Why do girls always seem to post revealing pics?

[Anonymous]

Why do many girls always seem to post pictures of themselves where their clevage or boobs are showing? Why do they also post pictures of themselves in sports bras?

[ROCKS128]

Wish i knew.
These all leads to complains from them later...
They give reason as -
Im confident about my body.
Im hot/sexy/cute/competibale.
I have right to do what-ever i want & wear watever i want.
I am just being myself.
I dont judge people by dress you know!😂
What would you do if you were in my place?(most dumb ever heard from a girl)
To attract some guys.
To be nice.
To be slutty.
To see what other girls have got.
To experience once at least being famous by body.(it never is once).
To get likes.
To jump at top😝

[Q-tip-boy]

I'll tell you one

"Bcoz they're sluts. "

They wear explicit clothes but expressions on their faces are completely opposite

Women with slutty clothes and an innocent face.

[ROCKS128]

Yea most of them sure are...
Western cult!

[Anonymous]

The best thing guys can do with all of this stuff is to ignore all of it. No compliments, no stupid gushing, nothing. But what do they do? the opposite. Simps... the lot of them.

Why do girls do it? because it works, that's why. Not on me though...

[Kkaos]

So damn true. These desperate simps serve no purpose other than to boost the inflated egos of these women and these losers actually think giving attention will make women want to be with them. It's a joke.

[Horror_lover]

Some like the attention, but then gets mad when the wrong types of guys flirt with them. I see it all the time. This girl post pictures in her lingerie with a kiss emoji as the caption. Then later on she will post about how guys are perves.

[kitty71]

Totally agree with you and those ladies are dumb

[vintagegirl90]

I feel like you’re generalising our entire gender, not all girls do that, I don’t do that. However the ones that do this are lacking self worth and feel they need that constant validation from others to feel good about themselves, it’s sad.

[savvy1225]

I agree

[InTimoreDei]

Agreed

[Goandtellyourmama]

I'll tell you: Instant gratification

Now let's look at what social media is: You're competing with hundreds and hundreds of people to be looked at. If you post revealing pics, many men will like this picture => which leads to "woow I get attention". More and more people do that, more and more access to those people.

It's the same with why do people have more one night stands? Because there is so much instant gratification available that it must be stupid to look for true love.

[loveyourself13]

i feel like girls shouldn't post all this shit bc when they do they get bad comments or a guy likes and they get all pissed off like their being used. this is coming from a girl like ur making a name for yourself by posting this shit like ur gonna fuck up one day and get all kinds of shit done to yourself. its nasty and bad like 14 year olds im sorry im 15 i love my tits and ass but thats for me not for others to talk shi about like pls if u dont like the comments or looks or names dont do it love your self

[englisc]

It's a thirst trap. They do it to attract attention from desperate men. Even more annoying is when they do that and then they complain about those guys messaging them, but really all they're saying is "look at me I get so much attention from these guys". A humble brag really.

[coralee]

Well first of all revealing is subjective. I don't consider a low cut top revealing unless it's plunging. It's cleavage I don't see the big deal it's the skin between breasts when they are in a bra. It's no different from any other skin. As for sports bras same reasons so many guys take pictures of themselves without shirts on.

[aa180]

You have to understand that from a GUY'S point of view, a girl's cleavage can be really seductive and arousing. To you it's just skin like that of any other part of her body, but that's cause you're a girl and presumably are straight, so you could be surrounded by a dozen of the hottest girls alive who are all completely naked and it wouldn't do a damn thing for you. But you have to realize that ~50% of the population are hetero men who ARE sexually attracted to women and their breasts are one of the things that arouse us the most.

Guys jerk off to the images you're talking about that you think aren't revealing.

[Q-tip-boy]

Wait, "delicious" and "tasty" is also subjective?

I agree with you bro. How do you stop yourselves from smelling the most delicious food kept in front of you?

At least, keep it confidential covered.

[coralee]

@aa180 You don't think women get aroused by attractive men with their shirts off? The only difference is women are expected to keep themselves in line, it is about time we start expecting the same thing from men. If you can't control yourself around cleavage that is your problem not anyone else's. I've worn v-cut shirts my whole life and the men around me have been just fine. Also when you stop tabooing things they become less of an issue. In some parts of Africa breasts are not sexualized and women walk around shirtless all the time and the men don't care. Why because they are used to it. Ever been to a nude beach? The novelty wears off in about 15 minutes and you just get used to it.

[Q-tip-boy]

Is that true? Wonen getting aroused by shirtless guys... lol.
when i asked women whether they are attracted to mens body, most of them said No. .
When i asked them whether they feel desire to kiss men's legs chest stomach arms shoulders, etc. The answer was again No, the majority said No.

