? No, and he's the best guy ever and a great father and person.

[ILoveElectroHouse]

True that

[Anonymous]

I dont. A little extra weight won't make a guy unattractive.

Do you mind girls that are slightly overweight?

I feel like if guys have certain standards on what they want a girl to look like, they should at least try to meet those same standards themselves.

[elliwhite]

I wouldn't mind if a guy was husky. If anything, it would make me feel more comfortable around him because I would not be so self-conscious of my body, like I am around incredibly fit or thin guys.

[veritykrall]

Personally, I only date fit toned guys. But each to their own.

[Littletad]

I sure hope not, I won't be skinny forever.

[secondbestkiller]

SLIGHTLY is okay if they're cute... haha.

[tallenblog]

nah. :)

[bloop]

Not at all.

Husky guys are the best!