Girl wearing a choker means she DTF?

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N192K001 · Accepted Answer

W. T. F.‽  No, people do things for different reasons , ('selecting clothes' included). Assuming meanings to others' actions is a risky endeavor.  It's a reason the social-sciences (a. k. a. 'the soft-sciences') aren't as respected as solid & reliable as the physical-sciences ('hard-sciences' or just 'science' itself, as though the social-sciences aren't sciences at all)  by a good number of people: Inanimate-objects react the consistently way to the same stimuli, so finding causes and/or predicting outcomes is simpler & more straightforward. BUT sentient humans can react the same way to the same stimuli, the same way to the different stimuli, differently to the same stimuli, or differently to different stimuli, so finding the causes and/or predicting outcomes is much trickier. Why? People are different and can choose to do different things for different reasons. The same goes with people choosing what clothes to wear. In my case, I've had multiple people think I wanted to f— them, kill them, seduce them, kidnap them, and/or physically-assault them for no  substantive  reason. For actual, understandable reason? Sure! • Yes, I did accidentally look at someone while drawing a newly-sharpened knife while visibly furious (at something utterly unrelated to the person I momentarily saw). • Yes, the tree I was watching like a hawk so I could use the plant as a guidepost while parking was in the general direction of a little, soon-to-be-panic-stricken girl-child who ran sobbing to her mother as quickly as her feet could carry her. • Yes, I did mention I was 'looking for something to  do ' and visibly lean toward the general direction of an admittedly-attractive colleague (who was outside the range of my peripheral-vision). But for  substantive  grounds? lol Hell, no! Those actions were done for reasons utterly unrelated to what witnesses (even 'multiple witnesses'!) concluded. The same mistake seems to be done in this case.

razelove · Accepted Answer

I think a little clarity is needed there. A girl wearing a choker, which is most females who do wear them, is a girl, and whether she's DTF or not, is still a child. They have been, and still are most common among children. If that's what you're chasing, oh boy, forget the choker, get a claw hammer and double tap that scrotum.

Anywho, assuming that was some miscommunication, or that you've already removed yourself from the gene pool, women wear them for a variety of reasons. I typically assume that if I do wind up in a situation where they want to have sex with me that they're more likely to be submissive, but it's a weaker link than averting the eyes, baggy clothing, so on and so forth.

Now a collar on a woman is a different story. Straight up start that conversation asking if she has a master first. You don't want her getting punished when she gets home because you didn't know what rules she abides by.

You used the term girl, and at least 3 of them look like they're under 12. Get that claw hammer, a solid table top, and something to bite down on. You know what you have to do.

crazyish · Accepted Answer

Nah brah, if I'm wearing a choker than its for my man, if I had one, that dominates me in the bedroom so butt out of my foreplay, please. Can't speak for all women. Isn't everyone technically DTF naturally? I mean I would hope so. Even when the right circumstances are needed, you're still DTF.. so your assumption is technically correct but the choker is just irrelevant.

Girl not wearing a choker = DTF
Girl wearing a choker = DTF
Me wearing a choker = DTF/letting my man know what's happening later😉

slizzle01 · Accepted Answer

I'm not saying it's true, but every one of my friends that wears a choker is a total slut.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

This is just silly. Why did you invite me to this question? Lmao

That's like saying every guy who owns a tie works a corporate job.

Wearing a piece of clothing/accessory shouldn't signify anything to you and it is predatory thoughts like that which leaves women having to answer questions in sexual assault or r*pe cases as to the manner of clothing they were wearing.

Maybe stay on your side of the fence and stop breaking down every action a woman takes as a sexual suggestion.

Siren777 · Answer

No not at all in today's time but through the course of history the choker was regarded as symbolic to identify a prostitute in some parts of Europe, in the 1800 - 1900. Also, in the world of BDSM a dom relationships. Doms would give his subs chokers or expensive jewelry as ownership almost as symbol of a ball gag. However it was worn for different purposes even for adornment through history. So that's where they got the idea from for the meme.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

What an absolutely ridiculous post! First of all chokers are primarily a fashion that’s popular with TWEENS. So, this whole thing has a massive PEDO stench! Second there is NOTHING a woman wears that “tells you” anything, because… Third, even if a woman wore a shirt with DTF of it, the ONLY thing that “tells you” is that she likes that fuckin’ shirt, you idiot!

KatherineJ · Answer

Or here’s a novel thought: maybe she just likes how they look? Not everything is a statement, or sex related.

123lucy · Answer

You think any girls disagreeing with you are lying when they're the people you're actually talking about?

ZackBan · Answer

I found that the girls that look the least like freaks in the bed are exactly that. While those who only do vanilla stuff and sometimes not even that compensate by giving themselves the illusion that they're all about sex.

Basically: "A lion doesn't need to tell you he's a lion".

doopayo · Answer

Why do men have to make everything sexual. It’s literally just a piece of jewelry

Elliegirl · Answer

Maybe she just thinks it’s cute. It doesn’t have to mean anything other than she likes how it looks.

Toast792 · Answer

It's literally just a style choice? Are you brain dead?

SavageGirl101 · Answer

That’s not what it means stop sexualizing chokers gosh

Jessica405 · Answer

What a load of bullshit!! Dreamed up by some guy (s) to promote themselves!