Then what are wonen's desires exactly?

[Q-tip-boy]

I am surrounded by guys wearing simply t-shirts, majority of them having sleves and full sleve shirts.

None of them show their arms or chest, except a few one or two guys in 100 guys lol

[coralee]

@Q-tip-boy That's because you are 18 and the women you are asking are kids who are probably still uncomfortable talking about their sexuality. Women talking about men without men around can get just as objectifying as any group of men. We just don't talk about in front of you.

[Q-tip-boy]

I didn't ask them in person. It was an online post.

[coralee]

@Q-tip-boy They still aren't likely to give honest answers. Women are taught to hide our sexuality from a young age lest we be thought of as sluts. When men aren't around physically or digitally is when the truth comes out.

[Q-tip-boy]

I dont believe that completely. But you make a valuable point here and thanks for that

[JennieF]

Some women like to show off how good we look.

[BrianK7]

Wow. You look fabulous.

[MarketData]

Free porn, yay!

[samoht89]

funny thing is, you're married

[JennieF]

@BrianK7 Thank you!

[JennieF]

@samoht89 Yeah.

[BrianK7]

Sure you're welcome. You're married? Your husbands a lucky man.

[JennieF]

@BrianK7 I would say I'm the lucky one.

[BrianK7]

That's awesome. I wish you both the best of luck and I hope yous last till the end. How long have yous been together?

[JennieF]

@BrianK7 We married in 2005.

[BrianK7]

Thirteen years that's awesome. I hope yous will be one of the rare couple and last till death separates you two. Good luck and take care. Later.

[Dinklex3]

Because that's their body. Lol.
Girls have boobs.
We have bellies too.
Are we not allowed to show them without getting criticized?
Lol

[Vanillax9]

If that was the case it would apply to all body parts with males too. Things that arouse the opposite sex are the things that make some pics too revealing.

[Lightning8]

I agree with Vanillax. Show me a shirt that shows off a guy's 6 pack. Like, if you have a nice figure, cool, but showing actual skin is different

[Dinklex3]

@Vanillax9 Exactly. Their body in general.

[Dinklex3]

@Lightning8 Yes. Guys walk around and take pictures with their shirts off all the time.
Is that considered "too revealing"?
Not to me.

[Lightning8]

"shirts off" women wear "peakaboo's" at black tie events, this kind of thing is what I mean

[samoht89]

he's more asking why, not how

[Q-tip-boy]

"If that was the case it would apply to all body parts with males too."

I feel pity for people who foolishly compare mens body with womens body

Nope, you're not allowed to create display of your body without getting criticized.

Its because women are sexually more powerful and influential and their body has mpacts on many people around you. Greater power brings greater responsibilities. So if you decide to not follow those responsibilities, then you'll definitely be criticized for that.

We wear condom for a reason i guesss. We wear it every time when we have sex, unless we dont want to get pregnant, dont we?

You take condoms seriously because you're scared of diseases and pregnancy. We dont care about our other responsibilities do we?

The sexual interactions which remain remarkably unnoticed are dealt with irresponsibly.

when someone tries fo inhibit those interactions, we just start using our "freedom of choice" lol

[Q-tip-boy]

Nope, men's body is not as important as woman's body since men's gender role is "getting attracted" and the opposite of it that is "creating attraction" or "to attract" is a woman's gender role.

These are the dominant gender roles , while the recessive are the opposite of these individually.

And hope you people are well aware of the fact that men have more desires as compared to women and this makes it even more important.

[kaewk]

A T T E N T I O N.

When a boy glances at me I feel this rush of adrenaline like yessssss im cute, yessss im here, none can compete hhhhh. But some take it too far to feel the feeling.

[lanabug]

It's not just one answer since all girls aren't the same. Some do it for attention/validation, its empowering, or to show how fit they are (which is usually why women would wear a sports bra in pictures). Men do the same thing. Shirtless and underwear pics.

[wankiam]

just as many guys take shirt off pics of themselves but you won't get to see so many because you are a guy.. i doubt you get sent many dick pics either... to think its only girls that show off is a very subjective conclusion to draw

[Marrry]

I think it's obvious. we know guys admire some part of us. We show so you will admire and we will feel wanted. Feeling wanted elevates our mood.

[Lightning8]

Some girls aren'r honest about that as obvious as it is

[Marrry]

@Lightning8 yeah like they lie about waking up all dolled up 😂😂😂

[sassyindiangirl]

Maybe because such pictures get more noticed and liked and even men would prefer seeing such a picture instead of just a face picture.

