Girls, have you ever been rejected because of the size of your boobs?

[Anonymous]

[Razzle-Dazzle]

No, but it's a ridiculous excuse for a rejection. If a guy doesn't want you coz your boobs are too small or too big then you've had a lucky escape coz he'd be with you for the wrong reasons. There's more to a woman than her boobs

[CastariaSky]

Yup. Plenty of times. It's quite sad actually. It's probably the main reason why I'm a bit insecure about my form. It's one of the few things I can't change about myself without plastic surgery.

[Sunflower19]

Well I wouldn't say rejected but he flat out said my boobs were too big for him. Lol

[abc3643]

I will say that I never dumped a girl because of that (otherwise I never would have dated her to begin with), but it has been a secondary factor in expediting the end of the relationship.

[Touchmehxx]

Wdym secondary factor

[abc3643]

@Touchmehxx In other words, it is not the reason that I would dump a girl, but it's a reason that contributes (along with other reasons) toward the break-up.

Let me give an example...
In 1989, I was dating a woman who more-or-less was decent. She had huge boobs - before I met her. She had breast reduction surgery and had them reduced too far - to an A-cup and was very pear-shaped in figure. So, physically, she was not very attractive but I tried to look beyond that. However, other personality issues began to arise. I might have stuck around longer if she had a better body. In particular, boobs because her's were not sensitive due to nerve damage from the breast reduction surgery and she likely could not nurse. To me, continuing this relationship was like paying an expensive car loan for used car that was a lemon. My heart stopped being into it and my body reacted accordingly not wanting to sleep or have sex with her. Thus, I ended it not wanting to waste her's and my time.

[Touchmehxx]

So you would have stayed if she had a better body? Wow I can't believe people like you exist

[abc3643]

@Touchmehxx "Wow I can't believe people like you exist" What do you mean by that?

As to your question if I would have stayed if she had a better body? No because what ended it was an incompatibility in our life plans.

[Touchmehxx]

People like you aka shallow people

[abc3643]

@Touchmehxx I know we are rare. There are only 7.5 billion others just like me...

Listen, Missy, you have A LOT of growing up to do, so let me help expedite that a bit by giving you one of the most important life lessons that you can ever learn:
The primary key to happiness in life is to know yourself - know what you like and know what you don't like - know what makes you happy and what makes you sad. Basically, be yourself because, when you are not, you make yourself unhappy and you make others unhappy because they think you are someone else.

As to my shallowness, if I was shallow, then I would never have dated her to begin with. (Apparently our school systems are not doing a good job teaching logic.) Meanwhile, let me ask you: Would you marry a man who didn't have a penis? Would you marry a man who was only 3 foot tall? Would you marry a man who felt a woman's place was in the home and that she should be barefoot and pregnant all the time and she should just shut up?

[Touchmehxx]

Don't 'missy' me

And yes I'd date a man with no dick because I can deal with that and it doesn't really affect my life (apart from sex but that can be solved)
No I wouldn't date a sexist man because that affects my life
And dating a 3 foot man may affect my life as it may cause struggles

[Touchmehxx]

And don't give me the you have a lot of growing up to do speech. It's annoying. Just because I'm not shallow that means I need to grow up. Wrong
You're disgusting literally

[abc3643]

@Touchmehxx How shallow of you!

[Touchmehxx]

You know I'm right

[abc3643]

@Touchmehxx I know that:
1. Your logic skills are lacking.
2. Your reading comprehension skills are lacking.
3. You need a lot of growing up to do. At 16, that's understandable.

[Touchmehxx]

1) how
2) I'm not a good reader so shut up about it
3) you say I have a lot of growing up to do, why? It's because I'm not shallow

If I agreed with you, you wouldn't be saying I need to grow up

[Winter_Storm_Guy]

I would never reject a girl cause of her boob size.

[Curmudgeon]

Just to be clear, it is not breast size per se, but breast size in proportion to frame. A petite girl with C-cups has "big boobs" in my mind.

[NYkid27]

I wouldn't reject a girl because of that. There are way more important things in life than breast size

[Yumix]

someone who rejects you because of your boobs size is very superficial and didn't have real interest in you in the first place. not worth your time, be happy that he's gone

[bcromartie]

I have rejected women based on the size of their breasts.

