Girls, if a guy is immature is that a big turn off for you girls?

[LetsSucceed]

Yes you guessed it I am kinda immature for my age and I guess most guys are. I guess I joke around and say stupid stuff and talk to much.

[Maik567]

That's not even what maturity is, a lot of people seem to have this idea that having fun, joking and fooling around is immature but that is not the case. Actual maturity has a lot more to do with being independent and being able to adapt to different situations. Knowing when to be serious and when to relax. Being confident in yourself, but also knowing when to laugh at yourself and not getting mad about every single thing.

Being snobby and calling someone elses sense of humor childish has nothing to do with being mature.

[estoydorado1]

Depends on what you mean by immature. I love playful guys but if your talking immature as in throws tantrums, mopes about, and play the constant victim then I will want nothing to do with you. I know some people link those 2 together but for me there is a huge difference between optimistic/enthusiastic and incorrigible/asinine/zero self-control.

[samhradh_leannan]

It depends on the type of immaturity. Being silly and playful and joking around is great. As long as you can still take a relationship seriously and care about your partner's needs and feelings, you'll be just fine. Immaturity is only a problem when it leads to hurtful behavior or an inability to be responsible.

[akinn]

It depends what you mean by immature... If a guy likes joking around and laughing I think that's cute, guys without a sense of humor are boring to me. But if he is incapable of having an actual conversation and behaves like a 12 year-old then it's a turn off.

[tiajoker]

I think its kinda endearing honestly. I mean I like mature guys too, but immature guys also have attractive aspects. It makes you a lot cuter and makes girls want to make sure you stay out of trouble.

[writing_essays]

It depends what you mean by immature - I only know why guy that I consider to be immature and that is because he's selfish and inconsiderate and ungrateful.

[jxxrn]

As long as you're respectful and know how to be a gentleman, I think you're fine. Besides you sound like you're a lot of fun soooo no it's not a turn off in my opinion

[LetsSucceed]

Not going to lie, I am pretty fun guy

[jxxrn]

And that's attractive so stay you!

[larval-stalker]

Slightly depends on what a person's personal definition of immaturity is.
But to keep it short and sweet, I think it only turns me off when its during a time when its needed.

[Carley99]

It depends I can be immature but in the fun kinda way I prefer guys that are mature but I don't see it as a turn off you are 18 if you were 30 that would be another story.

[ambertaylor]

Depends, if he's immature in front of his friends I could deal with that but I'd expect a level of maturity in the relationship.

[someho]

Well depends but if you mean in a joking way then why would it be a turn off? Everyone wants someone to cheer them up.

[Anonymous]

I think basically all guys are somewhat immature, if I'm dating someone I want them to be able to joke, and loosen up and have fun and not be serious all the time. Just know that there are times to be serious and mature.

[meandane]

Yeah, but there's nothing wrong with joking or talking much. maturity does not equal silent and serious.

[abby0500]

Sometimes in the wrong situation. If he is immature at times but knows when to act mature then that's what I would prefer.

[Anonymous]

That doesn't mean you're immature. That means you don''t take yourself seriously. And that's nothing wrong with that. It's part of your personality.

[Vicki_C17723]

No, it's no a turn off, if you treat a girl right and are respectful to her

[Vicki_C17723]

*it's not

[soulbabe]

It depends on it what way some times I like it other times it's a turn off

[Anonymous]

Immature = Unnattractive and unfuckable

[OrionH]

I am immature when I hang out with friends lol.

[Anonymous]

Yes he should grow up

[apriljoiner]

Yes. Be a big boy

[CheyenneBae]

Nope