[shasher]

yeah but then girls blame us for staring at them lol

[samoht89]

they like the attention, it's just, they wish they shoulsn't have to post them just to get the attention

it's a moral thing, not a legal thing

[Q-tip-boy]

"Get more noticed and liked"

But in what way though? Of course in a "sexual" way.

The attentiin that they get is sexual. They are accepting sexual attention.

There's no such attention coming without "attraction"

So, even though you would deny that wearing clothes is not intended for attracting people but indirectly your doing it?

Dont try to hide "to attract" behind "to get attention"

And when you give consent to sexual attention from public, you're no less than a "slut"

We use condoms for preventing some interactions

Similarly we use clothes fo protect ourselves from potential mates.

[samoht89]

both

[Rhonda333]

Yes, we have learned that guys go for this kind of stuff. Thats why we wear them- and to feel pretty of course.

[samoht89]

so you're saying girls really do dress for men, ahahahah

[Rhonda333]

@samoht89

well yes of course. Do you realize what it costs to dress like this? The bra, girdle and hose shown above will easily reach $200.

[samoht89]

oh, i know it gets pretty costly. i was just saying many women say they "dont dress for men", and then when they get compliments for wearing that, it's like, uh, then why'd you wear it?

[Rhonda333]

@samoht89
Well that may be false modesty. But it would be wrong to say that they don't dress for each other of course. Women are intensely competitive when it comes to dressing. That's why designers can charge thousands for a dress. Check Melania Trump- she is probably the #1 dress target.

[samoht89]

she's a former model, after all

[Philyouup]

Wow that was retro

[Schrodingerscat]

I would like to know what goes on in mimds of girls who post their pics showing cleavage on sites like GaG and Quora.

I'd maybe understand if it was on Tinder or Insta

[shasher]

even insta?

[lazermazer]

Lolz

[samoht89]

on gag, they're likely fakes

[samoht89]

same with quora, but not as much as gag

[lazermazer]

Chup kar bc

[Darksagangel]

Bottom line is sex is a woman's power.

Just like men, they want to be the most powerful.

Duh.

Whom you enjoy the most has the most control over you.

[StingRayxoxo]

Attention/body positivity, etc. Unless I cut my pictures off at the neck, my boobs are always noticeable in pictures, can’t be avoided.

[dragonfruitA]

Because we're all insecure and want reassurance from outside sources that we are beautiful. It's considered immoral but I don't think it hurts anybody.

[Q-tip-boy]

It doesn't hurt anybody?

Nope, it can distract people to an extent that they forget their work.

[dragonfruitA]

@Q-tip-boy Ha-ha! In that sense, I guess it can then

[think_logic85]

- To Get Attention
- To Have Compliments
- To Get People Talking About Them
- Needing Approval Of Others
- Egos Need Stroking

I can keep on listing, but as you can tell, none of them are positive attributes.

[NicolaD]

It's generally in the eye of the beholder the level of revelation. I suppose I have photos that could be termed as revealing to some but I wouldn't take them (or have others take them) if I didn't feel comfortable

[Repa33]

Cause why not? Boobs aren't evil. Its not a shock that women have them.

[SilverRain92]

Because guys would say something pervy? 🤔

[Repa33]

Thats on them. Guys will say pervy stuff if you were wearing a turtleneck

[SilverRain92]

Girls wearing revealing clothes have much higher chance to be catcalled

[Q-tip-boy]

Yeah only bad guys will make up pervy comments, catcalls , etc

Nice ones won't do.

But when you​ wear revealing clothes, the nice guys will raise questions on your personality and call you a slut.

The lion will eat you if you enter a jungle. But even cats and dogs would start chasing you if you hold a piece of meat in your hand and walk on the street.

[Repa33]

Again. People will judge you no matter what you wear

[Q-tip-boy]

Yeah, but the fact is that some things are important than others.

Tell me at once that you don't care if someone​ thinks good or bad about you.
You wouldn't like to be respected, do you?

[SilverRain92]

Be a good girl and guys would like you for your smile and attitude 😉

[DutchessZero]

Simple. People can do what they want. Same reason men with muscles are determined to post their biceps and ads everywhere they go on the internet

[Skali9119Liska]

You didn’t tell us what’s the reason behind it lol

[Lizatheking]

@Skali9119Liska I think "because they want to" is reason enough.

[Skali9119Liska]

@Lizatheking lol that’s not a reason, why do they want to do that?

[BrianK7]

To be completely honest. Me personally I wouldn't have a problem with it, if most of the woman want to run around shirtless.

[Q-tip-boy]

That's​ what we are asking.

"Why" do they want to? What's the need?

[DutchessZero]

Same reason guys do it

[Q-tip-boy]

I never saw guys doing it here expect​ construction workers and old men and Sandhu and Rishi Munis

[DutchessZero]

And you've never seen it around the internet huh?

