Girls, Do testicles make you nervous?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so I don't know if it's just me, but I tend to get nervous whenever an object or person is close to my crotch, like, "No no no, don't slip and hit me in the testicles or do some crap like that." And I guess, internally, I'm just protective of them. In the bedroom, I heard that girls are nervous around testicles for kinda the same reason or something? Are you ever nervous for someone's testicles in (or out) of the bedroom like we guys are?

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Sorry for the weird phrasing of the question 😅

[Anonymous]

Yes. I know in many cases toying with them or licking and sucking on them can feel good... But they make me nervous... They seem fragile. Since my boyfriend showed no particular interest in it the time I tried it, I don't worry so much any more.

[Asker]

Yup, I see what you mean. They can really be fragile especially if you've never handled it before. That was the case with my girlfriend, but I told her that no matter how much she hurt me the first time, I'd be totally okay with it :) Did you hurt him the first time or was he alright?

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't hurt him lol but he basically said that touching him there was like touching him anywhere else on his body and didn't add to the sensation so I decided with my nerves and his lack of interest it wasn't necessary to experiment further.

[Opinion Owner]

He's dominant, if he decides he wants me to try again he'll tell me.

[Asker]

Really? I guess every guy has his different tastes. I mean... not to get too personal or anything, but I really like it when my girlfriend touches them and stuff 😅. It's nice and it's cute when she does it.

[Asker]

I didn't see your other comment. I'm more of a submissive type, so maybe there's a correlation...

[Opinion Owner]

Haha to each his own. We prefer the rougher stuff typically so we don't typically care to deal with tedious and careful things. ("Not to get too personal" but we're a bdsm couple)

[Opinion Owner]

That could be!!! Yeah he's dominant to the extreme. It's sorta funny though because we don't always play that way and I'll forget how strict he can be and challenge him. You should never challenge my boyfriend lol. I got reminded of that a couple days ago. So yeah, if he wanted it, I'd know.

[Asker]

Haha, I have yet to try a bdsm thing with my girlfriend (if she's up for it). Yeah, balls can be tedious and stuff... but balls can be used for bdsm stuff, I heard?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, typically if the man is submissive they're a little more important though. Like I don't do anything unless I'm told to. Period. But he can do anything. So reverse those roles and make the girl dominant? She need options, things to work with. That's why any form of creative make stimulation is important.

[Anonymous]

Yeah guys make such a big deal out of them being senstive that I really don't want to have to touch them... it took me forever to do so with my Husband and had never done it with a guy before that point.

[Asker]

Well, I mean, they really ARE very sensitive...

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah so I avoided them like the plague.

[Asker]

Lol 😂

[JuliaHarris]

My honest answer would be ''depends on who he is''.

[Asker]

So, if it was a boyfriend, it'd probably make you nervous? And if it's a creepy stranger then...

[JuliaHarris]

I think that its human nature to care more about those you know than those you don't. That doesn't mean that you aren't careful, or wouldn't help him/her if something happened, it just means that you wouldn't wake up the next day feeling too guilty about it.
If I may ask you a question: would it really bother you more if you elbowed a random woman in the boob during sex or your girlfriend? I don't think that men and women are that different in this regard.

[yellowgirl00d]

Yes the whole penis makes me nervous and kind of uncomfortable

[Asker]

Oh, I was talking about the testicles, not the penis.. But why would a penis make you uncomfortable?

[Anonymous]

Hehe I would say careful, not nervous

[Asker]

I see... is that in or outside the bedroom?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess both

[Anonymous]

Kinda cause I'm afraid to hurt him

[Asker]

Yeah, it can be hard to handle them without hurting them.

[Julie_TS]

Nah...

[Asker]

But why not?

[YayMeYay]

Never nervous, especially in bed.

[COCOCHANEL]

not really

[Autumn-Bunny]

Not really