I have 2 tattoos, but as a unique memory to my mother and her fight with the evils of breast cancer.. my first was when I was 18 and didn’t really make my terms clear on exactly what I wanted my piece to look like as a final result.. I have done some touch ups and plan to add more to celebrate her life and the love we shared.. the second was given more thought.. and it is the symbol of a support group that helped me in some of the hardest times I have had to go through, which also happens to be in my husbands handwriting, demonstrating what an instrumental part of my grieving he was to me. He was all for it, and still is! However,, the most important thing I’m trying to say is.. they mean something to me! Fork err body else! Think twice and then take action...
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Get it girl! I got a tattoo in memory of my dad as well. It says 'love you xo' in his hand writing, from a birthday card. It means a lot, and if anyone had a problem with it I'd tell them to shove it. I think the only problem people have with your decision, is that it isn't originally you or your artists work. Maybe think of something else more personal that you and/or your artist can design/draw? At the end of the day, do you (: I'm sorry to hear about your father lovely, it's shitty without them. Xx
1) it's your body. Do what you want.
2) I've always found chicks with tats to be some of the sexiest tbh.
3) It's a tribute to your father. That's the overall thing. It's a tribute to someone who you cared about and has passed in your time. I'd get one for my mother if she passed no doubt. And I kick in doors for a living. Ain't no one gona tell me not to get one in tribute to my mom or grandfather. So. Fuck what anyone says. If you want to get a tribute tat for your old man. Go for it. Who cares what they think. If you paying tribute is a turn off, then they show no insmtrest in what you truly care about. Fuck them. Get the tat.
I send my condolences to you and your family. RIP.
As someone who doesn't like tattoos or body modification generally, that's not too bad. I don't mean it's good, but only because I'm no fan of tattoos no matter how small or subtle.
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No it is not a turn off for me and I can say for a lot of people but some might find it a turn off but that should not stop you you have a good reason for wanting a tattoo but he will always be with you in your hart looking over you make sure u know want you want before u get it ps sorry for your lose.
Not a turn off per definition, but in my opinion tattoos should carry a story and should be custom. Is there a sign that could be related to your father? If you would have such a story it would be a turn on for me, just picking something from the internet is would less.
For me its a turn off. My crush also wants to tattoo her wrist with some roses, so I rather bought her some children's tattoo to play with that instead. :D The problem with tattoos that people usually regret them later.
I'm not à tattoo guy, but small one I find them cute
It's your tattoo, if you doubt about it you should consider don't do it, what people think about should not matter to youLooks ghetto, I was around when women didn't have tattoos, sad to see this shit really. You can't improve a woman's skin with a bunch of ghetto looking crap.
All tattoos for me are a turn off. But most guys I'd say don't mind or even like them. I might be in the minority? Having said that, for me, the smaller the better if you are going to have one.
Don't worry about other people's opinions. Do it for you and the remembrance of your father. Fuck what other people think.
Something small, cute and personal like that I would consider acceptable.
White ink in the photo looks like a scar that the skin has repaired.Typically I don't care for tattoos. But this one is no problem.
Looks cute and sorry to hear about your dad, most guys I know wouldn't mind it as it's dedicated to your dad.
Not a bad tattoo at all. Definitely not a turn off.
Get something more meaningful... I hate tattoos like these since most of the time they have no meaning and they can be construed as such.
Not at all, I like personally like girls with tattoos, and if it's meaningful to you then that's even better.
No i like tattoos on girls just no all over a few r fine just not from head to toe
nooo. its not a trun off for guys at all.
everyone should respect other's feelingsIt's good don't worry go ahead.
some people love tattoos other people hate tattoos
Do it on a wrist, you will see it more often.
Its not a turn off and its your body
what a ugly tattoo
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