[Lizatheking]

@Skali9119Liska They post the pics because that satisfies their wants.

[Skali9119Liska]

@Lizatheking why? mention the reason instead of acting like a hypocrite

[DutchessZero]

That is the reason. It's a very simple concept. Most of the things you do that aren't needed are from want

[Skali9119Liska]

What want?

[DutchessZero]

Want to do it. Everyone has different reasons

[DutchessZero]

But they all still want to. It's not against their will

[Lizatheking]

Okay maybe because they like their pictures and so they post them online. Some people post food, some unrevealing pictures and others pictures of animals because that's what they like.

[Skali9119Liska]

We don’t all want to post revealing pics and most people who want to have similar wants. You’re just playing stupid and we both know it

[Skali9119Liska]

@Lizatheking I’d post food pictures because I have a passion for food, I’d post revealing pics if I’m into fitness a lot or because I’m an attention whore

[DutchessZero]

No one said we all want to. But the people that do it, do it because they want to

[DutchessZero]

Free will is a hard concept to understand or?

[Lizatheking]

@Skali9119Liska and that's just you then, you're an attention whore or into fitness. I post pictures of anything because I like those thing and I think they are beautiful. If I'd post revealing pictures, I'd do it because I like the picture.

[Q-tip-boy]

Dont try to fool people. We have something known as "self- consciousness"

When the matter is about "self", we are more concerned, more than food or fitness.

A general view of things =

what's "more" important in a sexual activity between a man and a woman?
A man's body or a woman's body?

1) Dominant characteristics= these are some characteristics that are of greater importance in both men and women.

A woman's body is more important factor in any sexual activity between a man and a woman

I get attracted to her body. I want to kiss her face,
legs, thighs, stomach, hands, suck and press her boobs, eat her pussy...

But woman doesn't (want to/feel the desire to) do all that stuff to a man's body.

Instead, they (women) get aroused by feelings desired by a man.
They don't have greater desires for a man's body

But we , men, have a greater desire for their bodies

[Q-tip-boy]

2) Submissive characteristics= these are the characters that are less important in sexual activities between a man and a woman, although both men and women cannot live without any of these.

Men do want to feel desired just like women do.

The major part of the story is that women derive sexual pleasure from "being desired"

Therefore, their sexual appeal is greater in women. Also the pressure is greater. They pressure on their minds their boobs are small or big , attractive and other insecurities that they have..

Women do have the desire for man's body, but the difference between man's desires for women's body and women's desires for men's body is huge.

Women would like to touch the guy's muscles . They are attracted to the edges on men's body. They are attracted to the viens and blood vessles visible on guys body. They are attracted to guys hands and butts.

The touch. Women like to tough the hard and tough skin on man's body just like men want to touch womens soft skin

[Q-tip-boy]

But we , men, have a greater desire for their bodies

So a *woman's body is greater part of "our (men and women's)" sexual activities*

**A woman's body is granter part of our sexual activity**
This is the one of the main part of the story.

But we , men, have a greater desire for their bodies

So a *woman's body is greater part of "our (men and women's)" sexual activities*

**A woman's body is granter part of our sexual activity**
This is the one of the main part of the story.

WOMAN'S​ BEHAVIOUR=>

Men have desire
And woman get aroused by our desire. They crave for attention.

Woman crave for men's desire. They want to look sexy and all the stuff.

Woman crave for desire, attention.

So , if a woman's (bf or husband) looks any other sexy women.
They simply cannot tolerate it. !!!

They can't tolerate their man looking at other sexy women.
Why?

Should I also label her as "insecure"and "jelous"?

[Q-tip-boy]

Nope, buddy, she's not being insecure or jelous.
It's just an emotional thing.

The main thing that women want is "desire" , "attention"
Men's desire

And when 'their' man develop's desire for other woman, they just want to cut it off!

***They feel that only they are entitled with the attention , desire of their partner.***

Remember this statement

They just ********(((can't share their partner's desire))).*******

Didn't you notice how they complain about their man liking other woman's sexy pics on internet?

They would just tell their man to stop looking at another girl and that they can't tolerate it.

[Q-tip-boy]

MEN'S BEHAVIOUR=>

Similarly, what do men want
They want body.
Women's body !!! They crave for it.

They not only have desires to touch it but also to look at it.

Men derive "visual sexual pleasure" from watching women's body.

So they just *****((((can't 'share' their partner's body))))******

So they can't let other people watch their partner.

It's bcoz they think they're the only one who are entitled to the ""**privilege**"" of watching their partner and deriving visual sexual pleasure from it

They think they alone are entitled to that privilege of watching their partner.

