Guys, Do you think it's slutty when a girl shows her cleavage in social media pics?

[Anonymous]

[Shezadi]

It is slutty, because a woman is showing that she is nothing more than a pretty face and a hot body. It corrupts the society, a woman should not portray themselves this way. And if a woman was to show these photos to her husband, that is okay but if she is posting these pictures on social media then definitely it is slutty and attention seeking. It shows a woman has no meaning in her life other than showing her cleavage. It shows a woman wants attention rather than respects. There is a quote, "girls want attention, women demand respect." A woman degrades herself and her dignity when she does this. A woman show not portray herself as a sexual object, there is a difference between being beautiful and provocative. Some girls look beautiful for themselves and some do it to attract attention, otherwise a girl can look at such pictures herself rather than putting on the internet. Even if a guy likes these pictures, does not mean he loves her, he may only lust her. Beauty is temporary, you will not look the same way when you turn 50 but you can still have a good personality, a beautiful mind, a pure heart and a good soul. A woman's beauty and love should only be for her husband or boyfriend not for every single man on the planet. Women need to respect themselves, if they portray themselves as sluts people will call them sluts. We need to judge herself before others judge us. Shyness and simplicity are also beautiful. If such pictures are not slutty then she should consider showing those to her father or brother, and ask them if they are okay with her putting these vulgar and provocative pictures on the internet, does this make them proud of their daughter or sister? It is selling your beauty for a small price like compliment, or to seek validation from others. It shows low self-esteem. Fake people need to maintain an image.

[Unit1]

Exactly!!! Well spoken!

[GracefulCharm]

In some cultures where humans still live nomadic. I'm talking about parts of the world that haven't been part of modern society and were most recently discovered to have humans living there. Places like the Amazon's or papa new guinea. The woman in those tribes can walk around with their breasts out and nobody thinks anything negative about it.

Only in modern society we assume a woman who displays her breasts as negative. I think social norms can turn anything into shame. It depends who promotes them this way. You are definitely promoting this to be negative.

[Shezadi]

@GracefulCharm I am not promoting anything I only shared my opinion. We can't force people to praise photos like this. There is a difference between beautiful and provocative. Those tribe women don't have clothes and tribe people are like animals and illiterate. This doesn't mean we have to copy them. People understand the difference between a decent woman and a indecent woman.

[GracefulCharm]

I agree but it's because of social norms that we as society constantly acknowledge. I don't see anything wrong with the photo of that girl. She's at her phase in life where she knows she is sexy. She feels sexy and she wants to express it. Obviously the reactions she gets from others won't always be positive. But she will learn that and understand when it's good for her to show off her sexy side and to who she should.

[mistixs]

" a woman is showing that she is nothing more than a pretty face and a hot body. " so if a woman posts a photo of her pretty face, she is showing that she's nothing more than that? So we should all put paperbags over our heads?

[Shezadi]

@mistixs It depends on a woman's intention. If a woman posts a provocative photo of herself than she is obviously doing it to get boys' attention and to have them say, "oh my god, she is so hot and sexy." This attention makes women feel good about themselves. If a woman is praised by her boyfriend or husband that is fine, but why would women want attention and compliments from strangers and from boys who she doesn't know in real life. We are not that dumb.

[GracefulCharm]

Maybe she doesn't have a love life. She is trying to attract potential boyfriends? Maybe she knows that the people who look up her social media will be strangers but the boy she has a crush on will also look up her social media. Maybe she dresses modest in real life and only has sexy photos on social media.

You see this in the fitness quite common actually. Lots of personal trainers who are ladies will have sexy fit photos on their Instagram and social media. But they are always dressed very modest in real life.

[mistixs]

I don't judge women who do it, but I don't recommend doing it honestly. If you don't post the pictures publicly, you can use them as a form of currency. For example, I give my male friend pictures of me showing cleavage, in return for him doing favors for me. He even bought me a vibrator in return for cleavage pictures. Obviously if you post them publicly, you can't use them as currency like that.

As far as I see it, if guys are gonna see it and possibly jack off to it anyway, you might as well profit/benefit from it somehow, so I do.

[Gyrfalcon]

Plain spoken

[TonyRyanAgain]

Wtf? Lmao. He bought you a vibrator for just cleavage? LOL

[mistixs]

@TonyRyanAgain Yeah he's thirsty AF

[TonyRyanAgain]

Omg, haha. Way to benefit tho! 👊

[mistixs]

@TonyRyanAgain I think it's a fair trade. I gave him something to aid his masturbation, and he gave me something to aid my masturbation. :P

[mistixs]

I forgot to mention that I did a poll a few months ago asking how many guys would do this (do favors in exchange for sexy, but clothed, pictures) and 30% of guys said "i'd do a favor in return for such a photo" and 12% said "yes but only if the girl is really hot."

Would you send (if you're a girl) or accept (if you're a guy) a sexy (but clothed) photo in exchange for a small favor? ↗

[TonyRyanAgain]

Wow, I'm surprised by the answers, lol. Very nice.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

In my defense, I'd rather see my boobs closer together than apart like they're having a rift with each other. I can't avoid the cleavage. The cleavage, in fact, looks attractive. I'd rather look attractive than not. It's hot where I live. I don't like covering up. Since I'm already seeing my cleavage while standing in front of my mirror, I might as well accentuate them but still looking decent and not to the point of excessive. It's not my intention to look or (worse) be slutty.

