Why do girls like guys in bands?

[Anonymous]

OK I am the lead singer of my band. Since I started I have found that girls always come up and flirt with me and before I could barely get a girl. Now I can pick what girl I want.

[Anonymous]

I'm the vocalist of 5 bands right now...and have an international side project I'm working on. Guys stare at me like crazy but are f***ing afraid to approach me! Maybe that has something to do with the fact that I growl, grunt and scream as well as sing, operatically and with the usual voice impostation (placement).

The guys that do approach me are either really full of themselves or other musicians (this option I like). Other musicians (in other bands) during group concerts always seem to find their way towards me, start a conversation, flirt, get me a beer...never do anything really, after a while they just stare at me from across the room with those bedroom eyes thinking that'll make a difference.

[ouisch_babe7]

There's just something about a guy who makes music that is sexy... maybe its the confident vibe they give off while performing, or maybe its seeing their raw talent exposed, or maybe its watching them thrash around on stage while other girls watch and decide they want the guy too. The only downside for a girl is if you want said guy to be your boyfriend, you have to worry abou groupie sluts trying to get with him. But I'm sure that's a plus for him = )

[Asker]

Well I have been in this for 3 years and it is still a mystery to me. The wierdest thing is groups of friends will flirt with me. Wouldn't that just cause drama?

[Brando]

They are either shallow girls, "fame whores" as flurry put it, or they are genuinely into your geekiness, or both.

Geekiness is "an irrational enthusiasm for something that someone in their right mind wouldn't give a sh*t about"...this is a good thing. But I doubt that's the reason, most likely they are the groupie type of girl.

[ihatework]

damn, I need to start a band

[Asker]

You should learn how to play acoustic gitar and go to bandfinder.com my band used it to find a new drummer about a year ago. once you learn how to play gitar it makes it a lot easier to learn bass or drums

[zagor]

I had a friend who was short and ugly, but was lead guitar in a metal band, and he always had girls - though he complained he couldn't find one with a functional brain. Must be some girl thing, because I wouldn't get all hot for some girl in a band unless I would find her hot just walking down the street.

[Anonymous]

That's true! There are easier ways to manipulate women. They believe so strongly in stereotypes,it makes easy prey for a good BSer. Just do the "High confidence" thing. It works even better than the dominant routine. Like shootin fish in a barrel. You'll have some stink on your johnson every night.

[flurry]

b/c those same girls are "fame whores"

[spedkid]

bamarang isn't it