Ladies, what method would you use to feminize your man?

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My wife of 22 years mentioned during the heat of some kinky passionate sex, that she would love feminizing me! Over a period of 4 months she had changed all my under things to feminine! I enjoyed wearing these articles very much actually! Then after the 2nd month, I noticed after I showered that my chest itched quite a bit and by the 3rd I noticed my nipples were getting larger and protruded! By the end of the fourth month I had obvious boobs! My wife took me to Macy's and as she was looking at bras, the sales lady who was in her late 20's asked what she was looking for in particular? My wife came right out and said she was looking for a sheer bra for my husband! The sales lady was very eager to help and did. I know now that she has been giving me hormones via cool drinks! Ladies I am on the way to becoming a woman somewhat unexpectedly however, intend to see it through since I enjoy it very much! How would you choose to feminize your man for real? How do you feel about men being feminized? Tell me your story!

saphirasilverwings · Accepted Answer

Okay, lets be sensible here. If your wife did that to you it would be a serious violation of your personal rights as a human being. Just as it is wrong to cut someone's hair without their permission or paint their house a different color without their permission, so it is wrong to change their gender without their permission.

A person's gender is an incredibly large part of their identity and their lifestyle. While I understand that some people may want to change certain things about themselves, including their gender, it isn't right for people to make that decision for others. You can't change someone that way just because you want to. It's not ethical.

Something about your excessive use of exclamation points makes me feel that this is only a fictional story inspired by a fetish. However, if it is true, I am only thankful that you are okay with what was done to you. Personally I cannot imagine how violated I would feel at being transformed unwillingly into a man.

I'm not sure what you're referring to when you say "it" is "becoming quite a common thing". I am aware of the fact that it is pretty common for women to find feminine guys attractive. I am also aware that many people have changed their gender, and that there are all sorts of ranges and variations when it comes to sexuality. I assure that I am perfectly open minded when it comes to different sexual orientations and identities.

But it's NOT common for people to secretly alter each other that way. And, thankfully, I'll never be open minded ENOUGH to think that something that is a violation of a person's rights is normal or acceptable. Being open minded doesn't mean being accepting of wrong and harmful behavior. Would you call someone closed minded for thinking murder is wrong? Probably not. This may not be quite as extreme as murder but it's the same principle.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hello every one My Name is Anne-Marie

Yes FORCE FEMINISATION it s becoming more commun although still in the closet. The Reasons are mutiple, the wife realizes that her hubby is a woman inside any way (sissy, Crossdresser, etc...) or there in BDSM and to show her dominance over the new feMALE she totally feminizes HEr. (Clothing. Sexual, etc...)

And in addition it take the guilt away of the new feMALES id sHE is being transformed instead doing it HErself, There are aways people that wish all some things all there life but never have the guts to do them. Some times they just need a little push to help them. Therefore some are very greatful for the little push that help them accomplish there dream or fantasy or what ever you want to call it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't know about using hormones via cool drinks, but I don't mind wearing some of the underclothing that women wear. My wife does know about it, but isn't thrilled. If only my wife would femininize me when I'm at home. Like making me her maid or being her panty love slave.
Before we got married, I told her about my wearing women's underwear. She didn't seemed to worried about it until years later. I tried to stop doing that, but I failed.
I can't really answer your question because I'm not a girl. I guess I'm happy for you if your happy. But I wouldn't be happy if my wife used hormones on me to make me grow breasts and shave or lose my body hair to look more female. Yes, I shave my armpits. I think about shaving my leg hairs, but my wife would freak out. Thinking I was turning gay or bisexual. Which isn't true. I have no interest being with guy's. Besides, I been married for over 18 years.

ForcedtoFeminize · Accepted Answer

My wife out me on Transfemme estrogen breast cream, Bountiful Breast Cream made with volufiline and bio-bustyl and Transfemme MTF breast pills. I have steadily been growing and feminizing following this regimen. My testosterone has dropped and my estrogen is up. The truth is I always wanted to be a woman, I was in the closet and I am really a transgender. I had to lie about it as its not something one can easily just go out and do. Luckily I have a wife who is understanding and now enjoys this, so I will live my life feminized without getting SRS surgery.

