Help with Girl Crush Snap decoding?

[Y3333T]

Ok so my crush and I have 63 days of streaks and we're only sending half face snaps. I've tried to talk to her and sometimes I make an outlined heart in the snaps but it's kinda sneaky but you can still see it.

She's a shy girl, so you know.

I did once say good night to her and then I realized that she had snapped me before looking at my snap. What I mean is she didn't open my snap but sent me a snap and THEN open my snap. And then I saw that she watched it one extra time. What does it mean if she sends a snap before watching my snap? Because it feels like she don't care.

I've watched awfully a lot of videos of trying to understand girl "signs" and she does make eye contact. Wich I've understood is good? We've bumped in to each other two times and one time ur butts touched and she said "Oh sorry my bad" but she didn't seem disgusted or anything like that she seemed pretty ok and laughed a little.

Now back to eye contact:
Like two weeks ago I did an operation in my knee and got back on Wednesday and she looked a lot on my. Like she was thrilled but surprised to see me.

But mostly I want to know what her snaps mean. Like it's from the nose and up. And sometimes she lays down and looks cute (of course I think so though) and sometimes she tilts her head, kinda like models does. And when she goes to sleep she always takes a photo of her wall and adds the time/date sticker and then puts stars and other stuff around it. And I think that's a good sign too? That she's trying to make it a special snap?

And she's only snapping me when she's at her home.

And her friends talk to me sometimes, yesterday day (Friday 20th Mars) her friend asked me how's it going with my knee after the operation.

So can someone please tell me if my crush likes me or if I should move on?

[McJohnson123]

Dude if you two have a 63 day snap streak, that says something. She isn't going to maintain that sort of streak with somebody she has no interest in. Whether the interest is purely platonic or romantic, that's debatable. You say she's shy, which means you need to take the initiative here bud. She's never going to come out and say she's crushing on you and if you don't, she will probably lose interest over time (if the interest is romantic in nature).

"What does it mean if she sends a snap before watching my snap? Because it feels like she don't care." You are waaaay over thinking this one. Just be light hearted and honest with her and tell her you really like her and ask if she'd like to hang out sometime, and go from there. If she doesn't, then there is the answer to your question. I know it's hard but don't be afraid of rejection, it happens to us all. If you want to take this to the next level, you need to be the one to step it up, simple as that. Maybe if she was more outgoing it would be different, but since she's shy, you gotta start it.

"When she goes to sleep she always takes a photo of her wall and blah blah blah..." I really don't think that makes it a special snap. Again, I think you're looking too deep into this. If she does it every night, it's not that special, now is it?

Just put yourself out there man, let her know you're interested but don't be crazy about it. Don't go confessing your love and fall head over heels, that might put her off and make you seem obsessive. She what happens. Worst case scenario, she says no and you can stop wasting your time with her, learn a little lesson about a woman's mind and gain a little life experience.

[Y3333T]

Thanks for your insight!

[Y3333T]

But I'm also shy...

[McJohnson123]

Gotcha. Well, option A - maybe don't tell her how much you like herding yet, just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. It doesn't have to be anything serious, just hang out, maybe go somewhere cool. If she does go, study her behavior and her body language to see if she's into you. Might be hard to judge since you're both shy but that's all you'll have to go off of. I mean, if she goes at all, that's a good sign altogether. It's hard for me to really say much more since I don't know either of you, so don't take my word as gospel. This is just things I've learned from my own experience, ya know?

Option B - You just push yourself out of your comfort zone a little and tell her you're into her, straight up. Don't worry about the outcome yet, just try it! You never know what might happen! Sounds like you NEED TO GET HYPED BRO! YOU GOT THIS! FUCK IT! JUST TELL HER YOU LIKE HER!! DROP YOUR EXPECTATIONS AND DO IT!!

Option C - you do neither, and wait a bit. Keep that streak going, inject a little light hearted flirtation into the conversation here and there, say she's cute, whatever. Maybe she just needs more time to open up to you. That's certainly a possibility. Ultimately the route you wanna go is your decision and your decision alone. Good luck buddy!

[McJohnson123]

Like her*, not like herding lmao

[Y3333T]

Thanks, today an bandy team from our city was in an SM (Swedish Mastership) and they lost. But do you think it's an good conversation starter? Like saying "How do you think they played Today?" I'm not into sports at all but it's special because the team was from our hometown. She plays soccer and is sporty.

Do you think it would be weird if me an a guy that's not interested in sports would ask that?

[McJohnson123]

It wouldn't be weird, she might be happy that you're taking an interest in her interests, but I imagine it wouldn't be a very in-depth conversation. I'm also not a sports guy so if I got into a conversation about sports with a girl, I wouldn't have much to say lol. It might be a good icebreaker though, just don't drag out a sports conversation if you don't have any knowledge of sports, ya know? Let it slide into a new topic shortly after, unless she is really into talking about it, I guess. Just roll with the punches. Sometimes I like to play "20 questions" with girls that I'm getting to know. Like I'll ask them, if you could travel anywhere in the world free of charge, where would you go? Or what would be her superpower if she could pick one? Silly stuff like that. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Can't win them all lol. Just be yourself bud. If you talk about sports with her, cool. Just don't pretend like you're a sport fanatic. You're your own person and if you guys click, awesome, if not, don't get hung up on it. There are millions of girls out there.

[Y3333T]

Do you think it's good to drag out on snaps? Like some hours just to see what she does? I did this today, I literally didn't get on the snapchat app for 5 hours. I did play a little guitar (I'm not good, just beginner) and did other stuff. Just because she did this yesterday, tbh it feels a Little like she's watching when I'm online on snap, and when I take long time to answer she take long time to answer. And same goes for short delays of answering. And I'm not saying it's a problem. It is a little like she's mimicking me, but over snaps.

And we have almost never spoken a word to each other. Only sometimes like when she had been gone from school for two weeks straight and I asked "How is it?" And she said it was "sisådär" wich means not great but not to too terrible.

And then there was a nother time when I had been gone from school and missed an math test. On the evening I asked what was on the test. And she told me it was the stuff we've been working on for the past few weeks, but you know how you can make two texts in snaps. Under the first Line she wrote "I really don't remember ha ha" and yeah. I don't understand at all why she would put an " ha ha " if she wasn't nervous or something.

And...
I have a couple streaks with one of her friends ( the one that asked me how it went with the operation) and this girl she uses filters in every picture she take. And she takes snaps of the whole face and does like peace signs with her hands and all. And I'm thinking if this might be an strategy to see if I really like my crush or if I would be an bad boyfriend. Cause what I've understood that's what girls friends do, they communicate with their friends crush/person of interest to see if he's good.

But you're probably right, I'm overthinking everything.

[Y3333T]

Do you think I should make the "night" snaps special? To make her interested?