Because he can't bear the feeling of other men deriving sexual pleasure from watching their women.

[Q-tip-boy]

When their (men's) partner let other people watch her, they would just want to cut it off
When their (men's) partner gain attention or other men, he would like to cut it off.

In the same way

When 'their' (woman's) partner (man) {[develop's desire for]}& {[gives (sexual) attention}] to another woman they would like to cut it off

So you could see that both men and women try to make their partner's sexually neutral to their partner's opposite sexes

[Q-tip-boy]

It's just an emotional thing for both men and women

It's also about mutual respect.

When women wear revealing clothes , they might just want to show that they can still attract a crowd.

It implies that the presence of their partner doesn't matter to them. That they can attract a crowd and they don't need them

And if a woman is giving the "privilege" of looking at her , watching her and deriving visual sexual pleasure to everyone including strangers...

It makes their man feel insignificant for them.

He might feel disrespected

And for viruses the men who just want to show off what they have...
These are men who don't care enough for their partner..

[Q-tip-boy]

The gender roles have to be understood.

Gender roles

Men= "getting attracted" = responding to attraction caused

Women = "to attract" = creating attraction either intentionally or unintentionally , directly or indirectly.

What is the best way to remove a small plant? You'll pull it out from the ground along with its root, isn't that true?

We always blame the "creator" or "cause"of any problem (attraction). And we tend to remove the problem (tree) from its roots (cause = women's body).
Hence we hide women's body, to prevent potential mating

Yes this is 2018 and we use contraceptives (mainly Condom) to prevent pure and natural form of sexual intercourse, which is the main form of sexual interaction taking place in the bedroom.

[Q-tip-boy]

Yes this is 2018 and we use contraceptives (mainly Condom) to prevent pure and natural form of sexual intercourse, which is the main form of sexual interaction taking place in the bedroom.

Note that we dont live in jungles anymore and we are "civilised" people, aren't we? We dont mate like animals with an unrestricted flow, right?
Similarly, for preventing the sexual interaction in social life, i. e., attraction and the response to the attraction caused , the concept of modesty is introduced.

When you have one pot full of gold, which is precious for you, you would certainly not want to put it on display to strangers, especially when you are well aware that displaying it would develop "greed" in minds of those people. Bad people will try to steal it. Some people remain indifferent to everything.
Some good people (like us) will raise questions on your behaviour and personality and give advices.
This situation is very similar to the above example.

[Q-tip-boy]

When you are aware that these kind of pictures are able to provoke sexual views , why do you ignore it and behave like a blind person, giving visual consent to strangers and supporting objectification of women?

Because you're an animal who mates without restrictions. Not civilised enough.

[Q-tip-boy]

"Letting" people to watch adult parts of your body involves "giving consent" to people (strangers) to use the sexual views that these adult parts of your body may provoke.

When you intentionally let people to watch adult parts of your body, i. e., when will-ful concent is given, you become a slut.

acting according to situations, being completely aware of the envoriment around them is expected from everybody while living in any part of the world.

When you are forced to "let" people watch adult parts on your body, i. e., when the consent is given without will , then your innocent.

[Q-tip-boy]

Especially when you try to create a display of the adult parts on your body.. you should be mentally ready to be called "a slut".

[Skali9119Liska]

@Q-tip-boy 👌👌

[Q-tip-boy]

a blind person is unaware (although not completely) of its surrounding but dont make it sound as if you are completely unaware of your surroundings when you make such posts and show this kind of immoral behaviour.
Even when you are aware of your surroundings, you do it. It means that you're doing it intentionally. So be ready for the consequences. Dont complain if someone calls you a "slut" for showcasing and a "creep" for staring.

[NormaTavish]

Its an insecurity thing. Younger girls and actually some older women require constant attention to reassure themselves.

The other type are just extroverts :)

[Anonymous]

Does this need to be explained? Because they want to show off, lol.

Though I don't think I'd actually date some who posted such pictures, it sure makes for some good fap material.

I'm not really into porn... more just women in bikinis or sports bra and shorts.

[Anonymous]

I also ask the ame question. Because I dont se men doing that is only ike a lady thing. I mean the only guys who do that are either gays ( I have een many guys posting revealing pics) beau ethey liek the attention or super super vain heerosexual guys.

[ParisLove]

They want attention and love but find it hard to find love the proper way so they do it that way which is the easiest way.

[ParisLove]

Plus it makes them look bad and they think guys are into bad.

[Q-tip-boy]

Yeah, lots of girls try to look bad these days.

I guess they're doing it for getting attention of those bad boys.