AlexisLori · Answer

I agree with SaphiraSilverWings - "A person's gender is an incredibly large part of their identity and their lifestyle. And, If your wife did that to you without any prior discussion, it would be a serious violation of your personal rights as a human being."

However, Rik from this post and your others, it's clear you two did discuss your being Feminized. You didn't express an objection to it and, at least, gave Her tacit authorization to proceed.

Her moving forward covertly to Feminize you by slipping hormones into your drinks, is clearly in line with what was agreed to, even if the extent of the Feminization She desired wasn't clear.

You going to Macy's for her to select a sheer bra for you is, again, implicit consent to your further Feminization.

Is She "Forcibly Feminizing" you? Yes, as you weren't specifically asked if you wanted to proceed. But, essential to being Feminized is the transfer of Power and Control to Her.

You are already in the "Forced Feminization" process. She clearly has decided on the path She wants to take you. Your continued implicit consent gives Her the right now to decide the direction and degree of your Feminization.

You could back out of the agreement, but clearly you aren't interested in doing so, as both of your desires are in the same direction. Now, give Her explicit consent to further your Full Feminization. Give Her full consent, at first, for a short amount of time to let Her have Full Power and Control over your sexuality - like a few hours. It will be exciting and scary to relinquish to this "Total Control" to her Dominant side. There will be internal uncertainties and conflicts in your mind as this process of "Forced Feminization" proceeds. These are to be expected as your Sexual Orientation is molded to Her wishes. Appreciate and enjoy these emotions. Think of them as a roller-coaster ride through "Gender Identity Land".

As time proceeds and you become more accepting of these new gender identity changes, I suspect both of you will want to explore giving more Control and Power to Her over your Sexuality for longer periods of time.

Where this will lead only time will tell. Enjoy your 'Feminization Transformation' - it will be a Great Adventure!

P.S. Yes, I think this would be a wonderful fantasy to have come true. Though, my finding a partner for this exploration will be difficult.

Alexis

NicoletteKomotov · Answer

Ladies and Gentlemen,
1) I think this is a good thing. First because he said, 'i intend to see it through since I enjoy it very much!"

2) As long as he monitors his liver function (with the guidance of a doctor) - the risk is low.

3) She obviously can tell what will make her husband feel good versus what most wives do for their husbands these days and she is actively pursuing it for him.

4) Feminization of men is not as uncommon as one would think. One need only look at Amazon and find it. Search 'Feminizing Men' and the top of the list has a book by Barbara Deloto and Thomas Newgen on how to maximize the feminization of a male. CHEKC IT OUT! REALLY. Click on the author link and there are multiple fantasies about men being feminized whether by a hot wife, cuckolding wife, girlfriend, roommate, boyfriend, or by the males own interest at a new experience.

5) Understanding that the world is full of paradigm filled people that frown on men for being feminine, once one has realized this, it is just another human experience available to all men just as women have masculinized themselves. No different than another hobby or playing poker with the guys.

So, it ends up in this:

6) RikSounds is a lucky man. Riksounds is a "Real Man" for being courageous and admitting he likes being feminized. RikSounds has a wife in tune with him after 22 years of marriage - a lucky man.
Congratulations RikSounds and best wishes for maximizing your feminization!
Hugs,
Nicolette

joanne-sometimes · Answer

How I now spend most of my life I love being Joanne My wife wants nothing to do with my dressing up as Joanne, she used to help me with my makeup when we first started dating but now, nothing. We have been living together as roommates for the past six years, she does her thing & I do mine. Neither of us bring home our dates but we each know that the other is dating. We get along better as girl friends but my wife is always asking me when I am going to stop dressing as a woman & go back to being a man, I try to tell her that I will never go back to being a guy, that I like dating guys not being one but she acts like she never hears me. I guess she will find out soon, that I have been taking male hormone blockers & estrogen, it is getting to the point to where I can't hide my breasts under my flannel shirts any more, they are quite noticeable under what ever shirt I wear. I am planning to sit down & tell her about what I have been taking in the next two weeks, I plan to be wearing the new dress I bought, it is a red velour mini dress with a very low top that shows off my breasts perfectly, maybe then she will stop pretending to not hear me when I tell her about my breasts this time.

kittycat933 · Answer

I love feminine guys, my boyfriend is one but is that way naturally and otherwise of his own doing. ^_^  You can message me if you want to discuss this more, since I think you're getting mostly negative feedback here out in the open.. Understandably so, though, it's not exactly common.

