Why do women behave like this?

[Anonymous]

I invited my best friend out for a girls night out last night for the 2 of us. A few mins later my date arrived... I didn’t tell her ahead of time- so what? The guy blanked her when he last encountered her, and made it clear that he didn’t want to talk to her. He said it was wasting our time together. She misinterpreted this is “racist”, since my friend is black, and he is white. I’m white. I felt that she was playing the race card tbh. I left her on her own for the rest of the night, to hang out with the people in the club. I did tell him to talk to her and he reluctantly did so for a few mins. She got drunk, and then went crazy -confronted me about the above and was distressed. Why pressure me that way and ruin my night? Socialising and mixing is what going to your club is about - and my behaviour reasonably say within that. What a drama queen. As she was drunk and out of control, so I got the club security to throw her out on the street. Why do women behave like that? I don’t drink too much. I did call her my best friend up until last night, and she has organised my social life for 2 years and helped me in my personal life - but I can’t stand this drunk side of her. I also assumed she was lying about things, and it transpires she wasn’t, but what does she expect when she drinks like that? I never have more than 2 drinks, I got out to enjoy myself and have fun - not being drama like that way she did - detailed above. Tbh, I also think that she’s jealous at the male attention I get , as she’s a bit ugly and I’m a model.

[hhadeshatesme]

If I understand this correctly you invited a guy out for your girls night out and he was being a dick to her which started her bitchy attitude? If that’s the case and involving other points of the story sounds like if you drop her you’re doing her a favour.

[Asker]

He had previously not wanted to talk to her, as he just kind of felt like it wasted time. She should have just tried harder to talk to him or found other people to talk to, I feel like that is what socialising is about - meeting new people. It is not like I was on a 1-1 date with her, lol!

[hhadeshatesme]

You invited her out for a girls night out then didn’t tell her you were bringing a guy which would just make her a 3rd wheel, excluding her from the original plans. You’re date chose to be a dick to her (not agreeing that it had to do with race but that obviously would have turned her vibe sour). And then proceeded to ignore her for the rest of the night at the club. She got too drunk and you had her thrown out? Did you leave with her? Make sure she got home safe? Doesn’t sound like that in the description. And the ends it with she must be jealous of you. I don't know yous or the actual history but going off just this post you seem like a shitty friend. I would of handled her part differently but I’d also be pissed to if a friend of mine did what you did.

[Asker]

I didn’t check she got him safely as it isn’t my problem. She chose to get drunk and confrontational towards. Club wouldn’t have agreed to throw her out, if she behaved reasonably. She ruined my night, as an embarrassment. He didn’t ignore her , he blanked her previously, and talked to her on my instruction for 2 mins. I don’t know what more she could have expected ?

[hhadeshatesme]

It’s not your problem but you’d think you would care about her well-being as her “best friend”

[Asker]

You have to be realistic. She was super drinks and confronting me about refusing to engage her. She ruined my night by causing a scene, so she didn’t deserve to by mollycoddled, in the way you have explained/expected. Get drunk, your problem.

[hhadeshatesme]

The only thing you care about is her ruining your night without realizing you did the same to her long before she did. Best gift you can give her is removing yourself from her life if she hasn’t already broke contact with you.

[Asker]

Coincidentally, she raised the same points as you today. We just mutually decided to end it as I’m not apologising and I’m not repurposing myself as her date, to say today her needy expectations of a night out.

[hhadeshatesme]

It’s not neediness, she called you out for being a shitty friend. You invited her out just to ditch her for dick. Who wants to hang at a club around a bunch of randoms and have the only person you know there ignoring you.

[HotPinkDominatrxSlut]

Black women are extremely jealous of beautiful blonde hair blue eyed white girls especially those of us who are dating or married to black men. They're always so mad and jealous because us blonde hair blue eyed white girls are the most beautiful and men if all races live and want us and we of course love dark sexy black men and black women are so ugly and no man of any race wants them.

I'm a white girl I'm 4'11 and 88 lbs. with natural platinum blonde hair longer than I am tall and very bright very light blue eyes and always get told by men of all races that I'm the most beautiful girl they have ever seen and I'm happily married to and have kids with a very dark sexy black man.
Non blonde wig men especially black women have always been so jealous of me and black women get so mad and jealous when they see me with my black husband and black kids

[jae_jae]

So you invited your friend for a girls night out and then bought a date.

I wonder why she got pissed.

[Asker]

My interpretation of a girls night is going out socialising and mixing, and that socialising and mixing might be with people that aren’t men. So what? I don’t want to spend my time with just one person/exclusively with my best friend?

[jae_jae]

I don't know Ms model. You sound like a outstanding friend.

[Anonymous]

You are a joke. This whole thing is a trolling joke.