[KevinSmiley13]

Do you wear shirts that make your muscles look more defined or pants that give you a better bulge. We all dress ourselves in clothing that makes us seem attractive. Girls just like to show off their bust when it looks good.

[Buckzor]

Isn't it obvious? It gets more attention, more likes, more comments - all of that leads to a feeling of further validation & being "wanted" which we all desire.

[Midnight_Kiss]

Why do men feel the need to send dick pics, I think you'll find the answer is the same

[samoht89]

i think he's talking non nudes, but, sure

[splashofyellow]

Isn't it obvious? It's for attention, like everything people do on the internet.

[jst4fun]

Because women are beautiful. It’s a luck of the draw sort of deal. Lol

[TayTay21]

Because we like it! It feels good to get attention in a flattering way.

[Q-tip-boy]

Do it in the bedroom before your hubby.

[TayTay21]

@Q-tip-boy nope

[Q-tip-boy]

Okk... Dress like a slut and we'll stare like a creep

[Q-tip-boy]

Well, do anything... I wouldn't stare.. I try my best to look away from disgusting creatures

[TayTay21]

@Q-tip-boy don't care

[Q-tip-boy]

Yeah because you, women, have greater power and thus you remain unaffected and indifferent.

Yes you're a lion and we are rabbits.
Your mere presence will scare us out , why would you care?

[BarbieSoFetch]

It's 2018 and women can freely decide how to express their sexuality.

[BeHappy1985]

[AllThatSweetJazz]

The question was asking *why* the do it.

[Q-tip-boy]

Haha, just imagine how blind you are?

This is not merely "expression"

This is a sexual interaction, which is generally unnoticed.

It doesn't agree with the basic rules that everyone has to follow.

There is a reason why bedroom is called bedroom, and I am sure that's not just because it has a bed.

Similarly, underwears are "under" wear for a reason

Improper understanding of gender differences lead to gender injustice.

[BarbieSoFetch]

@AllThatSweetJazz I f*cking answered the question, dipsh*t.

[BarbieSoFetch]

@Q-tip-boy Nah.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Did you really though? 🤔 The response didn’t address the question. It’s more like you answered the question you think heard rather than the one that was asked. There’s no need for name calling.

[BarbieSoFetch]

@AllThatSweetJazz "Why do many girls always seem to post pictures of themselves where their clevage or boobs are showing? Why do they also post pictures of themselves in sports bras?"
"It's 2018 and women can freely decide how to express their sexuality."... Are you blind or are you just stupid?

[Q-tip-boy]

What "nah"?

Would you call it a "choice" or "expression" if your boyfriend or husband looks at pictures of other sexy women?

If looking attractive in a sexual way is not a part of your private life then why do you get upset when your partner does things like that?

If you're arguing upon him making a direct move then that's invalid, because that's how men are supposed to fulfill their gender role of "getting attracted".

However, Women don't feel the need to make a direct move. Their clothing indirectly serves the purpose of creating attraction.

women, why don't you accept that you do experience "privileges" because of your sexual power?
You do, but you would still refuse to admit it.

[Q-tip-boy]

Freedom exists but you need to make a wise choice whether you should use it or not.

For instance, I have the freedom to drink alcohol or yell at the top of my voice. Should I use it?

Biological roles and interactions wouldn't change whether it is 2018 or 5018

It is "gender inappropriate" behaviour. And improper understanding of gender differences could lead to gender injustice.

... showing Dual nature...

You show your innocent faces and then explicitly flash your boobs and ass everywhere...

How do you expect us to develop respect for someone like that, huh?

[Q-tip-boy]

If staring at a woman is seen as an inappropriate behaviour then why should we accept that showcasing your assets is not inappropriate?

If you're flashing your assets then it means you you're "giving consent to" to the stares that you receive. You're also giving consent that people could use those sexual views in whatever way they want to.
If you're not a slut for wearing revealing clothes, then how do we become " creeps" for staring at or jerking off to the sexual views that you provoke.

Why do you act apologetically when it's your turn to bear the bashing?

[BarbieSoFetch]

@Q-tip-boy Buddy, shut the f*ck up. Don't speak for females. You actually have no f*cking clue.

[Q-tip-boy]

Give me a clue rather shutting me up

[AllThatSweetJazz]

It’s got nothing to do with their freedom to do it. Regardless of their freedom or not, they would still have a reason *why* even if they weren’t free to do it.

[Q-tip-boy]

Exactly, "why?" give me a single valid reason.

There's no reason. The reasons that they give are merely excuses.

There no "need" to dress like that.

[BarbieSoFetch]

@Q-tip-boy You are actually such a little prick. I'm done talking to you, bubs. Go watch some more Hunter Avellone.

