I like this girl quite a bit and she usually replies to me very quickly, however, I went home from college and didn't really have the energy or time to text her for about two days. I had some time yesterday evening and texted her explaining that I was busy traveling and working on some computer programs and that's why I hadn't replied to her for so long. I then woke up and received the following message: conversation* Ever since, she hasn't replied, when she usually replies very quickly (I took around 30mn to reply).
I didn't reply to a girl for about two days and now she seems to be angry, what should I do?
The problem is that you ignored someone you supposedly like for 2 days. How to fix this? Next time tell them upfront how busy you'll be and how long. So that way she knows ur busy for a couple days working on programs, instead of spending her 48 hours wondering why you're ignoring her, if you're bored of her, if you're talking to someone new, or whatever other reasons her brain came up with. she's probably distrustful of you at the moment because why would someone who likes her suddenly stop talking. Must not be that interested so now she better step back so she doesn't get her feelings hurt more.
Do you get it?
How to fix? Communication. I would message her and admit what you did was dumb. That you were just really busy and you see now why not re ssd ponding for a couple days wouldve upset her, that it would upset you too. Then apologize. If you directly acknowledge you fucked up (you did here by not telling her) and apologize while showing you empathize it should clear up if she wants it to. She could be ignoring you for awhile now because you did it to her and she doesn't want to seem overly interested when u dont seem to be interested in her as much.
It's two days, that's nothing. You're entitled to some personal time to get work done. I think it's fine.
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Anonymous
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Learn your lesson. You don’t treat people like that. It’s disrespectful and shows, or at least give the imoression, that you don’t care. It’s also what all the players do, so it gives off those vibes. And ”busy”, yeah right. BS. You had time to reply, it takes 10 seconds. You just decided you didn’t want to and couldn’t be bothered, so why would she waste any more of her time on you? Sgain, learn you lesson so that you don’t screw up again with the next person you like because this girl’s done with you.
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