I found my sister's d**do and now things are awkward?

[Anonymous]

I am 16 and I have an older sis who is 20.

I left my charger in her room yesterday and went to get it back and she was in the room too sitting on a chair doing her work. I went in and was looking around and found a d**do on the bed.

She must have realised that later that I saw it on the bed. Anyone would have seen it there. Now things are awkward between us. She is avoiding me lol

What should I do? Should I say sorry for invading her privacy like that?

[Effably]

I really don't get why you'd need to apologize. Or why everyone jumped onto that strange doublestandard. From the sound of it you normally entered her room with whatever permisson or procedure your family has. Your sister had left it out in the open. If I left some sex toy and my younger sister accidentally saw it without doing anything odd you can bet she'd not be the one expected to apologize.

You apologizing also doesn't make it any less weird for either of you. Come on Gag, you don't solve things like this.

Honestly, I'd advise you do the exact opposite. Crack some joke at her expense when just you two are around. Then shrug and offer to start knocking. The lighthearted punishment will do much more to alleviate her feeling she messed up than a nonsense sorry would.

[OnlyAdie]

Yeah definitely apologise but don’t bring up seeing anything. Just say sorry for invading her space and that you only wanted to get your charger back and have now realised you should have asked to go in first.

[Maz_28]

If she's avoiding you and she knows you saw it, just leave her a note just saying you apologise and yes you did see it but its no problem, nothing needs to be weird, its normal, natural and people have needs etc, and it'll likely be something you'll laugh about in time to come.

[siseñor]

uh this happened with me & my bro too lol & i just said 'ok' & walked away. over time it became less of a big deal & i made fun of him & he took it well
dw about it mate, just dont talk about it or make it a bigger deal than it is

[siseñor]

oh wait it wasn't a d**do tho loool

[JuliaStyles]

Frankly your story sounds like fiction. Everything sounds a little too coincidental. I certainly would not leave a vibrator on the bed for all to see unless I wanted someone to use it on me. Makes you wonder doesn't it?

[Asker]

It happened by accident bruh

[JuliaStyles]

Sorry, I find that hard to believe. Those are put away right after use, not left on the bed for all to see. Nice story though. You need some more practice before becoming a writer.

[someginger]

Well it's gonna be awkward for a little bit but nearky all girls own a dildo. I would just ignore it and move on. You will look back on it soon and laugh

[Bubbles45]

Don't say anything about it, if she says something first just say sorry.

[Anonymous]

HA! I stumbled across my sisters uhm friend by accident as well i just didn't say anything. She didn't say anything. Overtime it'll be forgotten and she might even think "well maybe he didn't see it". When you come down to it most women have them.

[pigoat]

My mom showed me her dildo

And i didn't give a fuck


You 2 need to grow up

[siseñor]

what the fuck thats so weird lool

[Bee-Hatch]

Close family I guess. Maybe a bit too close

[Agape93]

Apologize and next time, ask her to get the charger for you.

[slatyb]

Just tell her sorry, it seems you're embarrassed but it's no big deal. I won't mention it to anyone.

[Not_Average]

Who the hell cares lol. Just move on. Not a big deal so don’t make it weird by over thinking it.

[art84]

If I were you, I wouldn't mention what you saw in her room.

[scott04sa22]

Keep it cool and don't talk about it unless she mentions it.

[joeldalton]

Ignore it. Act like it never happened. Never mention it again.

[mrsbeegirl]

if i was her, i’d prefer you not address it. we all masturbate but there tends to be a lot more taboo around it for girls. just forget about it.

[Sarahr123]

Just talk to her as usual and don’t bring it up

[Whtevernever]

You don't mention it and move on with your life.

[harmon]

Don't talk about it.

[_Troian_]

Find her a boyfriend