Curvy body and tight clothes?

[Anonymous]

No matter what I seem to put on my body, it’s either too revealing or it makes me look like I’m wearing a bag.

I’m short, muscular, and I have wide hips/big butt and I wear a 34DD (my stomachs flat tho)— like, an hourglass figure.

If I wear cute tops or even normal t-shirts— u can see a little cleavage. And I feel like everyone stares— I even caught my teacher doing it one time! It’s so embarrassing. But also, if I wear baggy shirts, they go out on my breasts so it looks like I have a fat stomach or something.

I don’t want people to objectify my body, but at the same time, I want to look good. I feel like I can’t win. Help?

[Syrian_survivor]

I'd say wear something like this to hide cleavage and make everything look tidy and cute, that thing hanging which I dont know its name lol
It'll mostly hide your breasts so their size isn't obvious AND it shows your stomach so you dont look fat u know?

For the pants wear high-waisted puffy ones like a girl here suggested

Those are my guesses haha
But I dont think you'd look like a sac of potatoes in any way lmao, I recommend you find a nice modest style and ask professionals haha

[EmotionOfFear]

I say wear crop tops. They show your flat stomach, but usually cover up everything up top, unless it's one of those crop tops that lets a shoulder be displayed.

And an ass filling up some jeans is never a problem. As long as they're not hanging low where they hint at what's underneath, they should be good.

[Anonymous]

Wear puffy highwaisted pants:
https://goo.gl/images/oqA7QP
https://goo.gl/images/w6p9w3
https://goo.gl/images/x39r5P

Shirt:
Tight full ones on top (not short)
Or loose short ones
https://goo.gl/images/hQ7ukb
https://goo.gl/images/byCUXM

[Anonymous]

same:( i avoid loose tshirt or croptop kind of stuff because it makes me look like i have a big stomach. i think girls who have curves are blessed and cursed. we just have to deal with it.

[Asker]

yeah, I guess:( but like, my friends *jokingly* call me a slut or whatever or like catcall me to by funny and it just sucks but it’s like— I’d rather do that, than look like a sack of potatoes I guess lol

[Opinion Owner]

i went through that. especially with my boobs. but i just like to remember that tighter tops will always look good on me and ill always have the cleavage to make a dress look sexy when i need to or if my significant other wants to show me off, i have the equipment to fulfill that lol
im only recently (at TWENTYYYY), trying to see the positives!

[Maguel]

Try googling custom made clothes intended for busty (fit) women. Perhaps you might find something that hits the spot.

[Anonymous]

you may need to seek either custom made clothing or make a comprise on what you see as objectification, So wear what you want and not worry about people staring at you for it,

[hansukota]

Well I'm not good in fashion. But what u can do is put a tight inner top and something mediocre loose over that. this way I believe the outer top will perfectly complement ur body just the way u want it to

[Reddwolf]

Try looking on amazon the have some good loose clothing

[19irish76]

Get fitted for outfits

[Asker]

Yeah, that’s how I dress. Usually, fitted jeans and simple tops. But anything fitted makes people’s eyes linger to long if u know what I mean lol

[19irish76]

I see

[YHL6965]

"objectify my body" What do you even mean by that?

[Deydey12345]

Whats your weight?

[Dantheman101]

Naughty teacher

[Asker]

ah yes the most embarrassing moment of my whole childhood

[Asker]

keyword: childhood; I’m a sophmore

[Dantheman101]

Pervert

[Dantheman101]

I have no idea how big 32dd is but sounds hard to hide

[Asker]

34** and thanks for all your help:) these comments really improved my situation!