[Touchmehxx]

Why are you so shallow

[bcromartie]

Why not? People reject others based on their skin color, their manner of dress and style, their behaviors, their belief systems and religions, their height, their weight, their body fat content... what's boobs?

[Touchmehxx]

So you believe just because other people do bad stuff, means it's ok for you to do it? Recessive mentality

[bcromartie]

What makes it "bad"? The problem isn't rejection; you don't have to accept someone who is not attractive to you, the problem is the idea that everyone deserve a chance no matter what they look like or act like. That breeds this nonsense about being shallow for just openly not liking things.

[bcromartie]

A better question is this: Do you find everyone attractive? If not are you a bad person for it?

[Touchmehxx]

It is shallow to reject someone based on boob size. She doesn't have control of that. Why does boob size matter? You should be with someone because you love them, not their body

[Touchmehxx]

I don't know everyone so I can't answer that

And boobs is specific. You're willing to dump someone because of the size of two lumps of fat on her chest

[bcromartie]

You will find that you do not find everyone physically attractive and that many, many people have the same common personality traits. Why bother being with someone for their personality alone when you can be with someone who has both personality and an attractive body? The greatest error in this thinking is that just because you can't control something means you have to accept and settle for it; a man cannot control his height as no human can but some women will not date shorter men. I don't think anything is wrong with that. Some people don't date others based on things you don't even think about like their teeth regardless of whether they can control that, their skin and breakouts, their smell which often isn't controllable, infirmities like being unable to walk or suffering a form of paralysis.

It isn't shallow so much as it is fact. Why take someone you don't really like that much based solely on half of who they are. You are half mind and half body, not all mind and no body.

[Touchmehxx]

So what are you gonna do in 20 years when everything wrinkly and saggy?

[bcromartie]

Do small breasts even get saggy? You didn't actually ask, like no one ever does, what my preference is. It's normal but that's rather shallow don't you think? Making presumptions?

Oh well.

[Touchmehxx]

How did I make presumptions? Idc what your preferences are. But you go ahead and date people for their body. Disgusting

[bcromartie]

You are a silly little thing. :p

[Touchmehxx]

For not being a shallow person? Ok

[bcromartie]

No, for actually believing that you are above your own human nature. I don't imagine you'll ever go out of your way to date a really nice quadriplegic.

[Touchmehxx]

Well I don't know because that would affect my life greatly
The size of tits doesn't

[bcromartie]

How about age? Another really common one is a man who is significantly older than the females he is interested in. Let's say you're of legal age of consent to sex and you get approached by a 60 year old man. He's a REALLY nice guy, great personality, asks to date you. Would you?

Probably not. Most won't date within huge age gaps. It's not the norm specifically because we're not wired to. May December relationships are rare and fetishized specifically for that reason.

[Touchmehxx]

Yes I would actually, and if i didn't the only reason would be because he may die before me and it may affect my life a lot

[bcromartie]

Of course you would, as per anyone in a hypothetical situation when it aligns to their point, but I've sound reason to doubt. I mean you just said that a quadriplegic would greatly effect your life (the absolute epitome of shallow thinking) but in reality these things are everywhere. I have you an impossible example and a number of them at that but you will, regardless of how you feel, discriminate even subconsciously against people constantly.

You're not progressive and definitely not old enough to have sound philosophical understanding on what and why you do and believe what you do and believe. Most people won't be all their lives because when you actually look at it you realize that there are things you do like, do not like, will tolerate, will not tolerate, and can't help.

[Touchmehxx]

Um I get with guys older than me actually. I like guys 30 years older than me.
And bringing my age into this shows how poor your argument is

Beside the point anyway, because you'd drop someone because of their tits

[bcromartie]

That's not 60. I didn't set the bar at 46. There's a reason I specifically shot for gerontophilia and it's because odds are you don't actually have it. You are actually being extremely stereotypical. Also, now that I think about it, if you're dating people based on character how are you dating multiple people? You should only be with one guy, not "guys", so something is wrong here with your philosophy.

Well I wouldn't drop them because I wouldn't pick them up.

[Touchmehxx]

I said guys because I'm not dating rn

And I didn't just say 46 as if that's it.

And fine then. You wouldn't date someone because of the size of their boobs

[bcromartie]

So you've not dated these... but you just said you go for... I need to remember that it's 16. It won't know any better.

