Why did this girl stop looking at my snapchat story?

[duckballs123]

She told me she liked me/wanted to date me but was still into her ex so i said i dont think we should talk in the mean time/dont talk to me unless you want a relationship. Since then, she stopped liking my photos/looking at my snap stories. Why?

[Dousj]

Cause she doesn't want a relationship. can't put a gun to their head like that, they're emotional creatures and once they hit that emotionally uncertain phase, you've gotta ride it out while bringing certainty.

Congratulations, you played yourself

[duckballs123]

Rephrase this. Im not understanding lol

[Dousj]

You told her not to talk to you unless she wanted a relationship... now she ignores you on social media. See the connection?

[duckballs123]

I see, makes sense. Ofc i do like her still and stuff. Should i even bother messaging her? Or just let her contact me first

[Dousj]

Give it a week or 2 before messaging her. Don't come off as desperate or like you have to have her back or something. Once a woman knows she's got you, they tend to lose interest. Show that you want her, but are perfectly find with not having her. Thats why you wait 2 weeks, gives her time to emotionally reset her opinion of you, and shows that you can go a good period w/o contacting her

[chaleesi]

probably tryna get her mind off you (and maybe her ex too) so she can figure out what she wants

[duckballs123]

she still talks to her ex though

[goofyk101]

she's using space to realize what she wants, respect it, she is actually doing you a favor

[duckballs123]

she still talks to her ex though. like they talk a lot

[goofyk101]

Was he her first boyfriend?

[duckballs123]

yes, and they broke up cause he said he wants to focus on "school/his sport" but then he got a different girlfriend after

[goofyk101]

I think you take this time to stay away from her, she is a little damaged if she is still latching onto the ex, trust me been there and done that with this situation. Dated a guy who was still like this with his ex, told me he wanted nothing, then they kept in contact over facebook, eventually they met up for drinks, didn't click, then the loser came running to me begging me back and i said NOPE. Now his taken her off facebook and is single. Honestly not worth your time and effort if she is playin

[goofyk101]

she's confused and latching on. In time, trust me, she will realize she fucked up with you

[duckballs123]

i said

"Okay, well in the mean time, I dont think we should talk. If you are still into him then thats that. Throughout these whole 3 months of talking, I've been emotionally happy at times and emotionally sad because of how things are going between us. If you are still into your ex then I dont want to talk to a girl that likes someone else/prioritizes them over me. This whole time, my friends told me to drop you cause you werent worth it but i stayed along and didn't listen to them because of what i felt towards you. I also knew this whole time u werent over it and u talked to him more than me which was a problem. So in conclusion, You are into someone else that isn't me and i dont think we should talk. If anything happens, and you change your mind, If im still single/interested in you, I'll date you. If not, tough luck. You have my snapchat, my number, and my instagram. You can contact me, I won't contact you. Finally, with all this said, Do not talk to me unless you want a relationshi

[duckballs123]

should i even bother trying to talk to her after like a few weeks like that other guy said?

[goofyk101]

Your message is perfect

[goofyk101]

Nope. Deal with it now, or else mentally you are going to keep thinking about it right? Its been 3 months now, when are you gonna stop? Obviously when you come to peace with an action that YOU are taking charge of, you need to do this for yourself man. Trust me, it shows you still care, but you are also showing her that you are over her crap. If she goes back to the ex know its because of desperation and need of wanting someone. You have done nothing wrong, you are over the game. Be realistically, this will head fuck with her and make her realize you are actually a great guy who doesn't fuck with people emotions

[goofyk101]

👍😊✌️️

[goofyk101]

But realistically*

[duckballs123]

Okay well, she started looking at my stories again, and then unblocked me (only me, cause my friend didn't get unblocked either and she blocks a lot of people) from seeing her story on insta saying she's going out with her bestfriend and her ex and to hit her up lol

[duckballs123]

and she unliked all my pics

[goofyk101]

Did you send the letter?

[yaboy123]

Oh i already sent that like a few days ago. thats when she stopped talking. But I wanted to drop all contact with her so i told her she has my attention and what she wanted and she said nothing so i blocked her on everything and deleted her number. She lost/wasnt interested

[goofyk101]

You know what, its for the best man. If im not the only person telling you this then there's people out there who get you and dont want yiu to go through hell with this girl again. Chin up dude, lifes not that bad x