How come some girls don't like to be eaten out?

[redstar123123]

If there are so many nerve endings down there.... why would they not like to be eaten out?

One time a girl told me that she didn't like her boyfriend to eat her out so that he didn't have "that power over her."

How could it not feel good? I have never met a guy that didn't like to receive oral.

[Anonymous]

From her response it sounded like she had some insecurities about being eaten out. You do give up a lot of power to whoever is doing it because as you mentioned "there are so many nerve endings down there". It takes a lot of trust to let someone put there head in between your legs and observe and touch one of the most sensative and private parts of your body.

[redstar123123]

yea but they had sex all the time... she said that she "wore the pants" in the house and didn't want to give that up... and if she let him eat her out... that would give that up.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, so it had nothing to do with what I was talking about. It sounds like she just enjoys being dominant in all aspects of her relationship.

[redstar123123]

yea because she asked me to eat her out... lol..

[Opinion Owner]

Wait what? I'm confused now :/

[redstar123123]

"on the side" without the knowledge of her boyfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you end up doing it?

[redstar123123]

no she gave me head though...

[Opinion Owner]

WHATTTTT theeee o. O did not see that coming! (No pun intended)

[redstar123123]

I didn't know the guy. It was her call. What was I going to do?

[Opinion Owner]

Respect that she had a boyfriend and find a different girl to blow you?

[redstar123123]

she is the one who offered.. she said she didn't even like him and was only still with him because they signed a lease together.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Well, I can't judge. But if I were you I would have told her to break it off for sure before getting involved with her sexually.

[redstar123123]

it was just a one time thing

[Anonymous]

It could be because of insecurities, bad past experiences, being grossed out by the thought of it, and yes, in some cases it might not even feel good no matter what technique you use. Some girls just don't get used to the feeling, since it's somewhat different from fingering or penetrating for example.

[redstar123123]

how can it not feel good? That doesn't seem to make sense.

[Opinion Owner]

It just doesn't. Not everything automatically feels good just because it happens around that area.

[redstar123123]

that is not true of my area... it all feels good... but then again, I have known girls who didn't like being fingered, so maybe it is the same thing... and I have also known girls who were so tight that sex and any penetration actually hurt them... but that doesn't mean that the clitoris still wouldn't feel good... so... I still kind of don't get it.

[Opinion Owner]

A penis doesn't work the same way as a vagina does. Just because everything feels good to you it doesn't mean everything feels good to everyone else.

[redstar123123]

I <3 blowjobs.

[RationalLioness]

Just like some guys don't like getting BJs (I've heard of one), they just don't want to.

Some people don't do it well and I've heard a few women speak about how men are way too "rough"/selfish with them.

[redstar123123]

I've never met a guy who didn't enjoy that. Granted, I don't exactly ask them. I would just assume that they would like them. It's probably my favorite activity. It's true when they say... the best things in life are free.

[RationalLioness]

I have. And his woman liked doing it. She even asked a question about it... lol.

[redstar123123]

Very strange. After I get head... I feel like I'm floating on a cloud and sometimes I can't even walk straight... or choose to just lay down... and I have a big smile on my face for the next hour or so...

[SenorAries]

I had girlfriend that said she didn't like it... I knew she just hadn't had it done right. Many men do it but don't do it right... with reckless abandon! Like the best thing you have ever eaten and can't get enough of. I let her know she just hadn't had it done right. I then when on to blow her mind and now it is her favorite thing.

[Tokana]

A few are like that, most aren't. One actually stopped me and said she doesn't like that. She was most likely self conscience.

[redstar123123]

I can't imagine how you could not enjoy something with so many nerve endings. That would be like not enjoying eating when you're hungry.

[Tokana]

probably self conscience by the way it looks.. she was clean though.

[danniela]

I used to be self conscious about a guys face being down there but now i could have my boyfriend down there all the time :D

[BobbyBrown23]

That girl is just spitting psycho babble, I've never met a girl that doesn't love good head.

[Ihav2fart]

they're insecure about how their vagina looks smells or taste.

[tenofthepeaks]

i doubt your that age and haven't figured this out...

do all men like bjs?

[redstar123123]

I would have to assume so. I generally don't ask them. It would come across weird.

[tenofthepeaks]

so you're not 34 then... got it..

[redstar123123]

so what's the answer smart guy?

[tenofthepeaks]

which answer? i provided one to your question, duh...

[redstar123123]

you can't answer a question with a question. You said "do all guys like bjs"... I haven't really asked everyone, but I would assume that 99.9% of them do... and would wonder why someone didn't.

[tenofthepeaks]

I do not care... four simple words for you to digest.

[Anonymous]

It's not that sone girls don't like it. It's pretty much impossible for us not to like it. Some girls just don't wabt it because they know it could possibly lead to things their not ready for

[Anonymous]

I would assume because of some bad past experience, shame, fear.

[beefcakebradybatson]

They like EATING out.

[jmmmfi]

I've never met one

[redstar123123]

I've met a few just on this site.

[jmmmfi]

They're full of shit

[redstar123123]

why would they lie?

[jmmmfi]

That's what chicks do