[makkat]

If cleavage seen.. then whats the problem.. the mindset of people to be changed

[thatguyfromtoronto]

I do think girls should be more conservative when it comes to posting pics on social media. If you ask me, I think feminism and female empowerment today is very obscured because, in the early 1900s, women were fighting for the right to vote and to be involved politically because they wanted their intelligence to be recognized. I am not saying that girls/women don't want to be recognized for their intelligence but I think they care more about showing half naked pics of themselves to gain attention and by doing so you're only attracting many creepy, stupid guys with rapey thoughts.

By saying this, I know girls will read this post and say I AM RESTRICTING WOMEN OF THEIR FREEDOM!!! My rebuttal to that, oh shut up, should a guy walk around with no shirt on and in a thong with his right testicle hanging out? Yes, I do admit as a straight guy, I do find it attractive and sexy when a girl dresses like that but I hope as I get older and especially when I am with the woman that I love and married to that she will be the only one who gains my attention and not half naked chicks on IG.

[InTimoreDei]

Instagram is full of these types of women: Mirror pics with their buttocks sticking out, duck lips, fish gape, breasts exposed, gymnasium photos with revealing clothes bragging how fit they are, bikini pictures (on or not on the beach... doesn't matter... they wanna show off their body in bikinis), wannabe model types, fake botox injected faces, and many other types. They're all narcissists and they're all full of themselves.

Social media, like instagram, is all about physicality and who is the most attractive. But most of the type none of it is real beauty. It's all photoshopped and it's all overly sexual.

[hannahbanana11]

Well if you take a look at that pic, the girl is wearing a hooters top and um that place is known for the revealing females but I don't think cleavage is bad at all. But that doesn't mean that everything except your damn nipple should be out either. Girls these days don't understand and then get upset when the only kinda guys they get are dirt bags.

[Anonymous]

I know you asked “guys”, but I’ll still give you my opinion. Yes, it looks slutty, it looks as if she lacks class and wants to get the attention no matter what. But regardless of that, I’m sure guys will like your picture because in the end you’re showing your merchandise to them for free. You’re very beautiful dear, you just don’t need to show to much to get attention. Good luck 👍🏼 🍀

[9teen]

I honestly wouldn´t because I don´t see the point of it unless I want to draw unnecessary attention/fuckboys/old perverts and I also think it´s kinda slutty yes since it´s considered sexual.

[markscott]

She has nice boobs, but she would not attract me for a relationship. I'd want a girl who was more conservative with her boobs.

[PerpetualHubris]

No. Slutty is an opinion of ones opinions. If a man could be a slut we would all be one. I see it as a desciption of outgoing personality. If anyone drags you down for it. TAKE THEM FUCKING WITH YOU. They might call you easy ot any other names, but you are free in some respect. Not than they ever will be.

[madhatters4]

no. it's more a characteristic of an exhibitionist than a slut. i know plenty of women who dress very revealing or take revealing photos and put them online but are rather conservative in terms of sexual relationships

[Rahul08]

No, because sluttyness is having multiple sexual affairs at the same time and if you are showing your cleavage online you are not having intercourse. So,
I think it's not slutty. Your are pure beauty like Thames.

[Sienna-Rose]

Not necessarily no, I think it's more about the girls personality that makes her slutty. Some girls that display cleavage are but some just aren't, they enjoy the fashion and that's it.

[Astoriana]

It is sometimes unavoidable. I, for one, cannot usually take a photo without some cleavage unless I’m buttoned up to my neck or wearing a turtleneck. Which creates its own issues.

[HeyOhLetsGo]

Yeah but there's quite a difference between casually having cleavage being shown and pointing the camera at it.

[Astoriana]

@HeyOhLetsGo looks better, though, than making the exact same ugly neutral face or taking a photo of your 16 chins. Both things men do all the time.

[HeyOhLetsGo]

Jesus rage, why? I was agreeing.

[HeyOhLetsGo]

And I'm not even saying that it's bad. I love being in the centre of attentions myself.

[Anonymous]

Yes, Attention whores are slutty. Any female who exposes herself for attention has little to actually offer besides her sexual parts.

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[nickyBBB]

True lol

[sawno]

When its done like that then yes, but when its done in a more classy way i don't think its slutty. But either way slutty or not be yourself and enjoy it, because guys will enjoy it either way.

[Anonymous]

YES. It's slutty. Sluts use their bodies to attract people, but it's only the lousy people who'd fall for it. A decent and worthy girl would use her personality instead, and she'll attract guys as decent and worthy. Period.

[lexythelou22]

I don't give a shit what men think. I've got tits, and turtlenecks aren't comfortable. Don't like it, don't look at my pics.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's cheesy and the girls that do this are a dime a dozen... especially fat girls because usually that's all they got going for them.

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on how much effort she makes to show them. If she's wearing an-extreme push-up bra with a deep V, I'll think she's slutty. Some girls have big boobs so some cleavage will always show.

[waynecollins]

Depends if all her photographs are like that it says a lot. If there are a few and they’re classy I see no issue with it

[AM-205]

Sort of. If you want a nice friendly pic, go with nothing below the neck. But this is turns me on. (Your shirt makes it even more) This doesn't mean we men don't like it!! (You have lovely breasts, by the way)

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Not at all! It's only her cleavage. It's attractive and shows off her femininity

[Rissyanne]

It is no difference than the "look at my ass" pictures.

[englisc]

They do it for attention from random men, of course it's slutty.