I think we've already gone over my not dating someone based on a physical characteristic. I can't entertain you forever you know.

[Touchmehxx]

What are you on about in the first paragraph

[bcromartie]

I am trying to remember what it is to rationalize like a 16 year old. You've set up an entire hypothetical universe with no actual basis in reality and work under the presented guise of what you believe your hypothetical self would do versus what your real self has done. Normal but very difficult and somewhat impossible to actually work with. You're one of those people who says things about what you would do and then finds yourself either oblivious or shocked that you did or did not do that thing.

[Touchmehxx]

That didn't make sense but ok mr shallow

[bcromartie]

Right, in plain English you're completely inexperienced.

[Touchmehxx]

Inexperienced with what

[bcromartie]

I am a crack addict.

[Touchmehxx]

Ok and

[SoFeckinAddicted]

'Do small breasts even get saggy'

Lol. Just lol. GaG guy at its finest.

[bcromartie]

Yes it's a joke and a play on concept. You are late. Be timely.

[SoFeckinAddicted]

Don't tell me what to do.

[bcromartie]

As long as you obey we won't have that problem.

[Touchmehxx]

Wtfff dude I hope you two know eachother and this is a game coz...

[SoFeckinAddicted]

Nah. It's the first time he's had interaction with a chick so understandably weird shit is gonna be written.

[Touchmehxx]

@SoFeckinAddicted lolz queen👑

[bcromartie]

What is it?

[capturemyheartnow]

I read all your views , and your reasoning is excellent. Mr bcromartie

[Touchmehxx]

@capturemyheartnow it's really not. He's superficial

[capturemyheartnow]

@Touchmehxx There are only two options. (1) You accept girls having having unattractive boobs (2) You reject them. Boob size is very important , although it is not everything. The girls with the largest size of boobs have sizes in excess of G size. Very few boys will accept someone with such huge boobs. Should men be prevented from having their preferences?

[Touchmehxx]

@capturemyheartnow no you shouldn't reject anyone because of something like that, they can't help it

[capturemyheartnow]

@Touchmehxx Lolo Ferrri died because of cf chest problems (breathing) as a result of her big boobs and Sheila Hershey nearly died because of boob problems but she survived. Dating game is all a question of choice and both men and women have an equal right to choose. Don't prevent them from exercising their choice as per their preferences.

[Touchmehxx]

@capturemyheartnow I didn't say they couldn't. It's just shallow to judge on looks

[capturemyheartnow]

@Touchmehxx What is shallow for you is not based on any verifiable study. But how men perceive women' s boobs based on their size is verifiable as per some studies. Women's boobs should be judged from men's perspective and not women's. Because men derieve pleasure from women's boobs. For women they are just milk bags.

[Touchmehxx]

@capturemyheartnow that is literal sexist bullshit. Stop @ing me

[TheDiuuude]

Never, although once i dated a tanny and didn't find out till... later... yeah...

[SoFeckinAddicted]

No. Bt a guy once told me that Id have the perfect body if my boobs were smaller. Just lol.

[Blitzkrieger]

That would be shallow of these men to reject them for that.

[Anonymous]

How would they know? The guy would sound like an ass if said it before dating

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't reject a girl for the size of her boobs AS LONG AS she has the type of butt I like

[Luci92]

No, never thankfully.

[femail101]

how big are they than?

[Luci92]

@femail101 they're large enough.

[femail101]

how large?

[Luci92]

@femail101 32E lol

[femail101]

Big!

[SarahsSummer]

They're nothing special but Lol. I don't think so.

[Snow-Girl36]

No, I never have experience that.

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[rgb008]

No…. can't say that has ever happened lmao

[Princeofanons]

My boobs ain't big enough

[jacquesvol]

If it happened that guy wasn't worth the girl.

[iceEverestere]

People reject because of that?

[babeeeone]

Never had this happen to me

[kingarthas]

as long as you have the p its alright

[kodaktai3307]

no because they love them

[Marb-Elo55]

I love boobs of all sizes. would never reject

[sibelcan_a]

nope

[Angelamariaha2519]

No never..

[FemaleTrumpSupporter]

Nope

[Owl95]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Who knows.

[Anonymous]

@Whaaaaa