Ronald_25 · Answer

I wouldn't assume, I'd ask her. As a woman it could be for fashion/ accessory she likes or she's DTF, either way, she's probably not going to tell you, it's your job to figure it out 🤷🏽‍♂️ my SO wears it too, in our relationship, it's code for "I'm horny, let's fuck soon"

lucyloo76 · Answer

They are very nice to wear. Didn't know it mean that. A bit stupid really...

jasmine_0603 · Answer

Uhm, no - those are just memes and have nothing to do with the truth. I've been wearing chokers since I was like 12, still do and I am a virgin. I just like how they look.

purplepoppy · Answer

So is it like a martial arts belt? You work up the colours until you get a black one?

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

It may just be because it’s a trend or they like choking. But I’m sure that it’s because it’s just a trend. But the quickest way for you to get anal sex and a blow job and really kinky sex is to hire a sex worker.

Kvinnan · Answer

I wear it on a regular basis, sometimes two or three at once, and being in the field of development/research, it gets an eye raise ngl 😅🤣 but yeah mostly that is one of the first things that guys notice and sorta call out on. They don't assume that I'm dtf, but they deffo make sure to mention how it's sexy. All. the. time

yeahitsmegrace · Answer

Of course not, my younger sister wears chokers, she's in 6th grade. I don't think accessories and clothings have anything to do with this

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

No it doesn't mean that. Do you really believe that?

Bellatris · Answer

Or maybe they don't mean anything at all, and they're worn because those who wear them just like them. Why does everything have to 'mean' something these days?

humanearth · Answer

Did that make me a whore, because I wore collar in my Goth years?

_SillyShoes_ · Answer

It means she's a tween who likes to pretend they were born in the 90's - seeing as that's 'in' right now.

princeofromance · Answer

I do not agree with that statemen what so ever. Who's to say a girl / woman wearing a choker is a Ho. Someone put false ideas into people's minds over the years, saying girls who wear chokers are sluts. There is no hard evidence to back up this theory.

Anonymous · Answer

to me chokers are a thing of the 90's where it was very common for pre-teens or young teens, so this statement is very disturbing xP

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Yeah and every guy with a tank in their pfp is asking to be shot in the dick

sheikalana · Answer

Most girls who wear chockers don't know there's a meaning associated to it so I'd say no.

modelUN242 · Answer

Yeah... I feel weird wearing one, like being perceived that I’m into BDSM or something...

slatyb · Answer

No, the only way to find out is to talk to a woman. Even if she is looking for a partner, with your attitude, it's probably not you.

Anonymous · Answer

No way. I like chokers but I don’t spread my legs for everyone I like. In fact, I haven’t even had more than 2 bedpartners

TheFireTiger · Answer

The necklace Shoker is elegant, nice and classic.  If women wear Shokers didn't mean that. That's meme are not funny.

jshm2 · Answer

Goth chicks are rarely DTF, kiddo.  You need to be packing some serious vibes to get any lovin from that group.

Anonymous · Answer

Everything you need to know about the opposite sex is not accurately conveyed by memes.

WhiteSteve · Answer

Can a necklace just be a necklace?😂 These were popular with women when I was in high school, it didn’t signify anything then, doubt it does now either.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

It means she is a hoe, but not quite as much as multiple piercings.

shade_19 · Answer

Now that's some real useless bullshit  what kind of people make such captions.. how jobless can they be?

Browneye57 · Answer

Uh, no, it's a fashion thing.  They'll let you know if they're DTF. Trust me on this.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

It’s a stereotype but I can understand why people make that assumption

AmeerX · Answer

It is none of our business if a girl wears a choker or not. A good girl will be a good girl even if she sucked 1000 men and a bad girl will hurt others

Raskad · Answer

No? It means she decided to wear a choker wha--bro, memes aren't a good source of facts.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

yes i have experienced this too. they always fuck on command

Anonymous · Answer

Wearing something innocent as a pretty necklace is now something bad, can never enjoy a chocker again sad.

JamieLoves · Answer

Are you stupid? Or just Stupid? Chokes mean nothing! If she has a collar with a lock on it, she’s owned! She has a Dom and she’d his slave. Dot try to even go near her.

sleepycabin · Answer

Nah I wore them in highschool but I was still a virgin and I still am :/ don't want to have sex before marriage.

exitseven · Answer

I never heard of this before. I find it hard to believe.

Kabluie · Answer

Tattoo chokers are so common with teenagers again, that you really shouldn't read into it.

kellytheman · Answer

I have had girls wear chokers during sex because they wanted to be choked during sex and I was afraid to choke them

K-I-S-S · Answer

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loveslongnails · Answer

Are you that desperate for a blowjob that you'll turn an article of jewelry into a secret signal that sex is available? LOL

yourbabygirl921 · Answer

The fudge 😒 I like wesring choker it's my style and NO I'm not down to anything sexual

Anonymous · Answer

kinda like how wearing an earring in the right ear makes men gay

Wiredone · Answer

I didn't know they had a meaning. I just thought they liked the look

Ellie-V · Answer

That’s an ignorant assumption.

Ryfyle · Answer

Chokers are also used to hide Adams Apples in Trans individuals or grotesque Troons.

Vanquo · Answer

Form what I have seen, more like these girls are attention w**res

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

While this might be somewhat true, she ain’t fucking u bro.

Anonymous · Answer

No... consent means she’s DTF

cth96190 · Answer

A choker is a sex slave’s day collar, in the world of BDSM.

Shlie · Answer

Hahahaha wtf no

OddBeMe · Answer

No, consent still needs to be given speedy Gonzalez.

Anonymous · Answer

Well all those "memes" are all 100% created by men

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