How come that women are so bad at understanding men while men are easy to understand?

[Brian-Brain]

I understand that reading the opposite sex is not easy. I also don't like to generalize but this time I have to. For us men, women are impossible to understand. And sometimes I feel that women do not understand women.

But what I really don't get is why women have such a hard time understanding men. We are straight forward. Yes is Yes, No is NO and anything in between is exactly what he said. There is no huge manual needed. Just one sheet of paper is more than enough.

What is so hard about men to understand?

[TheMoroccangirl]

That's why I think psychology should be an official subject in school. It would make everything so much easier and both sexes will have an insight of the differences of their minds.

[witherwing]

At least here in Finland there is a mandatory psychology class in high school. One class doesn't begin to cover it all, but it's a useful class. But I have studied the full syllabus of psychology in high school and even did one part of my finals on psychology. Still having trouble understanding both women and men.

[TheMoroccangirl]

I took psychology courses and it helped me a lot. I got to understand both men and women.

[Brian-Brain]

Yes, I agree. But still, what is so difficult about men to understand.

[Brian-Brain]

@witherwing I did not know that about Finland but that is great.

[TheMoroccangirl]

It is because females associate and connect almost everything with each other. They tend to look in details and seek the meaning behind something while men don't do that. Men think in boxes, women think like spaghetti.

[Salimy]

totally agree ,

[MikkiM]

Some women are demanding ,

And if she doesn't know how to adjust for his guy, then probably she's still immature

[JohnDoe3000]

Because women are paranoid, always suspecting hidden motives and such. In short they overcomplicate and can't take thing at face value.

[Brian-Brain]

I agree with you.