What do girls think about guys who don't focus much on women?

[Anonymous]

What I mean is, I don't spend my time trying to pick up loads of girls and I focus more on my studies and work. Also, it's just not the way I like to meet women anymore. I prefer to meet them through social networking and such. If I did meet a girl that I liked though I would definitely ask her out.

If you liked a guy and knew he didn't focus much on girls would that make you less interested in him? Would you think he wouldn't pay attention to you if you end up having a relationship with him?

[Anonymous]

The guy I like right now is like that. He is going to law school this fall so he is really focused on school. The problem is that I'm not the type of girl to chase a guy and he ignores me all the time..im not sure why. So we're pretty much at a dead end. Since he isn't giving me any attention at all, I'm starting to lose interest or at least I'm really trying to.

[Anonymous]

I don't care if he doesn't focus on "girls." If he doesn't focus on me though that's a different story. I won't be the pursuer, and if he's so into his studies/work then we'd probably never meet in the first place.

[blufrenzy93]

It would only make me less interested in him if he never paid any attention to me or didn't want to hang out, etc. I think he would show he had no real interest in me before we got together. I wouldn't make things official if I saw those signs.