Anonymous · Answer

I Too am experiencing what you are! I was a supervisor for 35 people and always had to discipline and be in charge We had been married about 7 years when during love making my wife asked "Wouldn't it be nice to get away from all that stress and experience being a woman for a day with no responsibilities?" I laughed and nothing more was mentioned It was brought up several times more and I gave in and said I would play That was 11 years ago and I am fully feminized and my wife has a few lovers who I have enjoyed as well! I live full time as a woman and I love it!

sarahbeth1998 · Answer

I'm dating this boy from school and while at his house I noticed girl clothes hanging in his closet and panties in his dresser. What should I think and do?

SuB932 · Answer

It was my brother. We decided to spend a summer at a remote mountain cabin. For the first couple of weeks everything was find, so he thought. I was putting Premarin in his food. When I started seeing slight changes, I drove 50 miles to the nearest town to buy bras, panties, and other female clothes for him. The next tine he took a shower, I tossed his male clothes in the septic tank and put his new clothes on the bed for him. He didn’t seem happy, but I convinced him to play along. I continued to give him the Premarin secretly. He started saying his nipples itched and I gave him some anti-itch cream, which was actually estrogen. Because of the softness of the clothes, he started enjoy wearing them. As his body changed I got him to agree to let me put makeup on him. I told him what I had been doing to him and this was his new life.

Anonymous · Answer

Hey, I want to feminize and domesticate my boyfriend. I already dominate him physically and have shaved off is body hair and given him nice skirts to wear. Anything else I can do?

Hartmut · Answer

...Do you not feel, y'know, violated? Assuming that this whole thing IS, in fact, true, then your wife basically disturbed your body's chemicals without your knowing! That's pretty much the worst kind of privacy invasion...

TheStaff_Sergeant · Answer

I'd foreclose on the relationship if it was found that my woman was secretly and unilaterally giving me hormone pills. I very much like being masculine male and I absolutely do not want to think, feel, or act like women. Otherwise, I would not be me.

jakeunKut- · Answer

I'd shoot that bitch. DEADASSSSSS. but on the other note, your just as crazy as her.

Flex20in · Answer

If you want to be femanine turn yourself into a tranny and cut of your dick and date men. Wtf is wrong with you beta sissy mangina simp ass little girly men? What is wrong with guys now if your women wants you to be a bitch you might as well leave these dumb ass bitches and be a gay guy

ADanseur · Answer

It's a story and that's OK. the only problem I have is with the 4 month time frame for obvious breasts. That seems a little fast to me. That said, I like the idea, even if there are some ethical questions. If it happens and you find that you like it, maybe she saw it while you didn't and is just helping you on your way. If you said STOP and she continued then I would be more concerned. You say YES so, go for it, sweetie.

richhomiejuan · Answer

I'm no expert, but this is biologically impossible. No doubt, estrogen supplements will change your mood, but will definitely not turn you into a woman. From my understanding, one must undergo multiple gene therapies, breast/butt augmentations, and many other cosmetic surgeries to even appear as a woman, much less actually be one. This is obviously just a creepy fantasy; not true at all.

TanNaked · Answer

Get a divorce and let her be a lesbian! She obviously is into females but is "in the closet".

Fourkaitlyn · Answer

I would never do that, if I wanted someone feminine I'd be with another chick. I like my men manly and think that's how they should be like.

Butterfly_kisses09 · Answer

Wth? I would never do that to my guy. What woman wants her man to have boobs? That's gross. I'm sorry but your wife has issues...

HerculePoirot · Answer

Hey @Riksounds Could we chat about this on the personal chat in this website? I am a man who wants to be feminized and would want to learn how..

Anonymous · Answer

I remember being coerced into washing the dishes when she removed her apron and proceeded to the bedroom. She then told me not to come until the kitchen was clean.

RedBubbleZzz · Answer

ewh sorry , I would be totally disgusted  full stop

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