[Q-tip-boy]

Well I do know that you can't bring up any argument.

[BarbieSoFetch]

@Q-tip-boy You're not worth it.

[Q-tip-boy]

Nope​, it's because you can't give a logical reason.

[BarbieSoFetch]

@Q-tip-boy Truly, that ain't it chief.

[Q-tip-boy]

You're making a single statement

"it's 2018 and... "blah blah blah

Without​ giving a single logical reason and you're saying that I am not worth it, huh. Ain't that cheap?

If you have a pot full of gold, then wouldn't you hide it rather than display it out of the House?

[BarbieSoFetch]

@Q-tip-boy You seem like you talk too much and I don't debate with people like you.

[Q-tip-boy]

I talk more only on issues that bother me and upsets me

[AllThatSweetJazz]

@Q-tip-boy Just drop it dude. She's already defaulted to dismissive language. Badgering her isn't going to get her to stop being close-minded.

[BarbieSoFetch]

@AllThatSweetJazz I'm not close-minded, retard.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

"Close-minded" wasn't the most accurate adjective to use, but I was trying to be nice about it. The more appropriate term might be pigheaded.

Rather than just engage with the questioning, instead you're being prickly and petulant on the mere basis that you were questioned at all.

[CT_CD]

For attention. They talk about not wanting to be objectified and view as sex objects but they contribute to their own objectification.

[annaflorez838]

It makes us confident. Im not one of those girls, but I have been tempted. Tbh, it makes me feel confident, knowing that someone looks at my pics.

[AnnasiaB]

Because its just a way to feel free and it looks good

[lazermazer]

How dare someone downvote this?

[Dulce_jay]

Some girls like feeling sexy and the attention for m it

[btzbabe]

They’re confident and want to show off their assets

[sexyalphamale]

This is true.

[Cupcakes33]

Attention and validation to boost up their confidence and feel beautiful and empowered.

[ThisAndThat]

I agree except I don't see how that relates to empowerment.

[Anonymous]

Why do guys post pictures in muscle shirts or shirtless?

[DublinRollerGirl]

What women do that?

[Anonymous]

Why do men take pictures with their shirts off? Attention and to show off. Not every girl or guy posts that stuff though.

[Truthatanycost]

I know right... only about a million girls doing that in Instagram... and even on gaming platforms like Twitch... everywhere.

[Opinion Owner]

@Truthatanycost A million out of three billion ain't that much.

[Logorithim]

They know what guys like and what will get them lots of attention.

[cutekid]

Some do that cause they are confident with em selves n assets and some do it cause they seek attention..

[Anon9797]

They just want attention and dont know what modesty is. It's just how society is now

[OnlyYouKnowThat]

Because they get attention and it makes them feel good. This is why social media can be addictive.

[ElizabethE2004]

Because they think there perfect and they have perfect c cup breasts with perfect clevage. Do I have to go on?

[Anonymous]

You know what , if a guy or a girl is happy with their body and want to show it off , they can go ahead.
I learned to never judge what others are doing.
Attracting attention isn't always a negative thing.

[Byakugan]

Because they can, and want :)

Don`t pretend like you ain`t like it ;) wink wink lol

[Ninakumari]

Why not? Girls looks best in their teen years and early 20s. Let them.

[shasher]

true that but you have a simple pic you dont like to show off?

[Ninakumari]

@shasher I like my pic.

[shasher]

yeah no denying that but you too could have expose and u choose to not

[Ninakumari]

@shasher I'm supporting other girls. If other girls want to show off, let them. It's not my business.

[shasher]

@Ninakumari yeah but ain't girls in india feel bad when guys watch them looking all sexy beside its even not my business how girls are dressing external beauty is temporary

[Q-tip-boy]

@shasher they dont want to look sexy in private. Instead they feel proud by showing it off, no respect to privacy. Girls from all countries are the same.

[Q-tip-boy]

My advice, stare at them if you wish to. Its your choice too.

And if they dont feel bad about doing it, then you shouldn't feel ashamed for looking at them if you want to.

[rgb008]

These boobs were made for flauntin
And thats just what they'll do

[Q-tip-boy]

Humans are animals, so why not live in a jungle?

[Anonymous]

Men love it when we act like whores😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜

[Anonymous]

Because they want to. So what? Its not hurting anybody, why not leave them alone then if it bothers you so much lol

[thatguyfromtoronto]

Please, girls can pissed if guys man spread. I've seen girls dress in things at school or to work and asked to go home and change.

[SilverRain92]

So would not you mind if women would walk topless outside, OP?

[Opinion Owner]

Nah. As long as they mind their own business, I’ll do the same. Can you do that?

[SilverRain92]

No, I can't. I would mind because I am a guy. People wear clothes for a reason.

