Youve added '3.5-4 inches hard'. Well, size doesn't matter. Its big enough. The 'size matters' shit is just the feminazis trying to go bodyfascism on men and boys, but no-ones convinced.
The average size of an erect penis in the West is around 5.3 - 5 1/2 inches long. I can't remember the girth, pretty small by my standards, and thats the one that matters anyway.
Except the anterior fornix erogenous, which most men dont hit anyway, a shorter penis can stimulate all the most sensitive parts of the vagina. The parts that tug on the clit, the vaginal opening, the g-spot. Why? Simple: theyre only a couple inches from the opening. So length affecting pleasure during intercourse is a misconception.
It can affect the draw away from your vagina, but thats basically it. The girth is more important. And if his dick is thin, so what? Thats what he's got, and when you're with him, thats what youve got too.
The weird thing is the question. Is it 'bad'? Well I sure haven't fucked him, only you would know! So if you're genuinely asking us, your concern is probably nothing to do with the actual experience. If you need people to tell you its bad, then it probably isn't.
Back to the 'size question'. The answer is on three levels.
1. Absolute, physiological, medical truth: no, size doesn't matter. Unless, perhaps, you're at the very extremes. Girth matters more than length. Then its about compensating with skills such as cunnilingus. I charge £150/hour for lessons...
2. Sociological/psychological truth, female: Size can matter. If you're brainwashed by the feminazi media or your friends, to think that it matters, then you might make something that doesn't matter, matter. Which is obviously pretty stupid, and based on a false premise.
3. Sociological/psychological truth, male: Size can matter. If youve fallen to feminazi myths that it does matter, then it will affect your ability to enjoy it or to be aroused, which will affect her ability to be aroused, and maybe to enjoy it.
Both 2 and 3 are self-fulfilling prophecies, coming from some bodyfascist feminazis who think making guys insecure about their penises will make up for the insecurities about their weight. Its a lose-lose situation, and I've heard of men and boys commit suicide, and actually take their Lives, due to feelings of inferiority and worthlessness. So I would treat this subject much more seriously and compassionately, than just to assume its 'bad'.
Note: I've found being big can be difficult, and thats shit too.
The average white penis is 5.5 in North America. Only 5% are over 7".
A French Army Surgeon (1898/1972), a 30-year specialist in
genitourinary diseases} makes reference to numerous anatomical
distinctions which show a similar pattern of whites being between
blacks and Orientals. ... size of genitalia (Orientals smallest,
blacks largest). We averaged the ethnographic data on erect penis and
found the means to approximate: Orientals, 4 to 5.5 in. in length and
1.25 in. in diameter; Caucasians, 5.5 to 6 in. in length and 1.5 in.
in diameter; blacks, 6.25 to 8 in. in length and 2 in. in diameter."
(Rushton, J. P. & Bogaert, A. F. (1987) Race differences in sexual
behavior: Testing an evolutionary hypothesis. Journal Research in
Personality 21(4): pp. 536-7)
nah I had sex with a 1.5 inch dick (it didn't get hard) but it stills feels arousing for gentle sex
It’s kinda bad for him because it’s below the average 5’
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A penis is only consistent in length when it's erect.
When soft it can vary in length pretty drastically. Sone days it will hang low at full length. I call these "good dick days" to counter women's good hair days.
If it's cold outside? To quote Seinfeld I can disappear like a scared turtle!
And anything in between.
Don't worry about if it's considered small big or average. Did you enjoy it?
it's not good or gad, it's what he was born with, that being said, if size is important for you to be fulfilled sexually, and that is your top priority, then find a way to let him down or get a toy and have him learn to use it on you.
u Based upon both his erect, and soft sizes; I would say that he's definitely below average, for sure.
What really matters is if you liked it, or not.
In the Journal of Urology study, researchers found the following among the group of 80 men: An average penis size of 8.8 cm (3.5 inches) when flaccid. An average penis size of 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect.
There are showers and growers. It only matters hard. Do girls compare boob size in the tightest sports bra?
Size below 4" is considered small. Above or equal to it are normal. Basically, it depends on the genes.
The average erect penis is 5-1/2 to 6 inches. A 4" erect penis is smaller than average. Flacid they vary in length.
Not sure why you would say it's 'bad'.
Thanks I feel better about my five and a half inches now😄
Did it feel good in your pussy? That's all that matters.
Yeah, average is like 5.7 in U. S. although, its probably way smaller in India and a other countries like Peru where the average height is significantly shorter.
Soft dicks dont matter. When its cold i can shrink to half an inch but erect im always 7-8 so i wouldn't worry about what its like when its soft
There are "showers" who's penis size remains relatively the same when getting erect, and there are "growers" who... grow.
Sometimes they look little when soft. Did you enjoy it though?
It only matters how big it is when it's GO time.
2 inches flaccid is pretty normal
You should call your boyfriend by the nickname "Tiny" from now on...
yes. all blood goes outbof the dick to makebit hard. its ok to be that size when soft
When soft yeah its 1.5 to 2 inches gets bigger when harder
Soft varies in size depending on environment. I've had between 1 and 4 inches when soft, but 7.2 when erect
That's a lot below the average. I am just gonna say.. it's really bad for him.
The only thing that matters is its size in hard condition!!! What you gonna do with a soft dick?
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