Girls, what does it mean when girl sends you selfies?

[Stiqbeba]

so this girl i like , rejected me once and told me she can't see me more then a friend, and some days after that she told me she doesn't even see me as a friend no more , but she keept talking to me and starts sending me pics of her self after a time and she suddenly distances her self? by the way she blushes when she sees me in public and can't look me straight in the eyes? what does this mean?

[opugh93]

she likes the attention you give her, it sounds like. the instant gratification of sending you a selfie and you probably complimenting her. it doesn't matter if she likes you or not, but I'm guessing this because she distances herself afterwards. but I'm not sure!

[Stiqbeba]

thanks got any suggestion what should i do? she sent me like 10 selfies in 2 months..

[opugh93]

you shouldn't bother with her anymore. she doesn't sound like a genuine friend.

[Stiqbeba]

ah thanks , the problem is i really like her haha , ill try my best to just move on , i really appreciate you're time and effort in responding to this.

[opugh93]

no worries! It's okay that you like her, but just think of what she's said to you in the past. there are too many women in the world to settle for one that's not that into you.

[Stiqbeba]

true , she made me like her more , but she's really inexperienced in this i think , but what if she comes back should i distance my self this time around? or tell her again for a final yes or no.

[opugh93]

if she comes back and you really do like her then don't ask her if it's a yes or no. you just need to tell her what you will and won't tolerate from her. it's very misleading to you, but if you ask her then you automatically give her the control. so, if she comes around tell her that you don't like how she comes and goes and that if it happens again then she shouldn't bother you anymore.

[Stiqbeba]

spot on! ill do that i think , its like she tries all other chances and wants me just as a back up and she knows how i feel , since i did a lot of things for her such as helping her with college work , and always cheering her up when she was sad or feeling bad. thanks a lot once again!

[BelleGirl21]

She sounds like a player and she wants to be able to keep you around to fall back on.

[Stiqbeba]

thanks a lot , you got any suggestion what should i do?

[BelleGirl21]

I'd just call her out on it and say "hey, I think you're a good friend but if you don't like me as more than that please don't keep sending me selfies. You're giving me mixed signals"

[Stiqbeba]

Yea its like she's keeping me as her chance if she blows all her other chances and to be honest it feels bad to be second hand. by the way thanks a lot for the time and effort in responding to this !!

[BelleGirl21]

No problem at all. I hope it works out for you!

[ImmaCatchYou]

SMH she's attention seeking. Throw that fish back in the sea lol

[Stiqbeba]

i really like/love her , but she distanced her self completely and it hurts..

[ImmaCatchYou]

you can talk to her... just be like "is there something wrong?" or whatever. It's always good to ask to get a straight answer ;D

[Stiqbeba]

i think ill give her some rest its bettet for both and one day ill ask for the reason of her distancing her self.. :(

[ImmaCatchYou]

Alright. Remember, don't think about it too hard... and good luck