[Q-tip-boy]

"No, I can't. I would mind because I am a guy. People wear clothes for a reason."

Agreed

[Opinion Owner]

Aww sad. Well i wouldn't care. Guess its your probs

[Q-tip-boy]

Men need to act directly because they lack sexual power , whereas women who are magicians, they don't need to act directly. Their clothing indirectly serves the purpose.

If looking attractive is not a part of your private life, then why do you get upset when your partner (bf or husband) "looks at" or "stares at" other "sexy" women or "likes" photos of other "sexy" women?

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao. My only point of all this is that i dont give a crap as to what and how others dress. They could be naked for all i care. And if my man looks at them then so what, as long as he doesn't do anything with the woman, i still dont give a crap. I dont control what we sees and what he likes to look at

[Opinion Owner]

And you’ve clearly stated that you do give a crap, then do the hell you. Let me do me🙂

[Q-tip-boy]

Ohho amazing. You're letting your man stare at other sexy women.

It means that you don't love him enough.

the world is full of shitty people.

[Opinion Owner]

Probably, I’m with him for the fun part anyway. And yes it is, we all are shitty people. Lol

[SilverRain92]

So, you don't take the relationship with your boyfriend seriously?

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, boys suck at commitments. Why do i even bother?

[SilverRain92]

So, you are in open relationship? Like frienship with benefits?

[Opinion Owner]

No, we’re exclusively in a relationship. We just both pretend we dont know we both playing around

[SilverRain92]

Sad 😔

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe for you, its fun and a lot let boring for me lol

[Eryxx]

Always? I don't agree.
But for the ones who do, it's for the attention.

[Anonymous]

Most of those girls are just hoes. Others are over confident and like the attention. I got tits but i'm not gonna put it all over my social media

[LaBrownEyes]

Approval.. More likes... Compliments. it's not rocket science.

[lizzysmith]

It just looks weird if I cut it off at my neck? Tits aren’t a new thing hun

[TripleAce]

Cause girls are more slutty than men. It’s just a misconception that they aren’t. They are

[NarayaniRanawat]

Well not all do but even if they do what's the big deal.

[Q-tip-boy]

I wish you knew how many people are affected by it...

Those explicit clothes... shit

[NarayaniRanawat]

Oh yaar but it's still their choice.

[Q-tip-boy]

I respect their choice.

We also have the "choice" and "freedom" to look or stare or even masturbate on the sexual views that they provoke by wearing those clothes.

Par agar mai Aisa kuch Karu, toh kya sochengi aap hamare bare me? huh?

hum waise nahi hai...

We try our best to look away from them...

Chillane ki aazadi sabhi Ko hai, par har koi chilla kar nahi bolta.

And the one who shouts is an "indisciplined person"

Similarly, you become a slut for wearing​ such clothes and we become perverts for staring.

[Q-tip-boy]

we don't intend to look at people in a "sexual way", still we have to tolerate it bcoz it's their choice, right?

[NarayaniRanawat]

Arre bro mere kehne ka matlab yahi tha ki woh unki choice hai. So let them be. Aur rahi baat hamari to aapko agar ye sab nhi pasand to nazar andaaz kar do na. Kyunki zaroori to nhi ki har koi hame life main aisa hi mile jo hamare jaise sochta ho.

[NarayaniRanawat]

And also agar koi aapse directly is tarah behave karta hai and u don't like it u have every right to tell them.
Warna hame kya matlab koi kuch bhi kare

[Q-tip-boy]

I told you that I respect their choice. And I wouldn't try to stop them.

Obviously let them do

But if someone kept throwing stones at you, wouldn't you be appalled by their behaviour?

Kehna Kiya aasan hai

Najarandaaz karna utna hi mushkil

Because you have face it everyday and almost everywhere.

I had so much respect for women, but nowadays when I see women with innocent faces and those explicit clothes... My heart burns to ashes.

We obviously judge them on the basis of their behaviour but jab tak drawing vko black sketch pen se outline na karo, wo Puri nahi dikhti.

[NarayaniRanawat]

Accha bhai hamara opinion different hai. Personally mat lo itna.

[Q-tip-boy]

I dont..(┛❍ᴥ❍)┛彡┻━┻

[Anonymous]

The obvious they want attention and will argue that they don't.

The only honest girls I know are the ones with thier boyfriends.

[Anonymous]

sometimes they are completely fake and nothing more than an up close illusion. it about attention more than anything else.

[RebeccaSJ]

Attention and insecurity, as well as desire to show off their bodies.

[Vegeta01]

Damn you don't look 41 at all

[RebeccaSJ]

@Vegeta01 thank you.