Girls, what does it feel like to have a crush on a guy/be in love?

Question

How do you feel if you like a guy but you aren't sure if he likes you back? Do you feel stuck because guys usually make the first move? Does it hurt to see your crush be with other girls?

And what does it feel like when you're in love? Do you think about the person you love 24/7?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Currently I'm crushing on someone... and I'll try to explain how it feels.. First the good stuff I feel happy thinking about him and seeing him. I get excited and my heart melts a little. Lol And then there's also nervousness sometimes wondering if things will always remain good between us. If he'll like me back? If his feelings will grow for me? Does he already like me that way etc. And then there's the tension that comes with it when we're together because I'm so attracted to him and I think he may be attracted to me too but so far we're just being friends Because when we started talking I told him that I was in a stage in my life where I wasn't looking to date anyone or pursue a relationship so hence why so far we've been friends but I'm secretly crushing on him and I think maybe he is too. I don't know yet. It only hurts a little tiny bit to see him talk to other girls but he has to lol when we're at work. So it's normal not weird. & I do think about him a lot. I also wonder if he thinks about me. ... and when I have a crush it's more based on the idea of being worth that awesome person as a friend and lover not only the physical stuff. But both

pppppkk · Accepted Answer

having a crush is fun. i used to have a few before i got scooped by my guy. it’s all a rush and a nice, anxious game for me lol. i love flirting and if the guy didn’t make the first move, i often would. it wouldn’t hurt to see my crush with other girls if i didn’t voice that i had a thing for him.
being in love is amazing. unlike any other feeling in the world. i love my SO so much that it hurts. i definitely think of him 24/7

Hurlyburly · Answer

Hmm lemme think it's a while ago that I had a "real" crush. Umm... It's a feeling of excitement and happiness whenever he'd be around me. Always thinking of him and wondering if he sees me the same way. Feeling like electricity would rush trough me whenever our eyes meet each other.

Being in love on the other hand feels like belonging together... being calm and feeling "in the right place" when he is there. Thinking about your future. Wanting to be there for him and care for him whatever happens. Trusting him with all your heart and soul.

BlondeGirl_ · Answer

Of course it sucks to see your crush be with other girls. And I always felt stuck because I was too insecure/shy to make the first move, all I tried to do was a bit of flirting (idk if that counts as a first move but I don't think so?). When I'm in love with someone I think about them pretty often and when I see them I feel butterflies in my stomach. Usually, when I had crushes I would want more than just sex but some guys I didn't like that much because of their personality but just looked really good, I was like yea he could get it lol. But I don't see that kinda stuff as a crush tbh, it was more like a thought, not really a feeling.

But now I've had a boyfriend for over a year so its more comfortable lol. I do think about him A LOT and I still feel so happy to see him.

ladybug30 · Answer

I used to have so crush on so many guys before. it's almost like falling in love. I always find away to "accidently" bumped into my crush. Always stalking him on social media. I like what he likes. Became so obsessed with him. But when I found out that he likes someone else, my heart was shattered and I want to punch him in the face. But I can never do that because he didn't know my feelings for him and all I can do was wishing him the best. Having a crush on a stranger hurt less than having a crush on your friend/ colleague/coworkers.

Anonymous · Answer

It can feel wonderful but hurt at the same time, liking a guy who doesn't like you back it's like all you want is him and all you can think about is him but then it breaks your heart when you know he doesn't like you back or seeing him with another girl that shit hurts. When you like a guy or love a guy all you want is to make him happy or to be with him, everything about him makes you happy and you always just feel turned on around him when he does certain things, at least thats what it's like for me. I'd do anything to please my man and to be able to spend more time with him.

AnnasiaB · Answer

it will get on your nerves every second of the day because you're thinking about someone you love but I do. All the time because I do feel like I should make the first move but if I really like someone I will make the first move and a lot of times when I see a guy that I like talking to another girl I don't automatically assume that he likes her

Anonymous · Answer

It’s awful. I like a guy so much but I saw him online only. We haven’t even talked but I view his social media’s daily. I don’t bother messaging him because I am positive he will dismiss them or I will seem insane. So I will wait until I am old enough to move to his city and visit his workplace 😂 sounds crazy but I really love him.

Anonymous · Answer

You tend to invest a lot of time into them when you have a crush. You're always trying to see what they are up to and you want to talk to them heaps. It can be quite time consuming and frustrating if it doesn't work out in the end. For my current boyfriend, I think about him a lot and all I want to do is tell him I love him 24/7

Texas_born · Answer

I don't think I've ever been in love.
But honestly, I HATE having a crush!!
It’s so emotionally and mentally crippling to me; I don’t like having someone other than myself control my emotions 😡😣😑

turnmypainintopower1 · Answer

I had a major crush on this guy and he had on on me too and he started hanging out with his ex and while it did sting a little I had to just shut the jealously down because like he wasn't mine I just liked him

cutiekittyxoxo · Answer

kinda hard to explain but like when youd submit and do anything for him

LuvAsh · Answer

It feels exciting! Ecspecially when we both get along nd talk a lot. It's only annoying when u tell them how u feel and he doesn't give a direct answer. I'm crushing right now😍

Sabrina_gomez · Answer

terrible😂 cause he's prob not gonna ask you out

Mikayla03 · Answer

Never had a crush or been in love.

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