Do fat girls look sexy?

[Polisiana]

My friend is obsessed for this.She is not so fat it's only 145pounds,I have tried to convince her that the appearance is not everything,but she keeps telling that she has ugly body.

Recently a guy that she used to like told her that she isn't sexy because she is fat.Now she doesn't eat anything or when is sad eats a lot.Really I don't know what to do with her,I am very upset,she is hurting herself with this behavior,she even doesn't dance in pubs because thinks that everyone will see and laugh with her.Please any opinion what to do with her?

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I want to say that she is not obese,just she has plump thighs.

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She is 63 inches or 1.60 m

[Prof_Don]

I've always been attracted to bigger girls (average-size to chubby). Nothing against skinny girls, but throughout my lifetime, less of them, on average, "strike my fancy". I tend to like a round face on a girl; it's so cute & kiss-able, esp chubby cheeks. I tend to overall, be more attracted to "cute" than "sexy". :)

About your friend: tell her that there are guys that physically like her. As long as she dresses well (well = decent, well put together), & carries herself confidently, guys are gonna like her. Trust me. :)

[ironman117]

tell your friend that guy is dum as hell...how the hell he is going to judge some one and say is ugly because she got a few extra pounds. me personaly I'm overweight and I love girls that got extra pounds. so tell your freind that the moron that made her feel bad did her a favor because now she can look for someone that really love her and that appresiate what she got inside. oh by the way if she is only 1.60m she will only have a little belly but biger boobs and butt so my opinion as a guy is that is GREAT!

[Polisiana]

Thank you,I said to her and she really felt better :)

[ZombAbe]

I know that big girls can be sexy. I'm thick. I'm well over your friend's weight and I do have days I hate myself but otherdays that I feel super attractive. I get hit on alot, sometimes I just think its creepers. But my boyfriend finds me very attractive. He thinks I'm sexy even on my worst days and you wouldn't think we'd be together. But we are. She just needs to find the right guy, and the right confidence.

[error]

she should not be disturbed

and you do not upset this is normal and happens in all friendship

General, men are different in taste

And every man is different from the other

This does not mean she does not do the diet

You her friend make her excited to do diet for her health

But you do not pressure on her

Make this fun to her

I hope this help you

Good luck

[katrinasanchez]

Honestly, her insecure and well.. pathetic behavior might rub off on you.. Um good luck. Tell your friend that "Wanting to be something else is a waste of the person you are". If she's that insecure, she's probably that type who says mean thing about other people because it makes her feel better about her self. Inside, she's broken, frustrated, angry and weak. Not great traits.

[DegenDen]

Tell her to go to the gym. Fat girls are NOT sexy ever. It's not just the appearance its that being fat projects the image of being lazy and not taking care of yourself. I like girls who take good care of themselves.

[31Ross]

Why is this guy getting disagrees? fat girls are not sexy! I work out and I expect her to do the same.

[katrinasanchez]

I kind of agree. Same with fat guys, they are not sexy to me because they don't car enough about their weight to stay fit. I think people are sub consciously attracted to people who might live long. Fat people won't live long. It's a fact.

[human_condition]

Just because YOU don't like them doesn't mean they're not sexy.

[Grotty]

Each to their own,and you can still be fat and fit.

[Anonymous]

yeah depends on height I suppose.im 5'10.5 and most of my friends are taller and we all weigh more then 145lbs...and I think we carry it well.we are def not overweight, in fact for ou heights most are less than bmi say is cool...is she short?

either way I feel bad for her I had a friend once who was 5'2 and 168bs and she was really unhappy...

youra good friend to worry and whoever told he she was fat is an a-hole!

[hippychick21]

she needs to be healthy. she shouldn't diet just because of a comment a guy made, obviously she holds his opinion very high and he either didn't know or didn't care. just encourage her to be herself, and she will eventually move on.

[iXenomorph]

145 is heavy? lol. I'm 157 and I'm kind of tone. But I'm a guy.

I wouldn't think 145 is heavy? All the weight goes to the butt and boobs and makes the girl look prettier? Thighs aren't a biggy.

[Xenophobia]

It all depends on her height. She could just be very self conscious.

[katrinasanchez]

This question made me LOL hahahahahaha I'd say as long as she isn't super fat

[Anonymous]

How tall is she? 145 might not be so bad if she is kind of tall. Honestly, I've never found a fat girl sexy. Slightly chubby might be fine. I can't tell which she is though.

[Anonymous]

What a stupid question. Of course fat girls (or guys for that matter) aren't sexy. They never will be. Overweight in society is just looked down upon and that won't likely ever change.

[jacquesvol]

Rounded girls can look just as sexy as other girls, it's all about the presentation in her case.

[Grotty]

I love BBW p*rn so yes I think fat girls can be sexy.

[texassports18]

absolutely! especially if they dress in a flattering way

[nanotsu]

i love girls that have some extra pounds on !